Question asked by Annonymous
Hello can we say white lies sometimes . I have been saying white lies to my family because I do not want to hurt them . I am overseas and even though I have a lot of stress and problems still I tell them I am happy because they take a lot of stress if I say I am unhappy . I know saying lies is bad but these lies dont hurt them and I am working very hard at my end to get rid of stress and problems












































































































Hello,
As you already know, lying is bad. Telling white lies however can be acceptable in instances in which you are saving another person from harm or suffering. In the Lam Rim it states that it is permissible to tell a white lie if it saves somebody from harm or suffering.
If your problems and stress are sorted out at the end, then you will not have to lie any more. For now it is permissible since you are saving your family the unnecessary suffering.