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My sister in law tries to separate my brother from my parents. My brother has become very money minded and thinking of only property of parents but does not take care of them. Always calls them and keeps contact with them over the phone just so that he is in touch with them for selfish motives only. I feel like my sister in law is responsible for brainwashing him as he used to be innocent. I feel bad for my parents and wonder who will take care of them in old age as they live alone in different country and me and my sister married and left in in laws place. Please help i have constant fear that my parents will be helpless anything might happen to them
Dear Help,
I am sorry that you and your family are facing difficult times. In these situations it is best to be clear about your worries with your family. Perhaps you should try and calmly talk to your brother in regards to your parents, and see if you can help make arrangements for them. Family life is hard, because each individual may nor may not have the same thinking as the other person. But in my experience, talking with each other, openly and without ill will is always the best course of action.
On a spiritual level, you can engage in the practice of Dorje Shugden to help remove obstacles and create conducive conditions in your life and the lives of your parents and brother. You can find the practice here: https://www.dorjeshugden.org/practice/diamond-path-a-daily-sadhana-of-dorje-shugden. However, this practice will give you a quick fix. You must work to sort out the problems that you family is facing in a calm and level-headed manner. Then this practice will help things be smoother. I hope this helps.