Question asked by Bia
Is everyone in Amitabha's pure land asexual? Free from lust and sexual desire I mean. I am aware that there are certain Buddhist tantric practices that involve sexual activity, which is obviously not for me. I am a Pure Land practitioner and I am asexual myself, my main worry is that I may have to engage in tantric sexual activities in Sukhavati in order to "progress to Buddhahood" faster. I don't think Amitabha teaches that. Can you please clear up any misconceptions and misunderstandings to me? Thank you!
Dear Bia,
Thank you for your question. Actually, the practice of tantra does not necessarily involve physical sexual activity. For example, many Tibetan monks practice tantra, but they are celibate due to their monastic vows. They can still practice and gain attainments in tantric practice. In fact, physically engaging in activities of union with a physical partner, for lay people, is not even recommended unless you are both already high level practitioners.
An example of this is the life of Lama Tsongkhapa, the founder of our lineage. Through the practice of tantra, he achieved enlightenment, but he was a celibate monk. He never engaged in sexual activity. So, there is no need to worry about having to engage in physical union in the practice of tantra.
Aspiring to reach Amitabha’s Pureland is a fantastic goal. Practice the Dharma sincerely, help and benefit others, and it will help you get there. I hope this helps.
Thank you.