Question asked by Missz
My boss hired me even when I do not have any experience for job . Now every time he complain that I don't have experience and no one will hire me but he hired me . And always insult me . I just graduated from college and looking for job . Right now I am happy j got job after one year but I don't like to go for work everyday because my boss hates me from day 1. he treats me very bad . This is just my 3rd day at job and he shouts at me every time for no reason . Please help what can I do ? it hurts me












































































































Dear Missz,
I’m sorry to read that you are in such a situation. This sounds like a very tough situation. There are two things that you can do to help the situation. The first is to contemplate on the fact that other people are in worse off situations than you are. A lot of people do not have jobs, but you do. I’m not trying to say that your boss is right, but we should appreciate what we have at the moment because there is always going to be someone else who is a lot worse off. When you do this, you will feel your mind become lighter and will no longer be hurt as much by the way your boss speaks to you.
Secondly I suggest you engage in the daily practices of Lama Tsongkhapa and Dorje Shugden. These practices are very effective. Lama Tsongkhapa’s practice is very beneficial to help calm and settle the mind, which will help you in this situation. Secondly Dorje Shugden’s practice is very good in removing obstacles in both one’s secular life and also spiritual path. The practice can be found here: http://www.dorjeshugden.org/practice/diamond-path-a-daily-sadhana-of-dorje-shugden
You should engage in the practice strongly, with faith and conviction. You should concentrate on the respective mantras. Focus on the mantra of Lama Tsongkhapa when you are feeling very hurt and the mantra of Dorje Shugden when you need to clear obstacles. But you should engage in both every day. This combined daily practice is very effective and many people have experienced a very positive change in their lives using these practice.
If you would like to and are able to, you can sponsor a Dorje Shugden puja. In the dedication you can specify that you would like the situation at work to improve and your work obstacles to be cleared. Kechara’s Puja House will perform this for you. Many people have attested to the power of puja when in time of need. Here is a link to the page you can order the puja if you would like: http://www.vajrasecrets.com/dorje-shugden-wishfulfilling-puja-fund.