Reunion Dinner Dharma

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(By Tsem Rinpoche and Pastor Jean Ai)

At the very beginning of 2017, I had the opportunity to give a talk in Wisdom Hall, Kechara Forest Retreat. It covered the topic of practising Dharma at our upcoming reunion dinners.

On the eve of Chinese New Year, it is a Chinese tradition for the extended family to gather for a reunion dinner. During this annual event, relatives who are not necessarily in frequent contact with one another throughout the year use this much-cherished opportunity to reconnect with everyone. And given the diaspora of the Chinese community around the world, this annual migration can be an elaborate affair. In China alone for example, there are legendary mile-long traffic jams as millions move out of the cities and back to their hometowns, to grab this once-a-year chance to be with their loved ones.

However, this annual event is not without its difficulties and for some, the thought of reunion dinner leaves them with anything but happy thoughts. In Malaysia, the common joke is that when you go for reunion dinners, your elders will ask (or rather, interrogate!) you on a standard series of topics. “When are you getting married?” “How come you’ve put on so much weight?” “When am I going to get my first grandchild?” “How come your cousin’s job pays more than yours?” Hence some people approach the dinner fraught with anxiety; others attend fearful of the questions they may be asked, or dreading the conflict they have to witness. After all, if you have not seen one another for the last 365 days, there is sometimes a very good reason for this…

I spoke about seven practical methods that people attending reunion dinner can use to make their dinners a more pleasant occasion. In summation, these are:

  1. Conflict requires two people: an instigator and someone who responds to the situation and escalates it (you). So you have to take responsibility for your reactions. If someone makes a comment that displeases you, how you react to it is your responsibility and your reaction can possibly worsen/escalate the situation, or result in a positive and happy outcome.
  2. Focus on the positives of those you are with. The more you meditate on this, the more difficult it becomes for you to find reasons to fight.
  3. Realise impermanence, as the people who you perceive to be difficult will not be around forever.
  4. Look at what they are complaining about. Are the things they complain and nag about big and significant things, or small and mundane things? Are they complaining about you being unkind or are they saying your wardrobe is not fashionable because you lost your job? What they complain about is a reflection of their mind and who they are, and what they find important. It is not a reflection of you.
  5. Generate compassion for them. People often say things to satisfy a part of themselves that they are unhappy or dissatisfied with. They also say things out of their insecurities and think that in highlighting others’ weaknesses and failings, they can avoid facing or drawing attention to their own.
  6. Generate joy for them, especially for those you are being compared against. It is okay if your relatives are doing better than you; be happy that someone in your family is doing something to make everyone proud, and take responsibility for your own choices. If you are happy with the decisions you have made, be happy with it regardless of the situation (i.e. when your decisions are being compared against other people’s).
  7. Are you where you want to be? Having made your choices, are you where you want to be and if you are not, are other people’s opinions important in bringing you there? On a mundane level, do their opinions pay your bills? On a spiritual level, do their opinions add to your spirituality? Do their opinions help to create a situation that risks your spiritual practice?

I also spoke about the links between these seven points and the Eight Verses of Mind Transformation, and asked everyone to consider using reunion dinners as an opportunity to self-reflect. For those with children, are they turning into the kind of people they themselves do not like to meet at reunion dinners? Will their own children one day regret having to meet them once a year for a reunion dinner? And what can they do to prevent this? How can they introduce Dharma to their own families?

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Ultimately, it is Dharma practice that will lead to a more harmonious, less conflict-filled life and just because it is a reunion dinner, does not mean we suspend our spiritual practice for a few hours. These dinners are a once-a-year event which is important in our Chinese culture and as mature, cognisant adults, we can and should play our part to make it a happy occasion and use it as an opportunity to progress our spirituality.

So do let me know in the comments section below how your reunion dinners went, and I hope everyone has a Happy Chinese New Year 🙂

Eight Verses of Thought Transformation

With the thought of attaining Enlightenment
For the welfare of all beings,
Who are more precious than a wish–fulfilling jewel,
I will constantly practise holding them dear.

Whenever I am with others,
I will practise seeing myself as the lowest of all,
And from the very depths of my heart
I will respectfully hold others as supreme.

In all actions I will examine my mind
And the moment a disturbing attitude arises,
Endangering myself or others,
I will firmly confront and avert it.

Whenever I meet a person of bad nature,
Overwhelmed by negative energy and intense suffering,
I will hold such a rare one dear
As if I’ve found a precious treasure.

When others out of jealousy,
Mistreat me with abuse, slander and so on,
I will practise accepting defeat
And offering the victory to them.

When someone I have benefited and in whom
I have placed great trust hurts me very badly,
I will practise seeing that person
As my supreme teacher.

In short, I will offer directly and indirectly
Every benefit and happiness to all beings, my mothers.
I will practise in secret taking upon myself
All their harmful actions and sufferings.

Without these practices being defiled
By the stains of the eight worldly concerns,
By perceiving all phenomena as illusory,
I will practise without grasping to release all beings
From the bondage of the disturbing unsubdued mind and karma.

 

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  1. MingHY on Feb 9, 2017 at 8:35 pm

    Thanks Pastor Jean Ai, I really loved this talk and its a great teaching on the application of the 8 verses of Transformation. Infact, this was one of the earliest teachings I learnt when I first came to Kechara, and it was, and still is, the greatest tool and aide for us to rely on, whatever the circumstance. I thank Rinpoche for introducing this to us and for Pastor Jean Ai for also giving this teaching to us in a simple but informative and entertaining way.

  2. Echeah on Feb 5, 2017 at 10:00 pm

    Eight Verses of Thought Transformation by Geshe Langri Tangpa is so applicable to daily life, and is the basis for H. E. Tsem Rinpoche’s book, Compassion Conquers All, a must read for any dharma student.

    All our suffering when interacting with people stems from our own mind or thoughts. What people want to say, they will say it anyway, so you can’t change that. But how you take it is something within our control.

    Like the idiom, “Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me”, technically that is idealistic but in reality it is most difficult to apply. We have the big “E” word in the way. If we have no ego, why would we ever be hurt by people’s words? It’s just words. How we interpret those words can cause us more suffering. We analyse and read between the lines, we interpret body language and tone of voice, we judge people’s intention, then we jump to a conclusion that could actually be far from what the speaker meant to say.

    On the flip side, we need to be careful of what we say and how we say it, i.e. lest we create non-virtue of speech. Sounds like a zero sum game for a dharma practitioner doesn’t it? We have to take everybody’s crap with a smile and deliver kindness and consideration to everybody in return. But hey, somebody has to start somewhere right, otherwise everybody comes to blows and nobody wins.

  3. Pastor Lim Han Nee on Feb 1, 2017 at 5:06 am

    When we are caught in difficult and delicate situations like a reunion dinner, it is important for us to remember not to have negative attitudes, projections or expectations regarding such situations. We shouldn’t be negative or be on the defensive. If we are mindful and let go of our negative projections and expectations, such as anticipating and preparing to defend ourselves, against criticisms and “attacks” from certain people, we will have a more peaceful and positive outcome.Our feathers will not be unruffled nor will we ruffle others’ feathers.

    We need to train our minds to respond to negative remarks, insults or criticisms with compassion, recognizing that these difficult and challenging people who made these remarks or comments about us are either insecure people or people who refuse to recognize their own faults, magnify others’ faults while hiding their faults (which are the deep-seated root causes of their unhappiness), thus making themselves more miserable in the long run.

    If we are being compared to others who are more successful, just learn to be happy for these other people who are more successful, and rejoice for them. We ought to not let the green eyed monster of jealousy rear its ugly head and create anger and resentment in us.

    If we practice the dharma , we will accept the situation, recognising karma, and not retaliate and thereby causing the situation to escalate and cause us to collect more negative karma.

    Furthermore, these are impermanent situations, and will fade away even in our memory and in the memory of others involved. Hence, we should not be fixated with it and make a big issue out of it. Therefore, we should make a mountain out of a molehill and mindlessly retaliate.

    Yes , thank you P Jean Ai for this talk, which is a great reminder to us of how the practice of Dharma and the Eight Verses of Mind Transformation are important to help us be positive in our reaction to every experience and situation.

  4. TekLee on Jan 30, 2017 at 11:56 pm

    Thank you Pastor Jean Ai for sharing your talk and the article. Yes, we should apply dharma in our daily life no matter where we are, what situation we are in, and who we are facing. Sometimes those questions that the relatives ask are a bit funny and some are ridiculous. But if we tackle it by applying dharma in it, it is easy and sometimes it will turn out funny outcome 🙂 Thank you again Pastor Jean Ai, it’s actually very helpful in overcoming and to solving many problems if we apply dharma in our daily life _/\_

  5. Justin Cheah on Jan 30, 2017 at 8:26 pm

    Thank you Pastor Jean Ai for your Dharma talk. You spoke so well! I am sure this will be some talk for the public to read and benefitted from especially on topics like how to face questions thrown in by relatives. Actually for this year in particular I so not looking forward to all these reunion dinners and CNY feeling it is kind of wasting time. Don’t get me wrong, family get together is one tradition and it is always good to see them and see how they do but it is just that. The baggage that comes along with it will be the time “wasted” on idle chatting n travelling which doesn’t help us anyways. Thank you again for these tips and I think this is one way we put whatever we learn to practice.

  6. Fong on Jan 30, 2017 at 4:47 pm

    A very interesting and relevant article. This is what a lot us us try to practice and avoid conflict, some successful and others less so. But, it is important to be able to remember the points and the Eight Verses of Mind Transformation is important but tend to slip our minds ever so often.

    Thank you for this sharing. It will surely help a lot of us slide through this inquisition time of the year.

  7. Uncle Eddie on Jan 30, 2017 at 11:56 am

    As rightly said, “Given the diaspora of the chinese community around the World, this annual mitigation can be an elaborate affair!” Grand and poshed reunion dinners, with giant fireworks will be organised to welcome this grand lunar year, for the rooster to replace the Monkey. We are at the moment in possession of a precious human body, the existence of which is immensely so difficult to find. In accordance to the teaching of Buddhism, as the saying goes, “Used well, this body is a ship to Liberation, otherwise, it is an anchor in Samsara. This body is the agent of all good and evil”. In one oral teaching of the above subject from Lama Zopa that I have heard, it is said that, “The Mahayana transformation eliminating obstacles – means taking inauspicious signs as good fortune……. But in general, ordinary people, or non-practitioners, think that an inauspicious sign is always a “bad omen”. So they tend to become worried, upset or what generally called “become worried-sick”! Many who are practitioners or who follows a “Guru” may have been taught “thought-transformation” and make use of any such inauspicious sign, or bad omen that happen in life, as a means to destroy their ego/or their self-cherishing thought in themselves, so as to be able to develop bodichitta in order to achieve “enlightenment” to be able to enlighten other fellow sentient beings, like our Pastor Elena Khong did in her beautiful teaching. Many thanks Pastor Elena for the sharing!

  8. Choong on Jan 29, 2017 at 10:52 pm

    The 8 Verses Of Mind Transformation is a concise yet powerful way to develop a new life strategy of compassion and gaining wisdom that all our suffering stems from the perceived notion that me, I and myself is at the centre of our universe.

  9. Lin Mun on Jan 29, 2017 at 8:34 pm

    Thank you Pastor Jean Ai for sharing this wonderful talk. I guess we just have too much ego and when any of our relatives or friends said something annoying or hurtful, we will always react on it negatively.

    I think importantly is to stay calm and don’t let any of their remarks affect us. Just reply them kindly and not think about it anymore as there is no point dwelling into it. I know it is easier said than done and well I am still learning 🙂

  10. Vivian Ong on Jan 28, 2017 at 4:55 pm

    Thank you Pastor Jean Ai for the useful tips. The most important is from us. If we do not react to the comment from the family members then we would feel irritated and get angry from it. If we are happy with what and how we are, and if we reply the family members nicely then they will react in a different way.

    With folded palms,
    Vivian

  11. Samfoonheei on Jan 28, 2017 at 9:20 am

    Very informative article …i do enjoyed reading and watching the video.Reunion dinner is more a gathering for me celebrating with family members asking about each other how’s everything ….from asking about children and daily life. Sharing about each other views about this and that with lots of laughter. After all reunion dinner is a once-a-year event which is important in our Chinese culture. As for me …yesterday i shared with my family about KSK and KFR too,hoping they could visit KFR one day.
    Thank you Pastor Elena Khong Jean Ai for sharing this Dharma talk and of Eight Verses of Mind Transformation too.Easy and simple to understand.
    Happy Chinese New Year to Rinpoche and everyone at Kechara.Wish everyone have a good year ahead and good health

  12. Anne Ong on Jan 27, 2017 at 9:44 pm

    Thank you for really fun and entertaining talk,Pastor Jean Ai. I really enjoyed listening to your talk today and had a good laugh. Luckily I don’t have to go and attend any reunion dinner anywhere.Only daily routine dinner with my small family and uncle. And dont have to go through those questions like, do you have bf yet? when are you getting married? when are you going to have babies? how much is your boss paying you now? what position are you doing now? Lol!!! Thank you for sharing a wonderful talk for CNY. Happy Chinese New Year to Rinpoche and everyone in Kechara! 🙂

  13. Stella Cheang on Jan 27, 2017 at 2:03 pm

    A really enjoyable and informative Dharma talk by Pastor Jean Ai, who presented the Eight Verses of Mind Transformation in a practical manner and made it easy to understand for us with many examples. We can certainly use any or all of her methods not only during Chinese New Year Reunion Dinner but also on a day-to-day basis, where we meet with people of all sorts. Thank you Pastor Jean Ai.

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    Monday, Aug 26. 2019 11:55 AM
    மாநகரங்களில் வாழும் மக்கள் அவர்கள் விரும்பினாலும் விரும்பாவிட்டாலும் அங்குள்ள பரபரப்பான வாழ்க்கைக்குப் பழக்கப்பட்டவர்களாகிறார்கள். ஆணோ பெண்ணோ எந்த வயதாக இருந்தாலும், எந்த இனமாக இருந்தாலும், நகரங்களில் வாழ்பவர்கள் அறிவாற்றலையும், உடல் உழைப்பையும் பயன்படுத்தி வாழ்கிறார்கள். சிலர் தங்கள் வேலை அட்டவணையை நிமிடக் கணக்கில் கூட த் திட்டமிடுகிறார்கள்! நீண்ட நேர வேலையின் காரணமாக நகரத்தில் வசிப்பவர்கள் எப்பொழுதும் ஆரோக்கியமன முறையில் அண்மைய மின்னியல் சாதனங்களைப் பயன்படுத்தி வலைதலத்தின் வழி தூரத்தில் உள்ளவர்களை அடிக்கடி தொடர்பு கொள்கிறார்கள்.
    நகர வாழ்க்கையில் பலதரபட்ட மக்களைச் சந்திப்பதன் வழி பல கலாச்சாரங்கள், புதிய பொழுதுபோக்கு அம்சங்கள் ஆகியவற்றை எதிர்கொள்ளும் வாய்ப்புகள் நிறைய கிட்டும். ஆகவே வாழ்க்கையின் உண்மையான அர்த்தத்தை அறியாமல் வழிதவறிச் செல்லும் வாய்ப்புகள் அதிகம் உண்டு. அவர்கள் வேலையின் எதிபார்ப்பினால் ஏற்படும் அழுத்தத்தின் காரணமாக ஓய்வெடுத்து கொள்ள முடியாததால் வாழ்க்கையின் ஆழமான அர்த்தத்தைப் பற்றி சிந்திக்கத் தவறுகிறார்கள். அன்றாடும் வாழ்க்கையில் எதிர்நோக்கும் பிரச்சனைகளாலும், சவால்களாலும் அமைதியான சூழலை ஏற்படுத்திக் கொண்டு இந்த மனித வாழ்க்கையில் நமக்குக் கிடைக்கும் நன்மைகள் என்ன என்பதை ஆழ்ந்து சிந்திக்க வேண்டும்.
  • Balachandran
    Monday, Aug 26. 2019 11:50 AM

    முப்பது வருட காலமாக 7 தர்மா காவலர்களும் வாக்குக் கொடுத்தல், கணித்துச் சொல்லுதல், மற்றும் குணப்படுத்துதல் போன்ற செயலுக்குச் சோஜெ லாவை அதிகாரப்பூர்வ தொடர்பாளராக 30 வருட காலமாகப் பயன்படுத்தி வருகின்றனர். சோஜெ லா சாமானியரோ அல்லது சாதாரண துறவியோ அல்ல. இவர் க்யாப்ஜே த்ரிஜாங் ரின்போச்சே, க்யாப்ஜெ டோமோ கேஷே ரின்போச்சே ஆகிய இருவராலும் தனிப்பட்ட முறையில் சிறப்பாக பயிற்சியளிக்கப்பட்டவர். க்யாப்ஜெ ரின்போச்சே அவர்களால் 40 வருடங்களுக்கு முன்னாலேயே அதிகாரப்பூர்வ கணிப்பாளராக நியமிக்கப்பட்டவர். சிறப்பான வணக்கத்திற்குரிய லாமாவால் சிறந்த பயிற்சியளிக்கப்பட்டு, தடைகள் நீக்கப்பட்டு 7 தர்மா காவலர்களை அருள் வழி தொடர்பு கொள்ளுமாறு உருவாக்கினர். சோஜெ லா செர மே மடத்தில் உருவாக்கப்பட்டவர். இப்பொழுது செர்பொம் மடத்தைச் சார்ந்திருக்கிறார். மூன்று வருடத்திற்கு முன் அக்டோபர் 2011 இறுதி வரை சோஜெ லாவுடன் எனக்கு நல்ல அறிமுகமோ அல்லது நெருங்கிய நட்போ கிடையாது. திசெம் ரின்போச்சே
  • Sofi
    Sunday, Aug 25. 2019 11:47 PM
    REAL Ghosts Stories

    I thought this episode would be tacky. You know, as the stars are famous, people would like to see them again, maybe even as ghosts, so the ‘natural’ progression is that they are ghosts now..and they have been seen…how tabloid. Very fifteen minutes in the limelight for seeing a FAMOUS GHOST.

    Hmmm, find out if this is so here: http://bit.ly/GhostStoriesReal
  • Sofi
    Sunday, Aug 25. 2019 11:43 PM
    Making Offerings to Shar Gaden Monastery

    A few months back, Beng Kooi arranged for these statues to be safely shipped to India, and also arranged for 29 pilgrims to join the pilgrimage to Gaden Monastery so they may be part of the offering ceremony on my behalf. Beng Kooi is truly a wonderful and sincere person, she works so hard and expects nothing in return and very trustworthy with her work. I was wondering why Beng Kooi was rushing to offer the statues to the monastery early October 2014, and she told me it was because she wanted to make the offerings before my 49th Birthday which is my obstacle year… she hopes by making these offerings, it would clear some of the obstacles to my long life… I thought how thoughtful and auspicious.

    Read more of this: http://bit.ly/MakingOfferings
  • Samfoonheei
    Sunday, Aug 25. 2019 08:13 PM
    Look at beautiful pictures of mountains and lakes are Rinpoche past times since young. Ever since then Rinpoche dream to stay near a lake or river with mountains and forests…..a home call home do intense practice. As Rinpoche ‘s promise to his Gurus , Rinpoche will carry on whatever happened. Reading this post of Rinpoche’s thought , longing and loneliness , I have a sense of loneliness as well but it different from Rinpoche. I do feel peaceful and the quiet environment, breathing fresh air up in the mountains. Spending some time alone with nature and broaden my views. The beauty of nature can have a long effect on how we look at things. Rinpoche journey is truly inspiring and I wish Rinpoche ‘s dream will materialise soon. I will do my best to learn as much as I could, and practice dharma, which I have learned from scratch, nothing to something , I do truly appreciate so much with folded hands.
    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing your thoughts with us.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/me/my-loneliness-and-longings.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Sunday, Aug 25. 2019 08:12 PM
    Due to the unethical ban on Dorje Shugden practice, Dorje Shugden practitioners, non practitioners and many more had suffered mentally , abuses , discriminations , violence, public services denied and so forth. Sadly all because of the Tibetan leadership , families were torn apart, monasteries divided . The Tibetan Leadership has mixed politics with religion . Should not have happened.
    With all these simple memes , hopeful more people will get a better understand and truth of this Dorje Shugden controversy.
    Thank you Rinpoche for this sharing. May the Dorje Shugden ‘s ban will be lifted soon.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/dorje-shugden/how-shall-i-hate-you-today.html
  • Yee Yin
    Sunday, Aug 25. 2019 04:27 PM
    It is amazing that a cat can understand the rules that were told and abided by it. Even though the cat cannot chant but it just stays quietly, listening to the chanting and staring at the Buddha statue with full respect. The cat follows the vegetarian diet and refuses to eat meat.

    This cat must have a very strong imprint that it follows the monastic rule and so insistent on paying the homage to the Buddha. It must have been a Dharma practitioner before but due to its karma, it took rebirth in the three lower realm. Hopefully, after the cat dies, it will take rebirth as a human and continue to practice.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/current-affairs/vegetarian-cat-in-south-korea.html
  • Yee Yin
    Sunday, Aug 25. 2019 12:22 AM
    When I was young, my parents used to bring me to the circus. I liked to go because there were animals that can do various tricks and I was totally amazed by what they can do. At that time, I found it to be very entertaining.

    Now that I know how the animals are trained to do the tricks, it bothers me a lot. It was out of ignorance that I found the circus to be entertaining. I will never go to the circus again.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/animals-vegetarianism/if-you-enjoy-circuses-must-see-this.html
  • Sofi
    Saturday, Aug 24. 2019 05:16 PM
    The 4th Zhabdrung Rinpoche of Bhutan and Dorje Shugden

    Wow, this article has over 500K readers! Find out what are they reading about. Who is this The 4th Zhabdrung Rinpoche of Bhutan and how is he connected to Dorje Shugden.

    http://bit.ly/ZhabdrungRinpoche4th
  • Yee Yin
    Saturday, Aug 24. 2019 04:08 PM
    Many people like animals and love them unconditionally. Instead of buying animals, we should adopt one from the shelter. Each year, millions and millions of stray or abandoned dogs and cats are put to sleep because no one wants to adopt them.

    One reason not to buy dogs from a pet shop is because very often these puppies are bred from the puppy mill. Most puppy mills keep the mother dogs in the cage all year round, they are filthy and some exhibit strange behaviour due to stress. If people stop buying puppies from the puppy mills, fewer animals will suffer.

    https://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/animals-vegetarianism/give-them-a-home.html

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Third picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal.
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Third picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal. Height: 33ft (10m)
Second picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal.
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Second picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal. Height: 33ft (10m)
First picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal.
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First picture-Standing Manjushri Statue at Chowar, Kirtipur, Nepal. Height: 33ft (10m)
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My Dharma boy (left) and Oser girl loves to laze around on the veranda in the mornings. They enjoy all the trees, grass and relaxing under the hot sun. Sunbathing is a favorite daily activity. I care about these two doggies of mine very much and I enjoy seeing them happy. They are with me always. Tsem Rinpoche Always be kind to animals and eat vegetarian- https://bit.ly/2Psp8h2
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Silver Manjusri figure from Ngemplak Semongan (Indonesia). Apparently during the Shailendra Dynasty, Mahayana Buddhism was very strong in Indonesia. This Dynasty promoted Mahayana Buddhism and Manjushri was a principal Buddha of worship.
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Silver Manjusri figure from Ngemplak Semongan (Indonesia). Apparently during the Shailendra Dynasty, Mahayana Buddhism was very strong in Indonesia. This Dynasty promoted Mahayana Buddhism and Manjushri was a principal Buddha of worship.
In Buddhism: The Importance of Having a Clean Room- https://bit.ly/2ZgrbKS
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In Buddhism: The Importance of Having a Clean Room- https://bit.ly/2ZgrbKS
There is an area near Lumbini, Nepal, they have sightings of Yeti for hundreds of years. So they have signages in the area with Yeti artwork to highlight this. Interesting. TR
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There is an area near Lumbini, Nepal, they have sightings of Yeti for hundreds of years. So they have signages in the area with Yeti artwork to highlight this. Interesting. TR
Photos of footprints (Yeti) are from a high altitude pass (Darwa Pass) connecting Gangotri valley to Yamunotri valley through old pilgrim route.
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Photos of footprints (Yeti) are from a high altitude pass (Darwa Pass) connecting Gangotri valley to Yamunotri valley through old pilgrim route.
Beautiful picture. Rare. Three holy beings.
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Beautiful picture. Rare. Three holy beings.
May 1, 2019-I really enjoy this picture of these visitors visiting Dorje Shugden\'s grotto in Kechara Forest Retreat today. They look happy, light and blessed after doing their prayers to Dorje Shugden. I wanted to share this picture.- https://bit.ly/2UltNE4
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May 1, 2019-I really enjoy this picture of these visitors visiting Dorje Shugden's grotto in Kechara Forest Retreat today. They look happy, light and blessed after doing their prayers to Dorje Shugden. I wanted to share this picture.- https://bit.ly/2UltNE4
A postcard of my great grand aunt Princess Nirgidma of Torghut-Tsem Rinpoche
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A postcard of my great grand aunt Princess Nirgidma of Torghut-Tsem Rinpoche
Rei Kawakubo – Grand Dame of ‘Hiroshima Chic’- https://bit.ly/2Vz4N06
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Rei Kawakubo – Grand Dame of ‘Hiroshima Chic’- https://bit.ly/2Vz4N06
Just now, this beautiful grape and orange infused water drink with a blue glass was brought in for me. I was amazed at the colors. Tsem Rinpoche
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Just now, this beautiful grape and orange infused water drink with a blue glass was brought in for me. I was amazed at the colors. Tsem Rinpoche
We have to look in and change from within to find the way out of all that makes us unhappy.~Tsem Rinpoche 

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We have to look in and change from within to find the way out of all that makes us unhappy.~Tsem Rinpoche http://www.tsemrinpoche.com
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The children were so excited to wait for the next quiz question. Lin Mun KSDS
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The children were so excited to wait for the next quiz question. Lin Mun KSDS
Children will do prostration and recite Manjushri mantra before start of dharma class. Lin Mun KSDS
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Children will do prostration and recite Manjushri mantra before start of dharma class. Lin Mun KSDS
Throwback - Participants were so attentive when colouring tsa tsa. Lin Mun KSDS
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Throwback - Participants were so attentive when colouring tsa tsa. Lin Mun KSDS
Maya painting Vajrayogini tsa tsa at the kid’s corner during Wesak day. Lin Mun KSDS
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Maya painting Vajrayogini tsa tsa at the kid’s corner during Wesak day. Lin Mun KSDS
Throwback- Family visiting KFR on the auspicious Wesak Day. Lin Mun KSDS
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Throwback- Family visiting KFR on the auspicious Wesak Day. Lin Mun KSDS
Join us on Saturday, 24th August 2019 in celebrating International Dorje Shugden Day with an evening of auspicious and powerful pujas for abundance, prosperity, longevity and wish-fulfilment! PROGRAMME 4:00pm – Prayer Flag Puja & Lhasang Smoke Offering Ritual 5:30pm – Free vegetarian dinner 6:30pm – Gyenze Increasing Fire Puja 9:00pm – End Collectively, these pujas are a celebration of Dorje Shugden’s blessings and are highly beneficial for all sponsors and attendees. There’s really no better place to celebrate Dorje Shugden Day than in Kechara Forest Retreat, which is home to the world’s largest Dorje Shugden statue. MORE INFO: kecharaforestretreat.com/dorjeshugdenday
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Join us on Saturday, 24th August 2019 in celebrating International Dorje Shugden Day with an evening of auspicious and powerful pujas for abundance, prosperity, longevity and wish-fulfilment! PROGRAMME 4:00pm – Prayer Flag Puja & Lhasang Smoke Offering Ritual 5:30pm – Free vegetarian dinner 6:30pm – Gyenze Increasing Fire Puja 9:00pm – End Collectively, these pujas are a celebration of Dorje Shugden’s blessings and are highly beneficial for all sponsors and attendees. There’s really no better place to celebrate Dorje Shugden Day than in Kechara Forest Retreat, which is home to the world’s largest Dorje Shugden statue. MORE INFO: kecharaforestretreat.com/dorjeshugdenday
Teacher Jayce explained the good value from Rinpoche’s teachings. Alice, KSDS
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Teacher Jayce explained the good value from Rinpoche’s teachings. Alice, KSDS
“Be kind to animals.” Let your kids join the monthly Animal Liberation at Kechara House, Sunwaymas.
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“Be kind to animals.” Let your kids join the monthly Animal Liberation at Kechara House, Sunwaymas.
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Chern Chern learnt dharma and show the good attitudes to others. Alice, KSDS
Encourage the kids to express their feelings and at the same instill the dharma to them. Alice, KSDS
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Encourage the kids to express their feelings and at the same instill the dharma to them. Alice, KSDS
Teacher Grace taught the participants for the DIY candles. Alice , KSDS
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Teacher Grace taught the participants for the DIY candles. Alice , KSDS
Children recite Migtsema and Manjushri mantra before the start of dharma class. Lin Mun KSDS
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Children recite Migtsema and Manjushri mantra before the start of dharma class. Lin Mun KSDS
Student do full prostration before the start of dharma class. Lin Mun KSDS
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Student do full prostration before the start of dharma class. Lin Mun KSDS
Wen Yue led students to do key chain as part of art and craft activity. Lin Mun KSDS
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Wen Yue led students to do key chain as part of art and craft activity. Lin Mun KSDS
Teacher Kien shared some photos of sangha members. Lin Mun KSDS
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Teacher Kien shared some photos of sangha members. Lin Mun KSDS
Throwback- close bonding during WOAH camp. Lin Mun KSDS
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Throwback- close bonding during WOAH camp. Lin Mun KSDS
Teenage dharma class in Kechara House . Lin Mun KSDS
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Teenage dharma class in Kechara House . Lin Mun KSDS
Throwback- Chinese New Year activity, calligraphy with best wishes words. Lin Mun KSDS
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Throwback- Chinese New Year activity, calligraphy with best wishes words. Lin Mun KSDS
KISG has been performing White Tara and Dorje Shugden puja for 4 consecutive nights. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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KISG has been performing White Tara and Dorje Shugden puja for 4 consecutive nights. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
KISG members travelled to KFR for Ullambana today. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
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KISG members travelled to KFR for Ullambana today. So Kin Hoe (KISG)
After the Bird Liberation, we proceeded with Dorje Shugden puja. Just before we started our puja, Pastor Patsy gave us a short Dharma Sharing. Pastor spoke about Dharma practice in these days and reminded us to always keep our samaya with Guru intact. To honour our promises, reduce our worldly activities and practice Dharma strongly. Thank you Pastor for the valuable advice~Jacinta, KPSG
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After the Bird Liberation, we proceeded with Dorje Shugden puja. Just before we started our puja, Pastor Patsy gave us a short Dharma Sharing. Pastor spoke about Dharma practice in these days and reminded us to always keep our samaya with Guru intact. To honour our promises, reduce our worldly activities and practice Dharma strongly. Thank you Pastor for the valuable advice~Jacinta, KPSG
We chanted Medicine Buddha's mantra before we blessed them. May they be connected with Buddha always. ~Jacinta , monthly Bird Liberation Kechara Penang Study Group
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We chanted Medicine Buddha's mantra before we blessed them. May they be connected with Buddha always. ~Jacinta , monthly Bird Liberation Kechara Penang Study Group
Special thanks to Linny Neoh and her friend for joining our Kechara Penang Study Group Bird Liberation. ~Jacinta, KPSG
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Special thanks to Linny Neoh and her friend for joining our Kechara Penang Study Group Bird Liberation. ~Jacinta, KPSG
Birds were blessed before their departure to freedom. They deserved love & freedom too ~Jacinta,KPSG
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Birds were blessed before their departure to freedom. They deserved love & freedom too ~Jacinta,KPSG
Pastor Patsy giving explanation during Bird Liberation event. Kechara Penang Study Group's monthly bird liberation - Jacinta
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Pastor Patsy giving explanation during Bird Liberation event. Kechara Penang Study Group's monthly bird liberation - Jacinta
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