Raising Nice Kids According to Harvard Scientists

Jul 4, 2016 | Views: 1,019

Nowadays, we often read news about children misbehaving, bullying others, being rude, hurting those around them, etc… Such bad behaviour in children has become a common phenomenon today and it is worrying. Therefore, instilling the qualities of kindness and compassion in the younger generation should be one of the most important priorities in our lives, be it as a parent or a guardian or an older sibling, because starting good habits from a young age ensures that our children grow up to become wonderful people who are beneficial to society.

I have written many times in the past about how we are our parents, and that through observing our parents, their habits, their good and bad qualities, we eventually become the person we are today… and in turn, we continue the same pattern with our children. This vicious cycle keeps going on and on until something positive like Dharma comes along to make a positive change in our lives.

I came across this article by a Harvard psychologist who has suggested simple daily methods that parents can apply in their children’s upbringing. The advice given by this psychologist is applicable to everyone whether you’re Buddhist or not, a fact I like very much because it means it is universal advice that everyone can relate to.

Always remember that being a great parent is not only about providing material needs… a huge part of parenting is to enrich your child’s life with good values, habits and universal good qualities. It is the best gift you can give them.

Please read and share with your friends.

Tsem Rinpoche

 


Are you raising nice kids? A Harvard psychologist gives 5 ways to raise them to be kind

By Amy Joyce

Earlier this year, I wrote about teaching empathy, and whether you are a parent who does so. The idea behind it is from Richard Weissbourd, a Harvard psychologist with the graduate school of education, who runs the Making Caring Common project, aimed to help teach kids to be kind.

I know, you’d think they are or that parents are teaching that themselves, right? Not so, according to a new study released by the group.

About 80 percent of the youth in the study said their parents were more concerned with their achievement or happiness than whether they cared for others. The interviewees were also three times more likely to agree that “My parents are prouder if I get good grades in my classes than if I’m a caring community member in class and school.”

Weissbourd and his cohorts have come up with recommendations about how to raise children to become caring, respectful and responsible adults. Why is this important? Because if we want our children to be moral people, we have to, well, raise them that way.

“Children are not born simply good or bad and we should never give up on them. They need adults who will help them become caring, respectful, and responsible for their communities at every stage of their childhood,” the researchers write.

The five strategies to raise moral, caring children, according to Making Caring Common:

 

1. Make caring for others a priority

Why? 

Parents tend to prioritize their children’s happiness and achievements over their children’s concern for others. But children need to learn to balance their needs with the needs of others, whether it’s passing the ball to a teammate or deciding to stand up for friend who is being bullied.

How?

Children need to hear from parents that caring for others is a top priority. A big part of that is holding children to high ethical expectations, such as honoring their commitments, even if it makes them unhappy. For example, before kids quit a sports team, band, or a friendship, we should ask them to consider their obligations to the group or the friend and encourage them to work out problems before quitting.

Try this

  • Instead of saying to your kids: “The most important thing is that you’re happy,” say “The most important thing is that you’re kind.”
  • Make sure that your older children always address others respectfully, even when they’re tired, distracted, or angry.
  • Emphasize caring when you interact with other key adults in your children’s lives. For example, ask teachers whether your children are good community members at school.

 

2. Provide opportunities for children to practice caring and gratitude

Why? 

It’s never too late to become a good person, but it won’t happen on its own. Children need to practice caring for others and expressing gratitude for those who care for them and contribute to others’ lives. Studies show that people who are in the habit of expressing gratitude are more likely to be helpful, generous, compassionate, and forgiving—and they’re also more likely to be happy and healthy.

How? 

Learning to be caring is like learning to play a sport or an instrument. Daily repetition—whether it’s a helping a friend with homework, pitching in around the house, or having a classroom job—make caring second nature and develop and hone youth’s caregiving capacities. Learning gratitude similarly involves regularly practicing it.

Try this

  • Don’t reward your child for every act of helpfulness, such as clearing the dinner table. We should expect our kids to help around the house, with siblings, and with neighbors and only reward uncommon acts of kindness.
  • Talk to your child about caring and uncaring acts they see on television and about acts of justice and injustice they might witness or hear about in the news.
  • Make gratitude a daily ritual at dinnertime, bedtime, in the car, or on the subway. Express thanks for those who contribute to us and others in large and small ways.

 

3. Expand your child’s circle of concern

Why? 

Almost all children care about a small circle of their families and friends. Our challenge is help our children learn to care about someone outside that circle, such as the new kid in class, someone who doesn’t speak their language, the school custodian, or someone who lives in a distant country.

How?

Children need to learn to zoom in, by listening closely and attending to those in their immediate circle, and to zoom out, by taking in the big picture and considering the many perspectives of the people they interact with daily, including those who are vulnerable. They also need to consider how their decisions, such as quitting a sports team or a band, can ripple out and harm various members of their communities. Especially in our more global world, children need to develop concern for people who live in very different cultures and communities than their own.

Try this

  • Make sure your children are friendly and grateful with all the people in their daily lives, such as a bus driver or a waitress.
  • Encourage children to care for those who are vulnerable. Give children some simple ideas for stepping into the “caring and courage zone,” like comforting a classmate who was teased.
  • Use a newspaper or TV story to encourage your child to think about hardships faced by children in another country.

 

4. Be a strong moral role model and mentor

Why? 

Children learn ethical values by watching the actions of adults they respect. They also learn values by thinking through ethical dilemmas with adults, e.g. “Should I invite a new neighbor to my birthday party when my best friend doesn’t like her?”

How?

Being a moral role model and mentor means that we need to practice honesty, fairness, and caring ourselves. But it doesn’t mean being perfect all the time. For our children to respect and trust us, we need to acknowledge our mistakes and flaws. We also need to respect children’s thinking and listen to their perspectives, demonstrating to them how we want them to engage others.

Try this:

  • Model caring for others by doing community service at least once a month. Even better, do this service with your child.
  • Give your child an ethical dilemma at dinner or ask your child about dilemmas they’ve faced.

 

5. Guide children in managing destructive feelings

Why?

Often the ability to care for others is overwhelmed by anger, shame, envy, or other negative feelings.

How?

We need to teach children that all feelings are okay, but some ways of dealing with them are not helpful. Children need our help learning to cope with these feelings in productive ways.

Try this

Here’s a simple way to teach your kids to calm down: ask your child to stop, take a deep breath through the nose and exhale through the mouth, and count to five. Practice when your child is calm. Then, when you see her getting upset, remind her about the steps and do them with her. After a while she’ll start to do it on her own so that she can express her feelings in a helpful and appropriate way.

 

[Extracted from http://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2014/07/18/are-you-raising-nice-kids-a-harvard-psychologist-gives-5-ways-to-raise-them-to-be-kind/]

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  1. Tsa Tsa Anne on Feb 18, 2021 at 12:09 am

    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing this wonderful article and good advice for young parents on how to raise their kids successfully. 👏👍😍

  2. Wan Wai Meng on Dec 1, 2016 at 2:40 am

    Reading this article again tells me that, whether as parents, teachers or people who are holding responsibility, or of influence, if we want the next generation to have certain qualities and aptitude, we really have to walk the talk.

    If we want to inculcate care to the ones we care about, the family has to function harmoniously and with kindness towards one another. We cannot preach or expect others to do what we expect of them, when we are not living it ourselves.

  3. sonny tan on Sep 13, 2016 at 10:55 am

    It is never easy to raise kids these days with so many distractions especially in the urban areas. With so many shopping malls, entertainment outlets are mushrooming every other day and being bombarded constantly by so many media highlighting whatever they are selling. The latest fad is the social media spiraling everywhere it has infiltrated every corner, every family and normal conversations among family members has taken a backseat.
    It has come to a point where many parents are feeling hopeless and sad that they would have to compete with these poison so much so that kids today are being shaped by society in their outlook, attitudes, speech and their behavior and perhaps their future.
    However bad and grim the outlook or the circumstances maybe hopes are never lost if we take immediate steps to stop this rotting of our family values by inculcating in them family unity and introducing to them Buddhism. Dharma classes should be started when they are still young so that we filled their brains with right mental attitude. For those who have grown up kids it is a very delicate situation if approach are done with force they may turned around with hostility, gentle persuasion, patience and tolerance is a definite a prerequisite and setting an example by changing ourselves is always the first step in achieving our objectives. Secondary to that pujas, candle lighting would always help because we are invoking the enlightened to assist in our mundane problems

  4. Wah Ying on Aug 12, 2016 at 12:27 am

    Thanks Rinpoche for sharing this article. The research is kind of providing another direction apart from mainstream thinking of our society, whether Western or Eastern, which emphasis very much on bringing up smart and intelligent children who could raise up to be the best in the society.

    1. Make caring for others a priority
    — It’s so true that we always and hearing people around us telling children or we telling oursleves that “the most important thing is you are happy”, it seems nothing wrong to say in this way, in fact it’s not. By saying this whenever we need to make decision which involve others, or whenever we see something unfair happen around us, we are actually encouraging someone/oursleves to focus in to “me” only, without considering how our decision having impact on another person or a bigger group of people. And, stay silence when we see unfairness, is actually helping the bullies.

    2. Provide opportunities for children to practice caring and gratitude
    — By reinforcing the positive behaviours, ultimately we will act out the positive things naturally 🙂

    3. Expand your child’s circle of concern
    — I believe this helps one, not only children but adults to connect their tiny world with the rest of the world, and the inter-connection within all elements of the world, including themselves.

    4. Be a strong moral role model and mentor
    — Educating by lecturing does not help much, compared to be a moral. Aren’t we look up on people who walk their talk as well?

    5. Guide children in managing destructive feelings
    — EQ is as important as IQ, it helps in our social life and career as well.

  5. Wei Theng on Aug 5, 2016 at 10:39 pm

    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing this article.

    Raising kids in this era is not an easy task. Especially they are now expose to a lot of information of the outside world through the internet. Some information are good while some are bad and they may not able to distinguish it. At the same time, they also have their own view and not like my time previously that will just follow what that parents says although we may not like it sometimes.

    The points that given by the Harvard Scientists are so similar to Rinpoche’s teaching that we should always instil the Dharma values to our kids eg be kind, compassion and respect to others.

    May my kids always be closed to Dharma and always learn and practice Dharma.

  6. Pastor Han Nee on Aug 4, 2016 at 11:28 am

    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing this article on Parenting and How to be Good Parents.

    Good parenting -are we raising kids to become truly happy? Are we inculcating the right skills for their true happiness?

    “My parents are prouder if I get good grades in my classes than if I’m a caring community member in class and school.” This is the response of the majority of children interviewed in a recent study.

    Parents today are the products of their parents’ parenting. Hence in this materialistic-driven world, it has been a vicious cycle of our parents transmitting the importance of materialistic success over moral-wellbeing to us and we likewise, unthinkingly transmitting this to our children. Priorities are all wrong and these wrong priorities continue to be tranasmitted and propagated. Material success is hyped up as a necessity for survival .

    Every generation of children grows up with the incessant clamour of material success and the rat race in their ears.But do these pursuits yield happiness?Maybe for a while. Then when things start to go wrong or when their pursuits remain a pipe dream, disillusionment sets in. Depression overcomes them and without being armed with the right coping skills for crises, when things go wrong or don’t go the way they want them to or when their material achievements crumble like sand-castles washed by the waves, they go down; depression, loss of self-esteem , fears and anxieties born of self-centeredness grip them. Suicide eventually becomes for their deluded mind the ultimate release.

    Good parenting, as this article shows, requires us as parents to teach our kids, from a very early age, that we are not independent self-sufficient beings; rather, we are very dependent on others for our well-being and success. Furthermore,our negative actions have harmful repercussions on others. Good parenting requires us to teach our chidren to respect , be grateful,appreciate and care for others beyond family and to not be incessantly thinking ” I want it,so I must have it”.

    Above all, good parenting requires us to teach our children that being kind is more important than being materially successful. Life -stories abound of rich spoilt selfish kids wasting their lives,indulging in all kinds of luxuries and then when the umbrella of good fortune, material success and opulence is removed from them, they crash!

    However, the best and most effective form of parenting is when we practice what we teach. Be role models. But never mislead children into thinking that we are perfect. We need to acknowledge that we have our faults too and we are working on them. Children will relate better with us, when they know we are for real.

    As reseach shows, “Children are not born simply good or bad and we should never give up on them. They need adults who will help them become caring, respectful, and responsible for their communities at every stage of their childhood.

    So let’s begin to be serious and right-minded about parenting!

  7. Jill Yam on Aug 2, 2016 at 11:52 am

    Being parents are not easy and raising kids is definitely even harder. Parents are role models for their kids and they should set good examples. First thing they must do is to teach them to have gratitude and be kind.

    Children nowadays take a lot of things for granted and some didn’t even know the value of things expecially material things.

    The best gift a parent can give to their child is the gift of Dharma. With Dharma knowledge they can grow up to be more tolerant and kind towards all sentient beings. In this way children can be raised to be moral people.

    The 5 ways that Harvard scientist pointed out is exactly what Rinpoche always emphasises  in His teachings. Thank you Rinpoche for the sharing as well.

    Jill Yam

  8. Pastor Niral Patel on Jul 28, 2016 at 3:06 am

    I like this very much, Amy Joyce clear states the qualities that His Eminence has always advised parents for raising children make a difference according to psychology. In fact these are the same qualities that Kechara Sunday Dharma School (KSDS) seeks to instill in the children who attend classes.

    Pastor Adeline, with her team of dedicated volunteer teachers, give their all and have spent the last couple of years honing their skills at teaching these qualities. In fact we have seen a vast improvement in the behaviour of the children who attend.

    The qualities mentioned in this article really mirrors what the Buddha taught. For example caring for others is the development of compassion, which is a necessary component on the path to enlightenment; being grateful for what we have makes us appreciate life, our circumstances and ‘frees’ our minds to care about others; expanding our circle of care is a necessary part of developing equanimity for all sentient beings; having a strong code of conduct, morals and values makes us better people and makes sure we do not engage in activity that creates negative karma, this is the purpose of vows within Buddhism; and the management of negative and destructive emotions is the path towards enlightenment, only then can we achieve the highest of realisations.

    It is amazing to see that the very same things that were taught by Buddha Shakyamuni over 2,500 years ago and the great masters since that time, is the same that modern psychology also tells us. If we practice these, not only our children, we can see a real difference in our lives and those of our loved ones.

  9. Beatrix Ooi on Jul 25, 2016 at 6:57 am

    Parenting is indeed one of the most toughest jobs because children reflect their parents, it’s a tough job because there’s no guarantee whether if the child will turn out so called “good” or “bad”.

    Most of the parents think that materialism is what will satisfied the child but they are very wrong, they are digging a hole for the child to jump because children are naive and certainly they do not know what is right or wrong. Materialism is what will spoil the children and it’s a very wrong thing to teach a child, always spend time to love and hear them out, never give them the idea that money is everything.

  10. Pastor Shin Tan on Jul 25, 2016 at 3:50 am

    Parenting has never been easy, there have always been challenges. But, parents today face the more challenges in today’s fast-paced, hectic society. For example, dealing with new technology, rapidly changing family dynamics, an overwhelmed educational system and much more. More than that, we are talking about raising caring, respectful and responsible adult, which is even harder.

    The five strategies are simple, but they are not easy to implement. However, I believe these guidelines will be valuable for parents, as well as caretakers, teachers and relatives – especially in Asian society where the extended families also have influences on the children.

    In our modern society of individualistic culture, selfishness is one of the major causes of excessive anger, defiant and controlling behaviors and rage in children and in teenagers. Good to see that number 1 strategy by the Harvard team is “Make caring for others a priority”. This definitely is a good start!

  11. Sharon Ong on Jul 14, 2016 at 12:00 am

    These are great parenting tips. No. 5 is a really good one as we usually try to talk the kids through when they are already angry, upset, etc. and most of the time, it might not work effectively. It is definitely a better idea to practice when the kids are calm and relaxed as this way, they will most likely remember what to do the next time these negative feelings arise. Before reading this post, I taught my kids is to chant mantras whenever they encounter anger, frustration, nervousness or other negative emotions. This is to help distract themselves from the negative emotions that they were feeling and also by the powers of the mantras themselves, the good energies would calm their agitated mind, bless them and those around them. It helps that my kids know the power of mantras and have faith in them.

    Am glad to have signed up my kids for Kechara Sunday Dharma School as the caring and dedicated teachers are already helping me teach my boys Nos. 1 to 5 in ways that are not only fun and creative but effective too.

    Thank you with folded hands. With Rinpoche’s blessings and teachings, may our children blossom into kind, compassionate and spiritual adults.

  12. Colin Tan on Jul 13, 2016 at 12:02 pm

    Great article! Most parents would think that raising children is just to provide material support and good education and neglected the importance of raising a kind and compassionate child as suggested in this article. Do we really understand our children’s inner world and their emotional growth? Do we know how they think or feel and how they express their feeling? If we’re willing to take some time off our busy schedule and invite children to share their feelings and daily encounter in school or at home, we will be surprised to notice that they are excited and happy during the sharing as they feel treasured to have our attention. If children are given the proper channel to express their feelings, and they learn the appropriate way to express, they will eventually learn that all feelings are ok, accept feelings as they are and not treating feelings as monster or suppress them. The simple method (# 5) mentioned in the article is one of the appropriate ways for children to calm down when they’re upset. By doing this, they know that getting angry is not the only option and it’s not helpful in any situation too. When they know how to handle and accept their own feeling, treating others with respect and empathy will naturally become a part of them.

    Expressing gratitude as mentioned in the article is another great daily ritual that parents can practice at dinner time or bedtime. Leading children to express their appreciation to their elders/friends who help them will be a great substitute to parents’ reprimand or nag at dinner table. We tend to scold kids when come to rectify what we think is improper. Instead, we can choose to show them how to express our own feeling in a more appropriate way and to express gratitude for others. When parents and children choose loving and caring expression over anger and hatred, I’m sure creating a society filled with compassion, peace and respect is no longer an unattainable dream.

  13. CindyH on Jul 10, 2016 at 6:33 pm

    Truly, what could be more important than teaching the future generation a sense of caring and social responsibility? Equipping them with the academic skills, such as reading, writing, math, history, and geography, and computer etc. is all fine and good but if parents neglect to teach them to be caring and compassionate, have the parents really given them all they need for fulfilling their potential and achieving a sense of joy and satisfaction in their lives? Of course, this then entails the parents too, walking the talk and being a good example for their children. And the strategies set out in this Harvard findings are practical enough to serve as either starting points or reference for improvement purposes. Interestingly, such strategies echo what our guru, His Eminence the 25th Tsem Rinpoche have been emphasising all along.

  14. Lew on Jul 10, 2016 at 2:01 am

    This article by Harvard is indeed interesting, because these ways are being taught by Tsem Rinpoche too. 🙂

    One of the ways I find that it is effective is to let the kids do community works. For me, I let my kids to join Kechara Soup Kitchen in Medan Tuanku, where they play with the kids of homeless, and also teach them to draw and write. I can see that they enjoy themselves, may be because they feel great as they have done something meaningful.

    I am yet to teach the 5th way, which is to take deep breath when angry. It is indeed a very good tip, especially nowadays, things happen so fast, and we (both kids and myself) don’t have the time to process and think carefully before we react.

  15. tong sun sun on Jul 9, 2016 at 10:56 pm

    说起现今的父母实在无法理解,因为在教养孩子 方面实在是糟透。我不明白他们为何会认为这种教法是对的??
    因为现在大多是双新父母,为了弥补孩子的相处常常以金钱满足孩子,以物质填补孩子。久而久之就形成孩子不思进取,常常伸手拿钱认为理所当然。
    现在的家庭都是少子化,所以都特别娇生惯养,特别自私,霸凌同学和别人相处一定要别人迁就。
    受不了委屈,在职场永远是老板同事的错所以常常失业,又或者是只想当老板,好吃懒做常常只是想多于行动。或是蜗居在家“啃老本”(吃喝父母的退休金)有些还娶了太太一起啃!!
    其实这些孩子有这些行为举止都是父母本身造成的,父母的身教对孩子是一面镜子,常常看到报道孩子在学校被老师处罚父母当着孩子的面前数落老师,甚至还会动手,以这种身教教导孩子让孩子看在眼里就认为只要是够凶狠万事可解决,也可以说没王法了 。也让孩子以为动粗和暴力就可以解决问题。
    有时候在餐厅遇到一些离谱的父母就是让孩子在哭闹也不劝停,还一脸自豪说我给孩子百分自由发挥!!!我常常认为小孩做错了应该有一些设当体罚是应该的。(并不是暴打)
    孩子真的要教养,并不是天生天养!!如果做不到不如不养!

  16. HelenaC on Jul 9, 2016 at 3:40 pm

    I have seen many monster kids especially nowadays, parents are just busy working and forgot the importance of raising a children with good values in life. Its sad to see kids these days have no respect to anything, not even parents or themselves.
    These days parents only focusing on good educations but they forgetting morality as importance as well. I believe feeding the children with good values and feed them Dharma from young is important as i have seen children in kechara, they are growing up as a good human, kind, loving and caring. Great example like Beatrice, Liang Jing and many of them. I think that is the greatest gift from a perents as no matter how smart and how great you are, nothing beats a kind heart.

    Thank you for sharing the article Rinpoche.

    Love, Helena

  17. William Chua on Jul 9, 2016 at 3:00 pm

    I love this article. Even though I do not have kids of my own, it is worth sharing with my family and friends. It provides examples that is easy to understand. It really makes sense as children will observe and follow the actions of their parents. Therefore, parents should set good example so that their children will emulate. Also parents should guide their children to be kind to others and be caring to others. Start with family and move out of the circle. Especially to those who help or servicing us.

    Just like what Rinpoche said: “Always remember that being a great parent is not only about providing material needs… a huge part of parenting is to enrich your child’s life with good values, habits and universal good qualities. It is the best gift you can give them.” Give them this gift and you will be assured that they will be okay for the rest of their lives. Hopefully, this will start to change a generation for the future of humanity.

  18. Stella Cheang on Jul 8, 2016 at 11:58 pm

    This is an awesome article that give us a new angle in looking at providing a non-traditional learning experience for the children. In fact, I see that Kechara Sunday Dharma School (KSDS) has been the very platform that sustained these guidelines in KSDS classes through a variation of methods. The “Try This” ideas are very practical and applicable, we can all learn from this article.

    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing with us the article from Amy Joyce.

    Humbly, bowing down,
    Stella Cheang

  19. Paul Yap on Jul 6, 2016 at 11:29 am

    Often, schools, colleges and universities are very much focusing on demanding good grades and individual performance. This has resulted in the parents and kids focusing in taking care oneself rather than looking out giving helping hands to those needed. Our society has already becomes very materialistic and individualistic, and the effect has even far greater destruction to our environment and existence .
    This article’s idea is very similar to Buddhist teaching, for one to become kinder and generous for other. When we are focusing on helping others and for their benefit, ultimately we will develop compassion and real happiness. This is essential for the development of our children during their growing years, making them a healthier and stronger person for the family, our country and sustainability of our environment.

  20. Pastor Adeline on Jul 6, 2016 at 5:05 am

    Children are our precious leaders in the making, the future of our country and planet earth. A healthy, harmony and peaceful country rely on the children. Children who do not concern about others is the main cause for an unhealthy and disharmony society and their parents are responsible for it.

    It is important for everyone, children and adults alike, to put others’ priority before their own in order for good qualities to arise in them. Integrity, persistence etc. high ethical standards can then be expected from them. Thus forming a much needed caring and loving world.

    With this understanding, the Kechara Sunday Dharma School (KSDS) for children age 2-18 are being nurtured with Buddhist values and methods that are very much aligned with the Harvard psychologist’s findings. We are very blessed to have such a setting in Kechara for this area of works to be done due to the kindness of our guru, His Eminence the 25th Tsem Rinpoche. We continue to work hand-in-hand with the parents for nice kids to be raised.

  21. Chris Chong on Jul 5, 2016 at 5:48 pm

    Dear Rinpoche,

    Thank you for sharing this article with us. Parents nowadays are overly protective and paranoid when it comes to their children. They show them with love and care and blocked anything negative that will reach their children. It is very good for them to do that but, an overprotected child is being ripped off the chance for them to fall and learn. Easy life do not encourage improvement. They only encourage laziness and self-centered. The child can only learn when they are given difficult situation , then only they can thrive and learnt. There is not surprise when children of wealthy parents turned out to be spoilt brats. I’m not saying that only rich kids are spoilt brats, just that they have easier life than the rest. This article is very useful for parents to think about what’s best for their children.

    Humbly,
    Chris Chong

  22. Grace Leong on Jul 5, 2016 at 1:01 am

    In view of all the destructions that is taking place in our world today, we certainly need a whole new generation of people who are kinder and generous, more focused on others. Children must be guided this way from young. Then it will be natural for them to be kind to others.
    I am totally for the methods suggested in this article.
    Most parents ignorantly take on the approach whereby we teach our children to become very self centered. We provide them with too much material methods and easily forget that it doesn’t do them much good. The whole world with its commercial-focused trend does produce very selfish and inward looking people.
    As parents we need to realise our actions can make or break a child. We have to choose wisely.
    As Rinpoche said “we are our parents “; so what type of parent do we want to be ; what type of adults do we want to make of our children ?

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  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Jan 26. 2022 04:32 PM
    China has a long history in an ancient civilisation dated back to 4,000 BCE. A country filled with many beautiful mountains, highlands, ranges, hills, plains and so forth. Mount Wutai, known Wutaishan is one of them and is a sacred Buddhist site in Shanxi Province. It is one of the four great sacred Buddhist mountains of China as well as a World Heritage Site. A place worth visiting as it is rich in Buddhist culture and has a lot of spectacular natural scenery. With an altitude of 3061.1 m, amazingly gorgeous scenery Mount Wutai as the only one Bodhimanda of both Chinese and Tibetan Buddhism in the world. It has many historic valuable religious sites to admire which is associated with Manjushri a very special place in the more than 1,000 years of Buddhist and Chinese history. Manjushri embodies the perfect wisdom of the universe. China is considered to be the Land of Manjushri where the people are blessed with intelligence. It is also a wonderful place to see the sunrise in the morning from this location. Reading this article remind me of my pilgrimage trip with Kechara.
    Interesting read. It would be easy for anyone going on pilgrimage to see the beauty and sacred place of the Land of Manjushri
    Thank you Rinpoche and Pastor Adeline for this detailed article.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/buddhas-dharma/wonderful-wu-tai-shan-manjushri-holy-place.html

  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Jan 26. 2022 04:28 PM
    Beautiful Shanti Stupa in Pokhara being the first World Peace Pagoda in Nepal . It is a massive Buddhist Stupa with relics of the Buddha, having an immense role to beautify the Pokhara valley. It is situated at Lumbini, the birth place of Lord Buddha. It is a perfect pilgrimage place for some and holiday place to tourist where it provides a clear view of the Himalayan range. The hilltop location also provides a splendid view of sunrise and sunset. Pokhara Peace Stupa is popular with locals, pilgrims and tourists from all over the world. Looking at the beautiful pictures paints a thousand words. Merely looking at the beautiful Shanti Stupa is a blessing.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this wonderful sharing.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/art-architecture/pokhara-stupa.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Jan 26. 2022 04:26 PM
    The Buddha Statue of Hyderabad is a monolith located in India. It is the world’s tallest monolith of Gautama Buddha, erected on Gibraltar Rock in the middle of Hussain Sagar Hussain Sagar Lake, located in the heart of Hyderabad. Absolutely amazing, architecture carved by 200 sculptors which took them about two years to complete. The statue was chiseled out from a white granite rock. The man behind the iconic monolithic statue is other than the famous sculptor and Indian architect Sattanatha Muthaiya Ganapathi Sthapathi. A magnificent view for one to see at night.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this sharing with beautiful pictures

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/art-architecture/buddha-statue-of-hyderabad.html
  • Saras
    Tuesday, Jan 25. 2022 11:31 PM
    Thank you for the advice and the sharing. Practicing the Dharma is the best, and not practicing is the worst. Prayer is rooted in the belief that there is a power greater than oneself that can influence one’s life.

    It is very true we must be prepared for our death prior for me to know the Buddha teaching. Dharma is not about just trying to improve oneself. The Dharma is really working for other beings.

    https://bit.ly/3nWKpTw
  • Samfoonheei
    Tuesday, Jan 25. 2022 01:00 PM
    Big statues are such a blessing merely by looking at it. Buddha sculptures serve as visual imagery intended to narrate the various aspects of the Buddha’s life and lessons. Having a Buddha statues in Gompa helps students to accumulate inconceivable merit, to create the cause of enlightenment for oneself and for other sentient beings. Looking at those pictures , all those involved in this no a easy project tells us more. Rejoice. With the guidance of Rinpoche , all goes well to where it is as today. We are indeed very fortunate to have Rinpoche bringing Tibetan Buddhism in Malaysia. For-most having these incredible statues at Gompa and at Kechara Forest Retreat.
    Thank you Rinpoche with folded hands.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/current-affairs/statues-for-our-new-gompa.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Tuesday, Jan 25. 2022 12:55 PM
    The simplest acts of kindness are by far more powerful than a thousand heads bowing in prayer. In Buddhism, practicing generosity is to help train the mind in a way conducive to attaining enlightenment. Giving serves as a way to eliminate one’s greed and ill-will and expecting nothing in return. By giving away what is valuable, we reduce attachment by letting them go So wonderful of CK Liew giving a gift and card to Rinpoche , with love.
    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing that beautiful gift and card of CK Liew.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/letters-cards-gifts/gifts-from-ck-liew.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Tuesday, Jan 25. 2022 12:52 PM
    Wow such a beautiful art piece of mind map conceived/compiled up by Thierry and artistically placed and painstakingly written beautifully by Lili . Great idea indeed each and every work of art with meaning behind it. Simply incredible which tells us a thousand words. Rejoice. A mind map of the Lamrim helps us to visualize and organize all the knowledge we need to think and understand better. It is a powerful technique that helps us to visualize our thoughts
    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing with us.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/students-friends/lamrim-mind-map.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Monday, Jan 24. 2022 04:12 PM
    Life is all about growing and developing. We learn through training given by our teachers. Nor matter how hard the training takes is for our own good. Training instils loyalty and commitment , challenges where we learn new skill , knowledge, information for the betterment of this life alone. Those incredible training given by our teacher will shape us , transform us in away to improve self- esteem, motivation, and confidence. Training in the Dharma is teaching us how to leave our samsaric trap and transforming us to be a better person.. At the end of the day it will last us for our whole life and in spiritual terms for lifetimes. Any failures we don’t blame our teacher, its ourselves to blame. Through hardship, patience , we learn. Have a strong will powerful, accept and through determination ,self-belief and hard work, we will get through to where our goal is.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this precious teachings.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/inspiration-worthy-words/training-shouldnt-be-optional.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Monday, Jan 24. 2022 03:32 PM
    Inspiring reading this beautiful post were there is a lot to learn. Let’s face it. No matter who we are, at some point, we will feel insulted by the remarks of others. Silence is the best solution. The only way to accept an insult is to ignore it. If we do feel like there’s any truth in the insult, make the decision to only take the information that’s helpful to our growth. Then, ignore the rest. Keep calm and control the anger in ourselves. Its our choice whether or not to take it, laugh it off and keep it moving. Quickly forgive and move on.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this profound teachings.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/inspiration-worthy-words/7-ways-to-ignore-insults.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Monday, Jan 24. 2022 03:28 PM
    Buddha, born with the name Siddhartha Gautama, was a teacher, philosopher and spiritual leader who is considered the founder of Buddhism. Born as a prince , gave up everything to become a monk . Saw the outside palace for the first time. Met an old man, a sick person, a corpse being carried to cremation, and a monk in meditation beneath a tree. He had a traumatic encounter with suffering and pain life made him decided to leave behind a Palace life to comprehend the nature of sufferings. Wonderful video to watch.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this sharing

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/film-tv-music/the-buddha-the-story-of-siddhartha.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Monday, Jan 24. 2022 03:27 PM
    Thank you Joy for this sharing of Rinpoche with us . Through reading this post we have a better understanding of Rinpoche. Inspecting the cleanliness of altar and the surrounding of homes is more or unless teachings or training us . With the right motivation and attitude, when we invoke daily doing our sadhana, it becomes easy to collect merits an offering to the Buddhas. Rinpoche extended all the way out, teaching the Dharma as well as seeing students living conditions and welfare. We are so fortunate to have Rinpoche as our teacher who cares more than Rinpoche himself.
    Thank you Rinpoche , may Rinpoche have a swift return , continue turning the wheel of Dharma.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/one-minute-story/rinpoche-through-my-eyes-cleaning-houses
  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Jan 19. 2022 03:01 PM
    Wangze is an emanation of Manjushri as an enlightened being, will assist us when we are having to face difficult situations or dealing with difficult people . With a good motivation and right visualisation, Wangze’s practice will remove our obstacles and purify our negative karma. Relying Wangze with trust will assists us to exert control over our own minds our words transforming difficult situations into opportunities.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this sharing of a powerful practice.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/buddhas-dharma/dorje-shugden-wangze-for-power-and-influence.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Jan 19. 2022 02:56 PM
    Lama Thubten Phurbu is a well-known and learned Gelug lama and an outspoken Dorje Shugden practitioner who has beneficiated many in Tibet, China and the west as well. He travels occasionally to the West, India and Nepal to give teachings on Lama Tsongkhapa’s precious lineage as well as Dorje Shugden’s practice. A prominent Gelug lama, is at the forefront of spreading Je Tsongkhapa’s tradition, giving teachings on Lamrim and mind transformation in order to propagate Lama Tsongkhapa’s teachings. He even spoke against the Tibetan Leadership ban on Dorje Shugden in Tibet and the harm instigated against Dorje Shugden practitioners. Interesting read of a great Lama.
    Thank you Rinpoche foe this sharing.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/great-lamas-masters/incredible-lama-thubten-phurbu-and-his-activities.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Jan 19. 2022 02:54 PM
    Watched this powerful, heartfelt and painful video again . Earthlings is a American documentary film about humanity’s use of other animals as pets, food, clothing, entertainment, and for scientific research. There is a strong and insightful message in this documentary film which took SIX years to make. Not an easy task after all but managed to obtain through hidden camera. More people will be aware of those sufferings of those kill for the human greed exploitation of animals. It also shed light the truth the very truth of the sufferings of those innocent been exploited. Interesting read and great video to watch.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this sharing.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/animals-vegetarianism/earthlings.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Sunday, Jan 16. 2022 02:23 PM
    Spirits do exist due to their karmic retribution for their greed, selfishness, and jealousy while they were alive. Buddhist scriptures describe spirits as beings which could manifest in many dimensions, and varies forms. Some spirits are harmful and some spirits are neutral , never get involve with them. We could do prayers and dedicate to them. There are many methods we can invoke upon to protect ourselves, for example relying upon the Dharma Protectors Trakze . Watching the interesting video again about this Bryn Athyn spirit . As described by witnesses Jeremy, Kristin and Michelle how it appeared and disappeared, that glided across the field in a dark appearance. Interesting watch.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this sharing.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/one-minute-story/bryn-athyn-monster-spirit

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108 candles and sang (incense) offered at our Wish-Fulfilling Grotto, invoking Dorje Shugden's blessings for friends, sponsors and supporters, wonderful!
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Dharmapalas are not exclusive to Tibetan culture and their practice is widespread throughout the Buddhist world - https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=193645
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One of our adorable Kechara Forest Retreat's doggies, Tara, happy and safe, and enjoying herself in front of Wisdom Hall which has been decorated for Chinese New Year
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Fragrant organic Thai basil harvested from our very own Kechara Forest Retreat farm!
On behalf of our Puja House team, Pastor Tat Ming receives food and drinks from Rinpoche. Rinpoche wanted to make sure the hardworking Puja House team are always taken care of.
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On behalf of our Puja House team, Pastor Tat Ming receives food and drinks from Rinpoche. Rinpoche wanted to make sure the hardworking Puja House team are always taken care of.
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By the time I heard about Luang Phor Thong, he was already very old, in his late 80s. When I heard about him, I immediately wanted to go and pay my respects to him. - http://bit.ly/LuangPhorThong
It\'s very nice to see volunteers helping maintain holy sites in Kechara Forest Retreat, it\'s very good for them. Cleaning Buddha statues is a very powerful and effective way of purifying body karma.
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It's very nice to see volunteers helping maintain holy sites in Kechara Forest Retreat, it's very good for them. Cleaning Buddha statues is a very powerful and effective way of purifying body karma.
Kechara Forest Retreat is preparing for the upcoming Chinese New Year celebrations. This is our holy Vajra Yogini stupa which is now surrounded by beautiful lanterns organised by our students.
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Kechara Forest Retreat is preparing for the upcoming Chinese New Year celebrations. This is our holy Vajra Yogini stupa which is now surrounded by beautiful lanterns organised by our students.
One of the most recent harvests from our Kechara Forest Retreat land. It was grown free of chemicals and pesticides, wonderful!
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One of the most recent harvests from our Kechara Forest Retreat land. It was grown free of chemicals and pesticides, wonderful!
Third picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal.
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Third picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal. Height: 33ft (10m)
Second picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal.
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Second picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal. Height: 33ft (10m)
First picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal.
Height: 33ft (10m)
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First picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal. Height: 33ft (10m)
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The first title published by Kechara Comics is Karuna Finds A Way. It tells the tale of high-school sweethearts Karuna and Adam who had what some would call the dream life. Everything was going great for them until one day when reality came knocking on their door. Caught in a surprise swindle, this loving family who never harmed anyone found themselves out of luck and down on their fortune. Determined to save her family, Karuna goes all out to find a solution. See what she does- https://bit.ly/2LSKuWo
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At Kechara Forest Retreat land we have nice fresh spinach growing free of chemicals and pesticides. Yes!
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See beautiful pictures of Manjushri Guest House here- https://bit.ly/2WGo0ti
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Beginner’s Introduction to Dorje Shugden~Very good overview https://bit.ly/2QQNfYv
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Mahapajapati Gotami – the first Buddhist nun ordained by Lord Buddha- https://bit.ly/2IjD8ru
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Mahapajapati Gotami, who was the first nun ordained by Lord Buddha.
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Mahapajapati Gotami, who was the first nun ordained by Lord Buddha.
Mahapajapati Gotami, who was the first nun ordained by Lord Buddha. She was his step-mother and aunt. Buddha\'s mother had passed away at his birth so he was raised by Gotami.
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Mahapajapati Gotami, who was the first nun ordained by Lord Buddha. She was his step-mother and aunt. Buddha's mother had passed away at his birth so he was raised by Gotami.
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Another nun disciple of Lord Buddha's. She had achieved great spiritual abilities and high attainments. She would be a proper object of refuge. This image of the eminent bhikkhuni (nun) disciple of the Buddha, Uppalavanna Theri.
Wandering Ascetic Painting by Nirdesha Munasinghe
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Wandering Ascetic Painting by Nirdesha Munasinghe
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High Sri Lankan monks visit Kechara to bless our land, temple, Buddha and Dorje Shugden images. They were very kind-see pictures- https://bit.ly/2HQie2M
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First Sri Lankan Buddhist temple opened in Dubai!!!
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This is pretty amazing! First Sri Lankan Buddhist temple opened in Dubai!!!
My Dharma boy (left) and Oser girl loves to laze around on the veranda in the mornings. They enjoy all the trees, grass and relaxing under the hot sun. Sunbathing is a favorite daily activity. I care about these two doggies of mine very much and I enjoy seeing them happy. They are with me always. Tsem Rinpoche

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My Dharma boy (left) and Oser girl loves to laze around on the veranda in the mornings. They enjoy all the trees, grass and relaxing under the hot sun. Sunbathing is a favorite daily activity. I care about these two doggies of mine very much and I enjoy seeing them happy. They are with me always. Tsem Rinpoche Always be kind to animals and eat vegetarian- https://bit.ly/2Psp8h2
After you left me Mumu, I was alone. I have no family or kin. You were my family. I can\'t stop thinking of you and I can\'t forget you. My bond and connection with you is so strong. I wish you were by my side. Tsem Rinpoche
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After you left me Mumu, I was alone. I have no family or kin. You were my family. I can't stop thinking of you and I can't forget you. My bond and connection with you is so strong. I wish you were by my side. Tsem Rinpoche
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This story is a life-changer. Learn about the incredible Forest Man of India | 印度“森林之子”- https://bit.ly/2Eh4vRS
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Part 2-Beautiful billboard in Malaysia of a powerful Tibetan hero whose life serves as a great inspiration- https://bit.ly/2UltNE4
Part 1-Beautiful billboard in Malaysia of a powerful Tibetan hero whose life serves as a great inspiration- https://bit.ly/2UltNE4
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Part 1-Beautiful billboard in Malaysia of a powerful Tibetan hero whose life serves as a great inspiration- https://bit.ly/2UltNE4
The great Protector Manjushri Dorje Shugden depicted in the beautiful Mongolian style. To download a high resolution file: https://bit.ly/2Nt3FHz
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The great Protector Manjushri Dorje Shugden depicted in the beautiful Mongolian style. To download a high resolution file: https://bit.ly/2Nt3FHz
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The Mystical land of Shambhala is finally ready for everyone to feast their eyes and be blessed. A beautiful post with information, art work, history, spirituality and a beautiful book composed by His Holiness the 6th Panchen Rinpoche. ~ https://bit.ly/309MHBi
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Beautiful pictures of the huge Buddha in Longkou Nanshan- https://bit.ly/2LsBxVb
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The reason-Very interesting thought- https://bit.ly/2V7VT5r
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NEW Bigfoot cafe in Malaysia! Food is delicious!- https://bit.ly/2VxdGau
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DON'T MISS THIS!~How brave Bonnie survived by living with a herd of deer~ https://bit.ly/2Lre2eY
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Global Superpower China Will Cut Meat Consumption by 50%! Very interesting, find out more- https://bit.ly/2V1sJFh
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You can download this beautiful Egyptian style Dorje Shugden Free- https://bit.ly/2Nt3FHz
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Beautiful high file for print of Lord Manjushri. May you be blessed- https://bit.ly/2V8mwZe
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Manjusri Kumara (bodhisattva of wisdom), India, Pala dynesty, 9th century, stone, Honolulu Academy of Arts
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In 2021, we've encountered far too many challenges—Pandemic, months-long lockdown, landslide, and flood. We are proud to witness Malaysians helping one another as these agonies come sequentially. Looking back to 2021, Kechara Soup Kitchen has made significant progress, with more to come in 2022. Every year, we move a little closer to our vision. We are immensely thankful to have such dedicated teams of volunteers willing to go above and beyond for our clients. Not to mention our sponsors and donors; none of this would have been possible without you. Thank you. Thank you for being you. Thank you for helping the underprivileged to a better future. Have a blessed year ahead from our hearts to your hearts. #2022 #newyear #kecharasoupkitchen #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment
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In 2021, we've encountered far too many challenges—Pandemic, months-long lockdown, landslide, and flood. We are proud to witness Malaysians helping one another as these agonies come sequentially. Looking back to 2021, Kechara Soup Kitchen has made significant progress, with more to come in 2022. Every year, we move a little closer to our vision. We are immensely thankful to have such dedicated teams of volunteers willing to go above and beyond for our clients. Not to mention our sponsors and donors; none of this would have been possible without you. Thank you. Thank you for being you. Thank you for helping the underprivileged to a better future. Have a blessed year ahead from our hearts to your hearts. #2022 #newyear #kecharasoupkitchen #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment
Ipoh members were taking turns to offer Serkym and lights to Dorje Shugden. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
2 months ago
Ipoh members were taking turns to offer Serkym and lights to Dorje Shugden. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
Kechara Ipoh members were preparing for Dorje Shugden puja. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Kechara Ipoh members were preparing for Dorje Shugden puja. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Kechara Ipoh Study Group has carried out Dorje Shugden puja in Ipoh on 4th Dec 2021. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
Jun, our new Ipoh member, offered lights to Lama Tsongkhapa, Dorje Shugden & The Three Jewels. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Jun, our new Ipoh member, offered lights to Lama Tsongkhapa, Dorje Shugden & The Three Jewels. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
Mr. Cheah has offered 3 sets of Serkym prior to Dorje Shugden puja in Ipoh. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Mr. Cheah has offered 3 sets of Serkym prior to Dorje Shugden puja in Ipoh. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Kechara Ipoh Study Group has completed a Dorje Shugden puja in Ipoh on 20th Nov '21. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
Mr. Philip, our new visitor to Ipoh centre, offered lights to Lama Tsongkhapa and the Three Jewels prior to DS puja. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Mr. Philip, our new visitor to Ipoh centre, offered lights to Lama Tsongkhapa and the Three Jewels prior to DS puja. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Kechara Ipoh Study Group has resumed our Dorje Shugden puja in Ipoh on 6th Nov 2021. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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Mark your calendars - we are about to embark on an epic ride! Kechara Food Bank will be travelling across the Peninsular in our giant truck to send dry food to over 2300 families. Thank you Volvo Trucks Malaysia for your generous donation of this custom-designed truck. What’s more – PPB Group Bhd is generously donating the food provision for this one-of-a-kind journey. Thank you on behalf of our grateful beneficiaries! Want to see all of this in action? Join us live or watch the videos and photos on our social media. Stay tuned!
4 months ago
Mark your calendars - we are about to embark on an epic ride! Kechara Food Bank will be travelling across the Peninsular in our giant truck to send dry food to over 2300 families. Thank you Volvo Trucks Malaysia for your generous donation of this custom-designed truck. What’s more – PPB Group Bhd is generously donating the food provision for this one-of-a-kind journey. Thank you on behalf of our grateful beneficiaries! Want to see all of this in action? Join us live or watch the videos and photos on our social media. Stay tuned!
Underprivileged residents of two PPRs in Kuala Lumpur recently received a total of 427kg from our longterm surplus produce sponsor, Lotuss Stores (formerly Tesco Stores). The 65 families are our regular beneficiaries, and are grateful to receive fresh vegetables on a consistent basis right at their doorstep. One of our recipients, Rajeswari, 52, single mother of 2 children, shared that she stopped receiving welfare aid due to unforeseen circumstances. Her words: "Saya cakap untuk Kechara [Soup Kitchen] banyak terima kasih sebab kasi makanan. Dan lebih mau tolong orang lain yang susah seperti saya". Our heartfelt thank-you goes to Lotuss Stores for being a dependable source of food aid and for #helpingthepoor with us. #kecharafoodbank #makingadifference #kitajagakita #charity #foodbank #bantuan #ngomalaysia #givingback #strongertogether - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
8 months ago
Underprivileged residents of two PPRs in Kuala Lumpur recently received a total of 427kg from our longterm surplus produce sponsor, Lotuss Stores (formerly Tesco Stores). The 65 families are our regular beneficiaries, and are grateful to receive fresh vegetables on a consistent basis right at their doorstep. One of our recipients, Rajeswari, 52, single mother of 2 children, shared that she stopped receiving welfare aid due to unforeseen circumstances. Her words: "Saya cakap untuk Kechara [Soup Kitchen] banyak terima kasih sebab kasi makanan. Dan lebih mau tolong orang lain yang susah seperti saya". Our heartfelt thank-you goes to Lotuss Stores for being a dependable source of food aid and for #helpingthepoor with us. #kecharafoodbank #makingadifference #kitajagakita #charity #foodbank #bantuan #ngomalaysia #givingback #strongertogether - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
Pastor Shin winning some mystery gifts for being the 1st person to answer a BONUS question during last Sunday's Blog chat quiz. Blog chat is a fun way to learn the Dharma. To find out more, check out > tsemrinpoche.com/chat. Joy - Moderator
8 months ago
Pastor Shin winning some mystery gifts for being the 1st person to answer a BONUS question during last Sunday's Blog chat quiz. Blog chat is a fun way to learn the Dharma. To find out more, check out > tsemrinpoche.com/chat. Joy - Moderator
Here is Pastor Antoinette who won some mystery gifts for being the 2nd person to answer a BONUS question during last Sunday's Blog Chat quiz/discussion. To find out more check out our blog chat section for our weekly topic! Joy - Moderator
8 months ago
Here is Pastor Antoinette who won some mystery gifts for being the 2nd person to answer a BONUS question during last Sunday's Blog Chat quiz/discussion. To find out more check out our blog chat section for our weekly topic! Joy - Moderator
#KFBBentong: Ready for some exciting news? We are now at RM154,523.94 - surpassing the funds required for our Pahang food bank operations! Thank you to all who kindly donated, we are deeply moved by your care and generosity towards the less fortunate struggling in our midst. To make our shared goal to continue #helpingthepoor a reality, we are now eagerly looking for suitable premises in Bentong. We will update soon on our progress, so stay tuned! #kecharafoodbank #foodaid #bantuan #kitajagakita #hungerknowsnobarriers #endhunger #charity #ngomalaysia #Pahang - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
9 months ago
#KFBBentong: Ready for some exciting news? We are now at RM154,523.94 - surpassing the funds required for our Pahang food bank operations! Thank you to all who kindly donated, we are deeply moved by your care and generosity towards the less fortunate struggling in our midst. To make our shared goal to continue #helpingthepoor a reality, we are now eagerly looking for suitable premises in Bentong. We will update soon on our progress, so stay tuned! #kecharafoodbank #foodaid #bantuan #kitajagakita #hungerknowsnobarriers #endhunger #charity #ngomalaysia #Pahang - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
#kecharafoodbank: In collaboration with Good Shepherd Services (GSS) based in Ipoh, we travelled to Buntong with food rations for 33 families. Some of the food items given include rice, noodles, cooking oil and biscuits; in total, we gave 726kg of food to these beneficiaries from the underprivileged class. We are glad to have been able to contribute, especially to families with children and in poor living conditions. We wish to thank GSS for alerting us about those in need, and we look forward to extending more support in the future together with this not-for-profit organization doing good work. - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
11 months ago
#kecharafoodbank: In collaboration with Good Shepherd Services (GSS) based in Ipoh, we travelled to Buntong with food rations for 33 families. Some of the food items given include rice, noodles, cooking oil and biscuits; in total, we gave 726kg of food to these beneficiaries from the underprivileged class. We are glad to have been able to contribute, especially to families with children and in poor living conditions. We wish to thank GSS for alerting us about those in need, and we look forward to extending more support in the future together with this not-for-profit organization doing good work. - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
In an urgent effort to provide food and necessities to the poverty-stricken in Bentong and rural areas of Pahang, we are launching Food Bank Bentong. With your support, Food Bank Bentong would be able to feed 500 families totaling 2,300 people on a regular basis, giving them a chance to enjoy a basic sense of security we consider a human right. - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
11 months ago
In an urgent effort to provide food and necessities to the poverty-stricken in Bentong and rural areas of Pahang, we are launching Food Bank Bentong. With your support, Food Bank Bentong would be able to feed 500 families totaling 2,300 people on a regular basis, giving them a chance to enjoy a basic sense of security we consider a human right. - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
Kechara Sunday Dharma School Online Teaching Every Sunday Morning 11am class - KSDS Jayce Goh
12 months ago
Kechara Sunday Dharma School Online Teaching Every Sunday Morning 11am class - KSDS Jayce Goh
Re: Kechara Sunday Dharma School Online Teaching Every Sunday Morning 11am class, students attend Pastor Shin Class happily - KSDS Jayce Goh
12 months ago
Re: Kechara Sunday Dharma School Online Teaching Every Sunday Morning 11am class, students attend Pastor Shin Class happily - KSDS Jayce Goh
Update on Empowerment cookies, special holiday packaging. The bakers are most grateful for the overwhelming support of 834 tubs ordered, with a big order of 314 tubs from a group of friends. Thank you to those cookie lovers who couldn’t get enough of it. Watch out for the next update. Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
1 years ago
Update on Empowerment cookies, special holiday packaging. The bakers are most grateful for the overwhelming support of 834 tubs ordered, with a big order of 314 tubs from a group of friends. Thank you to those cookie lovers who couldn’t get enough of it. Watch out for the next update. Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
Thank you, generous and kind donors, made possible by Alice Smith School's Official Site through their Build Kindness Campaign. The whooping amount of RM63,000 will provide much needed food to 25 poor families for the next 12 months. On behalf of these families, thank you! Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
1 years ago
Thank you, generous and kind donors, made possible by Alice Smith School's Official Site through their Build Kindness Campaign. The whooping amount of RM63,000 will provide much needed food to 25 poor families for the next 12 months. On behalf of these families, thank you! Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
The global pandemic hasn't been easy for all of us. Some find it diffucult to find a job to support the family. Despite that, we are still delivering basic food pack to our recipients nationwide. Thank you to our volunteers, donors, and sponsors. Without your support, we would be unable to reach out to many families. Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
1 years ago
The global pandemic hasn't been easy for all of us. Some find it diffucult to find a job to support the family. Despite that, we are still delivering basic food pack to our recipients nationwide. Thank you to our volunteers, donors, and sponsors. Without your support, we would be unable to reach out to many families. Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
Thanks to Yap Optometry for gifting Robert a new pair of glasses to see better. We wish him many clear and bright days ahead. Thank you to all sponsors. - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
1 years ago
Thanks to Yap Optometry for gifting Robert a new pair of glasses to see better. We wish him many clear and bright days ahead. Thank you to all sponsors. - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
Donation received to date: RM33,468.00 Yes! We've achieved the target for the #TamanNegara project. Fundraising is closed for this project. Thank you to all donors, 113 Orang Asli families will benefit from it. Stay tuned! #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment #kecharasoupkitchen - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
1 years ago
Donation received to date: RM33,468.00 Yes! We've achieved the target for the #TamanNegara project. Fundraising is closed for this project. Thank you to all donors, 113 Orang Asli families will benefit from it. Stay tuned! #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment #kecharasoupkitchen - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
FRESHLY BAKED by Kechara Empowerment trainees - Chocolate Chip Butter Cookies - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
1 years ago
FRESHLY BAKED by Kechara Empowerment trainees - Chocolate Chip Butter Cookies - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
In memory of Wilson Lee, one of our most dedicated volunteers in Penang. Our heartfelt condolences to Wilson's wife, Tze Ling, family and friends. Our thoughts are with them for their loss. Thank you for your kindness and service to KSK Penang. From all of us in KSK.
1 years ago
In memory of Wilson Lee, one of our most dedicated volunteers in Penang. Our heartfelt condolences to Wilson's wife, Tze Ling, family and friends. Our thoughts are with them for their loss. Thank you for your kindness and service to KSK Penang. From all of us in KSK.
Last weekend a Soup Kitchen activities @ Penang, Johor & Kuala Lumpur. Hot food, water, masks, biscuits, buns & fruits. This is what we give out to our friends living on the streets. Thank you to our sponsor & volunteers that make it happen. Come spread more love by being a volunteer at our activities. WhatsApp us today at 010-333-3260! See you soon! #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment #kecharasoupkitchen - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
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Thank you Domino's Pizza Malaysia, Kasih & Piza campaign for sponsoring 85 boxes of pizza to our friends who live on the streets. Your flavourful pizzas have put a smile on their faces. Thank you! - Vivan @ Kechara Soup Kitchen #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment #kecharasoupkitchen #KasihdanPiza #ItsAllAboutYou
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1 years ago
Thank you Novo Nordisk! Your kind monetary donation and 1,320 boxes of masks will benefit many needy families under the Kechara Food Bank Program. Thank you! Much love from the needy families ~ Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment #kecharasoupkitchen #novonordisk #novonordiskmalaysia
We were graced with the presence of Tengku Zatashah & The Alice Smith School Foundation yesterday. 130 homeless were blessed to be served by them. RM 20,000 donated by Alice Smith School Foundation will benefit 100 families registered under Kechara Food Bank Program. Thank you! Much love from the needy families ~ Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment #kecharasoupkitchen #alicesmithschoolfoundation #alicesmithschool #volunteerism #homeless
1 years ago
We were graced with the presence of Tengku Zatashah & The Alice Smith School Foundation yesterday. 130 homeless were blessed to be served by them. RM 20,000 donated by Alice Smith School Foundation will benefit 100 families registered under Kechara Food Bank Program. Thank you! Much love from the needy families ~ Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen #kecharafoodbank #kecharaempowerment #kecharasoupkitchen #alicesmithschoolfoundation #alicesmithschool #volunteerism #homeless
Thanks to the effort of our outstation team, we were able to mobilise food provisions to 600 families living in Kelantan, Penang, Negeri Sembilan, Melaka and Johor during the Raya period with each of these families receiving RM200 worth of provisions. Adding onto the current 368 families in Klang Valley, a total of 968 families were benefitted from this. Special thanks to the sponsors who have contributed especially Hong Leong Foundation and partially from Tesco Malaysia (where we also ordered the provisions from). ~ Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
2 yearss ago
Thanks to the effort of our outstation team, we were able to mobilise food provisions to 600 families living in Kelantan, Penang, Negeri Sembilan, Melaka and Johor during the Raya period with each of these families receiving RM200 worth of provisions. Adding onto the current 368 families in Klang Valley, a total of 968 families were benefitted from this. Special thanks to the sponsors who have contributed especially Hong Leong Foundation and partially from Tesco Malaysia (where we also ordered the provisions from). ~ Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
So glad that our soup kitchen operations are back in full swing. Good to see the clients are observing the SOPs. Some of them lost their job during MCO and ended up on the streets. Special thanks to our sponsors and volunteers for the great support! - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
2 yearss ago
So glad that our soup kitchen operations are back in full swing. Good to see the clients are observing the SOPs. Some of them lost their job during MCO and ended up on the streets. Special thanks to our sponsors and volunteers for the great support! - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
From serving cooked food to the homeless clients on the streets to mobilising provisions to the needy individuals in PPRs and shelters, we thank everyone of our Johor Bahru team for their kind contributions and effort to make it for the needy despite all the challenges! - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
2 yearss ago
From serving cooked food to the homeless clients on the streets to mobilising provisions to the needy individuals in PPRs and shelters, we thank everyone of our Johor Bahru team for their kind contributions and effort to make it for the needy despite all the challenges! - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
More photos taken from our "Hari Raya Hampers" distribution this week. Making sure everyone of our clients have something to be cheerful about. Apart from food, daily used items such as hygiene products, kitchen utensils, assorted fabric items, stationary items and toys were also included into our hamper bags making it extra heavier this month! Food items alone were about 35kg per family! Taking this opportunity to wish everyone of our Muslim volunteers, friends, supporters and clients a Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri and Maaf Zahir Batin. No doubt this year's celebration will be very different but appreciate everyone is safe and protected from the pandemic. We are in this together and let's work to fight this pandemic together! Thanking all sponsors and donors for the generous support enabling us to continue serve the needy with food, love and care. Big shoutout too to our wonderful team which already depleted by our very own strict SOP. All of you who worked tirelessly behind the s
2 yearss ago
More photos taken from our "Hari Raya Hampers" distribution this week. Making sure everyone of our clients have something to be cheerful about. Apart from food, daily used items such as hygiene products, kitchen utensils, assorted fabric items, stationary items and toys were also included into our hamper bags making it extra heavier this month! Food items alone were about 35kg per family! Taking this opportunity to wish everyone of our Muslim volunteers, friends, supporters and clients a Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri and Maaf Zahir Batin. No doubt this year's celebration will be very different but appreciate everyone is safe and protected from the pandemic. We are in this together and let's work to fight this pandemic together! Thanking all sponsors and donors for the generous support enabling us to continue serve the needy with food, love and care. Big shoutout too to our wonderful team which already depleted by our very own strict SOP. All of you who worked tirelessly behind the s
Our team have been working extra hours for the past few weeks to deliver provisions and hamper goodies to the needy families before Hari Raya! Heart warming to see the smiling faces of our recipients upon receiving 3 bags full of food and daily used items. Thanks to everyone of you who have contributed to our foodbank enabling us to give all our recipients (especially those celebrating) a Raya to remember! - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
2 yearss ago
Our team have been working extra hours for the past few weeks to deliver provisions and hamper goodies to the needy families before Hari Raya! Heart warming to see the smiling faces of our recipients upon receiving 3 bags full of food and daily used items. Thanks to everyone of you who have contributed to our foodbank enabling us to give all our recipients (especially those celebrating) a Raya to remember! - Vivian @ Kechara Soup Kitchen
Thankful to all donors and those who have been committed in contributing not just money but time over the past testing weeks to help us ease the work of our frontliners and also the livelihood of the needy, their struggles over this pandemic period seemed a little easier to bear with because of your contributions! - Vivian @Kechara Soup Kitchen
2 yearss ago
Thankful to all donors and those who have been committed in contributing not just money but time over the past testing weeks to help us ease the work of our frontliners and also the livelihood of the needy, their struggles over this pandemic period seemed a little easier to bear with because of your contributions! - Vivian @Kechara Soup Kitchen
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