THE COWSHED THAT WAS MY HOME IN GADEN

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Cowshed-my house

When I arrived in Gaden I went straight to Zong Ladrang (house). Ladrang is the Tibetan word for the Lama’s household.

I left USA for the last time in October 1987. Was ordained by HH Dalai Lama in December 1987. Then went to Nepal and arrived in Gaden, South India in January 1988.

Kyabje Zong Rinpoche instructed me to stay in his Ladrang on my last meeting with him before he passed away. So I followed his instructions. Zong Ladrang was run my Zong Rinpoche’s manager. Zong Rinpoche had passed away and we were eagerly awaiting his incarnation.

My-room

The manager had two small rooms that were connected to the cowshed in Zong Ladrang. A small room with leaky tiled roofs was going to be mine and no rent. I was excited. I loved being in Gaden. I love the monks. I LOVED BEING IN THE HOUSE OF MY ROOT GURU, HIS HOLINESS KYABJE ZONG RINPOCHE.

This picture is the room in the front of mine. And then behind this room is my room. Behind us in the nice building is another chapel not physically connected to us. We were separated by a small road. You can see the tops of the Chapel in maroon and white circles behind the cowshed in the picture.

On the right of these two rooms adjoined is where the buffaloes and cows stayed. My room had a huge crack in the wall and I can see the cows and they can see me daily. I slowly painted the room blue, cleaned it up, put a simple bed and table inside and it became mine. I put netting over the windows cos at night there is tons of mosquitoes and a ceiling fan kept the heat at bay. I loved my simple small room in my guru’s house in Gaden. The smell of the buffaloes were strong, but you get use to it. This is where I did my reading, retreats, tsok, pujas, prayers and had many great times for a few years.

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Across and separate from me was the communal toilet and shower. Left is toilet and right is shower. Found snakes in the toilet a few times too, but I didn’t get harmed

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My small room and the chapel behind me

When he passed away and I got the news in Los Angeles…my whole world fell apart. I couldn’t stop crying for months. Even now as I type this tears flow down my face. I can’t say I have missed anyone in my whole life as I miss Zong Rinpoche. To me, he was the most perfect High Tibetan Lama. The perfect Archetype of what I imagined them to be like. He was very knowledgeable in sutra. Perfect master in tantra. Had full clairvoyance. Very hard to surpass Rinpoche in the knowledge of rituals. And on occasion manifested his tantric powers. I have never recovered from his passing. There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t miss him. Not a day goes by I haven’t recited his name mantra for the last 25 years.. I keep his photos and statues near me always. I believe and trust in Zong Rinpoche all the way. I have some of his hair he gave me and it has always been with me and I carry it wherever I am.

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This is the window to my room from behind my small room. The monks would walk up and down. My monk friends would tap on the window to say hello often–it was a good time for most of it

When I entered his Ladrang, his energy pervaded the whole place, BUT HE WAS NOT THERE. I had come after he passed. I had come after my guru had left his body. So much negative karma that I could not meet him again. I toured his rooms, his stupa, his bed, his prayer room, his yard, his students, his trees, his plants, his chairs, his carpets, his statues, his altars and i felt him everywhere. I felt the presence of this enlightened being everywhere and all the places I looked. He had over 30 students that lived in his ladrang. We were the Zong Ladrang students and I was very proud and honored to be one of them.. But Rinpoche has passed away. I felt alone. I felt vulnerable. I felt lost. I missed him so much. I realized that only in body was he gone, but being Heruka Cakrasamvara, his mind was every where and I must tap into his mind by developing compassion, benefitting others, letting go of pains, and working for others. That is the only way I can connect with him again….and I was determined to do that….

You see I have never loved anyone as much as I have loved HH Kyabje Zong Rinpoche…..

But I missed Zong Ladrang very much. Some of the students in Zong Ladrang were very kind to me and I remember them till this day and send them gifts. When I arrived in Zong Ladrang in 1988, I had very little money, didn’t speak a word of Tibetan and was bright eyed and bushy tailed. I was very poor but happy. Many times I didn’t have enough to eat and lost alot of weight and became very emanciated.. but I was happy. I never wanted to return to a lay life and go to USA again. I was where I was suppose to be, live and die there. I wanted to be in Gaden. And Gaden was in me.

 

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Hard to believe, but this is me in those days. I didn’t have much money. Not much food found my mouth. The monks with sponsors can buy extra, but I didn’t have a sponsor. Many monks were just like me. Some worse suffering from TB.

 

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I ate cooked corn flour (tsampa) mixed with sweet tea daily and most of the time.

 

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I was always hungry, but I am not complaining. I wanted to be there and happy to be endure poverty for the dharma.

 

Mundgod post office

This is the Post office 20 mins away walk from Gaden from whence later I would send and receive thousands of letters and correspondences. Most of the time, the letters didn’t get lost either! There was no Western Union during my time in Gaden, this is recent. But it is the same building with no difference at all.

 

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(I sure was super thin. I looked liked a waif..hehe)

 


Later in 2006 from Malaysia where I was living I visited my old room in Zong Ladrang. I shared alot of memories with the 62 people who followed me there. They were very happy to learn of my background and I humbly shared it with them. See below.

 


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Visiting my former room was really a blast from the past and i enjoyed being there again and sharing the place with my friends

 

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Visiting my old room in Zong Ladrang in 2006 coming from Malaysia.

Later I moved to my own house from Zong Ladrang. My father built me on my own house on land that was mine in Gaden after being recognized as a Rinpoche.

My house was called Tsem Ladrang-Gaden.

This sharing of pictures and thoughts overwhelms me with thoughts of my perfect teacher Kyabje Zong Rinpoche.

How he recognized me as a reincarnation and told me to stay in his own house (ladrang) when we met the first time.

Memories/thoughts/ love for Kyabje Zong Rinpoche is what has kept me going through the most difficult periods of my life and I had many obstacles. He has been my reason to keep going.

I love you Kyabje Zong Rinpoche forever. May I be connected with you in all my lives until liberation. From the point of my liberation in the distant future may I wear you on the crown of my head always.

Zong Rinpoche Kyenno!

Tsem Rinpoche

 


 

Tibetan ‘Ah’ syllable found on the inside of the skull of the 2nd Zong Rinpoche, Zongtrul Tenpa Chopel (1836-1899 AD) after his cremation ceremony

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63 Responses to THE COWSHED THAT WAS MY HOME IN GADEN

  1. bybeat on Mar 19, 2010 at 5:34 am

    Love give us power for living. Thank you for this heartily report.

    • Low ksjc on Jun 9, 2012 at 10:36 pm

      Dear Rinpoche,in this blog you show us what is true Guru devotion,we take things very lightly and give up upon the slightest obstacle we come upon.When you come across hardship, you accept it with delight. As you know what you want and determine to achieve it . You treasure every bit of this memory as this is karma that we could not avoid.From this hands on lesson on hardship, you teaches us real life Dharma ,no one could ever doubt you ,as you have truly past through this phrase of samsara life.I will never forget what you have thought us.Thank you.

      • amy soko Zorigt on Jun 21, 2013 at 12:53 am

        i ALLWAYS BELIEVE GOD
        I THINKING ITS EVERYBODY LOVE TO LIFE
        BELIEVE AND EVERYTHINGS BE HAPPY COME TO SOON
        IF NEED SOMETHING I CAN DO FOR DIE EVERYTHINK
        BECOUSE I BELIEVE GOD GOD IS YOU
        GOD BLEES ALLWAYS

  2. keng tan on Mar 19, 2010 at 6:44 am

    This is an overwhelming story. And I so remember my trip to Gaden with Rinpoche. It was one of the best experiences I have. I will never forget it. I will treasure all the spiritual pilgrimages I go to and especially Gaden.

  3. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche on Mar 19, 2010 at 7:00 am

    Yes, you are right. It was a wonderful trip on all aspects.
    I am glad you could come along also.
    As the time flies by,
    We wonder what we have accomplished,
    if it is things for ourselves,
    then time has been wasted,
    But if it was for the benefit of others,
    then we in the end also become liberated.
    Our mind is deceptive,
    tricking us that self benefit is real benefit,
    when it is the cause to all that does not benefit,
    realizing this deception, in our mind we run
    from samsara and engage in practice that only benefits,
    never bringing harm to ourselves and others
    again……..that is a life that has worth…
    Tsem Tulku

  4. Paris on Mar 19, 2010 at 12:39 pm

    This is such a wonderful sharing – Rinpoche’s level of Guru devotion is exemplary, something every one of us on a spiritual journey should aspire towards. I remember visiting that little room – it sure was humble and stark but it was full of happiness. I don’t think I’ve seen Rinpoche look as happy as he did for those moments in his old room.

  5. Shirley Tan on Mar 19, 2010 at 4:50 pm

    These pictures bring back the beautiful memory of our Gaden trip in April 2006, together with Rinpoche. It was deeply moving to see how all the monks, even the HIGH Lamas, treated and welcomed Rinpoche first hand. It was also my first trip to India and to a monastery. Didn’t know quite what to expect. What’s really enduring was seeing how GURU DEVOTION pervades the entire landscape that makes Gaden so special – starting from Rinpoche’s very own devotion to his own Guru, Zong Rinpoche. None of us could believe that Rinpoche actually lived in that cowshed when we saw it but Rinpoche really did and was really happy there. Infact when that picture was taken in April 2006 where Rinpoche sat on his bed in that cowshed, Rinpoche said that he would return and live there in a heartbeat because he feels closest to the Three Jewels there. You see, Rinpoche is nothing like us. Rinpoche has never been impressed with materialism nor is Rinpoche attached to luxury. However Rinpoche is definitely very attached to the Three Jewels. In that sense, Gaden is always in Rinpoche’s heart and wherever Rinpoche goes, Gaden goes with him. Rinpoche carries His GURU AND GADEN in HIS HEART. That’s what I have learnt from our Gaden trip, after everything I witnessed with my own eyes since the day I met Rinpoche in October 2004.

  6. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche on Mar 19, 2010 at 5:53 pm

    Dear Rinpoche,
    Thank you for putting it up on your blog and sharing it with all. Although i know of this from a long time ago and have heard and read it many times, nevertheless, each time it still touches me and brings tears of inspiration, joy and sadness all at the same time; the years of hardship Rinpoche had to endure for others, the tenacity, the inspiring example that “if theres a will, theres a way” to achieve ones goal and dreams.
    Thank you Rinpoche for being the beacon of hope and light in my otherwise meaningless samsaric life.
    With love, always
    Ruby Khong

  7. Li Kim on Jul 4, 2010 at 2:58 am

    Reading this article humbles me, actually it’s more than that, I am embarrassed reflecting what I have and yet can still complain. Rinpoche not only did not complain, he loved his cowshed which he made his home.
    In this article I can deeply experience Rinpoche’s love for his root Guru, Kyabje Zong Rinpoche. Despite having passed so long ago, Rinpoche still remembers vividly everything about Zong Rinpoche, and holds the memories so dear in his heart. The closest I can come to this experience was when my grandmother passed away 23 years ago. And, I can imagine one day when my mom passes, I will cry for a long time and cherish her forever in my heart.
    This article also brings light to my understanding of how basic and minimalistically monks live and yet they do such great work to benefit many sentient beings. Truly defining the meaning of altruism. This makes me understand deeper now WHY we MUST respect the holy monks.

  8. Justin Ripley on Jul 4, 2010 at 3:51 am

    This really is a great existence, great place for practice, so simple and nice. Whenever Rinpoche talks about his Guru I can feel the sincerity, genuinity. The fact that Rinpoche continued his studies even after his Guru had passed away before he could meet him again is a testament to Guru devotion. Rinpoche kept his promise, is keeping his promise to all his Gurus.
    We can never experience true Guru devotion, only by seeing how our Guru’s act and treat their Guru’s is all we have. It must be difficult being here in Malaysia dealing with lay people and all the hang-ups of samsara.

  9. Shirley Tan on Jul 4, 2010 at 4:32 am

    This is my second time reading this article, and I was one of the 62 people who had the priviledge of visiting Gaden with Rinpoche in 2006. The same powerful emotions still stir within me, as I read the words and looked through the pictures. We look at monks and we just assume that they should live this way, austere and minimalistic. We look at the ones with robes, and we automatically assume that they should have very little, and be denied from everything that we cannot we live without. We think this is normal and acceptable because they are monks. In other words, we think that it is all right for monks to suffer or endure hardships because they have renounced from wordly life. That is how little compassion we hold for those in robes. This is how twisted our minds are. Instead of respecting them and honouring them like Li Kim wrote, we think they should remain in their hardship or suffering because they are monks/nuns. They can’t be seen to be having a good time at all, in any which way or form. If I continue to believe in that perception, then I would not fully appreciate the fact that Rinpoche has gone through so much just to learn what I could not learn, to live a life that I could not bear to live and to become so Instead, I have become the complete opposite of all that. So, the very least I can do is to always honour Rinpoche’s blood, sweat and tears by sbeing devoted and staying fully awake. I realised I was too conditioned by my own ideas/standards of respect, love and compassion. So, I behaved according to that level. It’s time for me to break out from all that, and become so much more because I should do just that much to express how much I appreciate Rinpoche’s passion in wanting to benefit us all. This is the very least I should do and can do. Thank you so much for teaching us, always, Rinpoche. THANK YOU.

  10. Joy Kam on Jul 4, 2010 at 6:06 am

    I agree with what you said that “We can never experience true Guru devotion, only by seeing how our Guru’s act and treat their Guru’s is all we have. It must be difficult being here in Malaysia dealing with lay people and all the hang-ups of samsara”.
    Imagine Rinpoche coming to Malaysia to spread/teach Dharma to a bunch of lay people, who does not even know the life story of the Buddha. It was definitely tough time for Rinpoche. But Rinpoche’s enthusiasm, determination, and pure Guru Devotion is the key and a great example to follow. Rinpoche’s whole being and life is a great teaching to us, thank you Rinpoche for your sharing.
    To me real Guru Devotion and what Rinpoche wishes for all his students which is to transform our minds and to change the habits that keeps pulling us down.

  11. Wendy on Jul 4, 2010 at 3:00 pm

    The picture of Rinpoche sitting on the bed in Rinpoche’s old room in Zong Ladrang Gaden brought back many memories from the Gaden trip in 2006. I remember Rinpoche saying to us that Rinpoche would never exchange anything for Rinpoche’s time in Gaden. Rinpoche was very happy there because Rinpoche was amidst High Lamas, Dharma and the monastery. I absolutely believe that as why would Rinpoche want to go thru hunger and living in such a Spartan environment and be happy there when Rinpoche could have all the material things and comfort in America . There is definitely no other reason except for Dharma. I can imagine this room meant a lot to Rinpoche. Going to Gaden and living in Zong Ladrang was a fulfillment of Rinpoche’s promise to Zong Rinpoche whom Rinpoche loved so much.

  12. Thierry on Jul 4, 2010 at 3:17 pm

    I find it truly inspiring that Rinpoche’s devotion to his guru and commitment to Dharma never swayed, even when the living conditions he experienced were looking rather hard from the outside.
    Through near starvation, living in a cowshed with little or no comfort, his devotion to his Guru Kyabje Zong Rinpoche gave him the strength and will to go on. It even looks as if Rinpoche turned the hard conditions he lived in into something joyous, something that would uphold him, rather than to bring him down.
    If I compare to my own experiences, I find it shameful that with conditions looking “condusive”, plenty of food, air-conditioned Dharma center with marble flooring, Dharma DVD’s playing on flat screens, etc… my faith and commitment is so poor.
    It shows that:
    a) Real condusive conditions come from within, not from outside
    b) What appears to be condusive from the outside, may actually become obstacles to our Dharma practice (like too much comfort nums us)

  13. susan on Jul 5, 2010 at 4:54 am

    Rinpoche talks about taking a group of 62 people to Gaden Monastery in 2006. Do watch this pilgrimage video http://www.kechara.com/publications/audio-visual/dvds/journey-to-gaden/
    What struck me most is how Rinpoche misses Zong Rinpoche. I’ve known of this for many years and was there during the trip. Nevertheless, reading this post strikes deep in my heart and mind as if i’m reading it for the first time.
    Instead of feeling sad, lonely, with not much to eat, Rinpoche made up his mind by developing compassion, benefitting others, letting go of pains, and working for others. As Rinpoche stated, that is the only way Rinpoche can connect with Zong Rinpoche again.
    Closeness with our Guru is not just about physical proximity, but closeness as in what we wish to develop for ourselves and others. IF our minds differs from our Guru’s then how can we have closeness with him. Rinpoche, thank you for blogging this article as I know it will make many people think about their samaya with their gurus as it has done to me.

  14. Jean Mei on Jul 5, 2010 at 7:14 am

    I’m sure that a lot of people express Thank You towards Rinpoche all the time, but I’d just like to say Thank You again for sharing this post which shows everyone the humble early days you had as a monk.
    I feel that perhaps some people may get the impression that with the amount of gifts that he gives away and the established departments (and ladrang) that anyone can see today that Tsem Rinpoche has always had it easy due to kind sponsors.
    By looking at the photos and reading the explanations and photo captions, it truly illustrates how genuine and real Rinpoche’s devotion and his lineage (due to the teachings) is.
    A lot of people (including me) sometimes wish that they had a massive, fluffy sofa to sit on after the 4th hour of listening to a teaching (I’d honestly still pick a cushion over a sofa) but looking at where Rinpoche has done prayers for most of his life makes me feel shameful that I can pray in an air-conditioned and mosquito-free environment.
    I’m sure that (just like Tsem Rinpoche) Zong Rinpoche didn’t mind and probably loved his Ladrang but some part of me wish that I was around and could do something to improve the place.
    I’m very happy to see the conditions of Tsem Ladrang and feel really comforted to know that his students will do their very best to give him the best that they can.

  15. Yokefui on Jul 5, 2010 at 12:56 pm

    Yes Rinpoche, I was one of the fortunate ones to go on that trip with you to Gaden in 2006. I was there too in your old room. Until I saw with my own eyes the condition in which you lived in, I had no idea what hardships you endured to learn and practice the dharma.
    Few nights ago you scolded us for not treasuring the dharma, how right you are. We are truly the fools that hold a gold nugget and then just carelessly toss it aside.
    Reading this post again and again should be a daily practice for all your students. It is a living reminder to us of Rinpoche’s devotion to your Guru and dharma

  16. Likheng on Jul 5, 2010 at 7:24 pm

    What hits me hardest after reading Rinpoche’s post is the way in which Rinpoche remains so loving, caring, giving, hopeful and joyful despite the hard living of Rinpoche’s youth. I have never sensed a moment of anger, sadness, or bitterness from Rinpoche. Rinpoche does not use the sad and hard past as an excuse to be less than 100% compassionate and dedicated to being in to contribution to others through Kechara House. Rinpoche sets the pinnacle of example to which I should remind myself to make conscious effort to strive towards.
    From Rinpoche’s story, I also learn that if we find our cause in life like Rinpoche did, despite every difficulty, we will be happy. Additionally, from my understanding of Dharma teachings, the ONE purpose we all share commonly in our lifetime is to awaken the Buddha within us, i.e. achieve enlightenment to free ourselves and all sentient beings from samsara.

  17. Ashlee on Jul 5, 2010 at 9:55 pm

    Rinpoche’s strong Guru devotion is truly admirable. Rinpoche respects his root Guru (Zong Rinpoche) very much and put Dharma practice as his priority to return the love to his Guru.
    Rinpoche lived in the cowshed and had very little to eat but he still love staying at Zong ladrang. Despite the living condition, he persisted in his dharma practice because of his love for Zong Rinpoche. It’s very touching how Rinpoche describe how he misses Zong Rinpoche and how he hope to be with his Guru again.
    Through reading this article, i reflected on how fortunate we are in Malaysia to have a beautiful Kechara centre with full facilities e.g. air-cond, clean toilets, nice prayer hall and still we are lagging in our dharma practice. We must start practicing dharma & each students must play their part in order to repay the kindness of our Guru. As Rinpoche always remind us to be truthful & sincere and not to play mind games, then Kechara will grow to benefit many.

  18. David Lai on Jul 5, 2010 at 11:34 pm

    It is very humbling to know about Rinpoche humble beginnings and where Rinpoche’s heart truly lie. The hunger and poverty that was experienced by Rinpoche showed how brave and steadfast he is for the Dharma. His bravery inspires us to do the same in our own capacity with our own spiritual practice.
    For new people, this story is a great story that will reveal the treasure trove of qualities that Rinpoche has. It shows what a humble and a living master of the Dharma who would do whatever it takes to benefit others. One thing about Rinpoche is that he doesn’t need to hold his sacred vows but he naturally act out of the vows themselves. It shows that Rinpoche had already achieved the vows and the vows are not to hold him down but to inspire others to practice.

  19. Uncle Eddie on Jul 6, 2010 at 6:03 am

    An opportunity was provided in a visit to Gaden Monastery in 2006 for 62 people, including myself, where we were able to see how our guru used to live when he first went to join Gaden Monastery. We were taken to two adjoining small leaky tiled roof rooms situated behind a chapel separated by a small road. From a description, it seems our guru had buffaloes and cows staying as neighbours in the other room and through a huge crack in the wall, he could see them daily, had to get used to the strong aroma of the buffaloes and this was where he did readings, retread, tsok, pujas, prayers for a few years. Snakes were sometimes found in the toilet, though no harm had happened to him all those years and Rinpoche said that he had many great times living in this simple small room of his guru’s house in Gaden.
    This article shows us that learning Dharma make us to transfer ourselves to become better and should not make our ego grow bigger and make us swell with pride with a wrong attitude.

  20. Anila on Jul 6, 2010 at 8:01 am

    When I first visited Tsem Rinpoche in Ganden Monastery I never expected him to stay in a cowshed when he became a monk in Gaden. He was still very thin and malnourished even though he was already staying in the house that his father had built for him now. This cowshed belonged to Zong Rinpoche. Through the kindness of Zong Rinpoche Tsem Rinpoche has a place to stay even though its a cowshed. He appreciates Zong Rinpoche very much thats the reason why he will shed tears when he thinks of Zong Rinpoche. And in 2006 he led a pilgrimage to Ganden Monastery and he proudly show the cowshed to the people where he stays through the kindness of his Guru. That is why he feels very much for people who are homeless and without food. And KSK was born.

  21. pamela on Jul 6, 2010 at 11:39 am

    Dear Rinpoche, thank you for sharing the stories of your life with us. Although I haven’t have the chance to visit Gaden Monastery, Zong Ladrang and Tsem Ladrang-Gaden, I wish I can in the future. The pictures posted here makes me feel like I was there in person. I could still remember in 1 of Rinpoche’s teachings, Rinpoche actually commented how precious it was to have a mosquito net to keep them out. It was funny at first but then I realized how hard it would be if I was staying there. So used to the so called ‘luxuries’ we have now and taking them for granted. I am so glad that Rinpoche now have a comfortable place, very hardworking Liaisons and members in order for Rinpoche to guide and advise for the precious Dharma to grow bigger and bring more benefits to all. May KWPC manifest ASAP and Lord Setrap help us all the way in realising Rinpoche’s hard work and dreams.

  22. Sandy Clarke on Jul 6, 2010 at 12:23 pm

    Dear Rinpoche,
    With greatest respect, I read this article and thought: “What hardships!” But it seems I prove my own ignorance, because I get the feeling that actually, these weren’t hardships to be endured, but rather your earlier joyful times in the Dharma and not being concerned with material comfort, which in comparison is temporary and meaningless.
    It’s very strange, because I’m at present drawn back to a time in my early days at school, where a minister spoke to our class. Our teacher asked him about the sacrifices he made in joining the Church and he said: “I didn’t sacrifice anything to join the Church; it was always my calling, my greatest joy.” I’ll never forget that, even though it was over 20 years ago.
    Thank you for sharing such joyful times. I’m sure thoughts of these times bring you fond memories, and although you no doubt still feel the loss of your great guru, HH Zong Rinpoche, you’ll also feel the many benefits and gains he provided you with, which no doubt remain with you till this day.
    Kindest regards,
    Sandy

  23. Su Ming on Jul 6, 2010 at 3:32 pm

    What touches the most about this posting about Rinpoche’s Guru Devotion towards Zong Rinpoche is that Rinpoche DID NOT TURN BACK HIS WORDS/PROMISES when Rinpoche heard the news that Zong Rinpoche has passed away. Rinpoche proceeded with what Rinpoche has promised Zong Rinpoche and Rinpoche made his way to India to become a monk. I’ve heard how Rinpoche has “suffered” in India and Nepal due to poverty BUT that WAS NO EXCUSE TO BREAK THAT PROMISE. And believe me, if Rinpoche had stayed back in America, Rinpoche would be very successful.
    It is very inspirational as in this age and era whereby promises are just merely words without action. Let us just reflect upon ourselves on all our broken promises not just to our guru but the people around us. Once our attachment knocks on our door, our integrity just flies out the window.

  24. Paris on Jul 7, 2010 at 4:25 am

    I agree with you Su Ming that the most striking thing about this post is the overwhelming devotion and love that Rinpoche has for his Guru, and the lifelong commitment he has to the promises he made to Zong Rinpoche.
    The difficulties already started in America. Rinpoche told us that he heard about Zong Rinpoche passing away when he was still in Los Angeles. His whole world fell apart then and he contemplated for some time over whether he should continue to go to Gaden or stay in America. He felt that there was no point in going all the way there now that his Guru was dead. Then one day, he just asked himself, “Do I believe Zong Rinpoche is Heruka, or don’t I?” He knew the answer right then, that Zong Rinpoche may not be physically there but if he believed that Zong Rinpoche was Heruka, then he would be everywhere and he must still honour his promise.
    He left everything in America and went to India, knowing that his Guru wouldn’t be there.
    This is stunning, for how many of us could say the same of ourselves? Many of us can’t even keep a lunch appointment! As it is, many of us struggle to keep our promises even when our teachers are alive, least of all when they have passed away. Rinpoche exemplifies to us the meaning of a lifelong commitment, true devotion and how it is entirely possible – nay, necessary – to keep our promises, no matter how hard it gets. He has shown us by his own example that the integrity and honour of honoring our word brings us so much further than hiding, denial and giving up.

  25. Sean on Jul 7, 2010 at 2:14 pm

    : I think that Rinpoche has such good karma to be able to live in a Ladrang of his root guru. I hope I can do that one day. Rinpoche shows such great guru devotion towards Kyabje Zong Rinpoche. I want to be like that. I would want to be like a ferry to go forth and back for the guru, like the earth carrying and handling all the work for the guru. People want to be enlightened, that is why there is a guru. I believe that I am lucky to have a glorious center like Kechara House that has lovely people working in it, air conditioning etc. I am glad the snakes did not harm Rinpoche. When Rinpoche passes on, I will feel very sad. I know I will cry for months on end, because I love him as a guru! He taught me the great and holy Dharma, the only true way to true happiness! I really wish I could visit Gaden Monastery one day and see Zong Ladrang on a next pilgrimage!

  26. han on Jul 7, 2010 at 2:44 pm

    By Reading this article , i experienced the very strong guru devotion tsem Tulku Rinpoche towards his root guru Kyabje Zong Rinpoche
    Rinpoche listened to what his root guru adviced him since he met Zong Rinpoche in USA, even Zong Rinpoche passed away and the reincarnation came back, he never ever will break the samaya with Zong Rinpoche.
    Reflection on this, as a student to Rinpoche, do we sincerely enough to develop the guru student relationship with our guru? Do we transform enough to pay back the kindness Rinpoche had consistently working on us? Do we show our gratitude always to our guru? These are the pointers to comtemplate…..

  27. May Ong on Jul 7, 2010 at 3:58 pm

    External conditions like living in a cow shed and pangs of hunger did not dissuade Tsem Rinpoche to turn the other way to give up Dharma or guru devotion to his guru, HH Zong Rinpoche. Tsem Rinpoche kept his promise to HH Zong Rinpoche even after his passing on to clear light. These monks in the monasteries lived with bare minimum necessity and yet they are happy and joyous to be able to live close to their gurus and serve them.
    Tsem Rinpoche was not attracted to the lights in the city nor to the pleasures it offered. Instead he is most happy to be with the only person he owes his life and devotion to. So do we really need a lot in life to be truly happy?

  28. Tyler Mihalson on Jul 7, 2010 at 4:53 pm

    Dear Rinpoche,
    Your amazing devotion to your holy guru is so inspiring to me! I remember once you said to develop strong guru devotion to the point where tears spontaneously run down your face. I think now I understand a little of how beautiful and life changing it must be to be so near to one’s perfect guru. I am so inspired to read this! I have wanted to become a monk for such a long time, but have always been afraid that I will not be able to because I do not know Tibetan, etc. But I think that, if my gurus give me their blessings to go and become ordained, then I will surely be able to do it. You are my role model for how to be devoted to my gurus. I see how transformative guru devotion is, and I think it is time for me to commit the 50 Verses of Guru Devotion to memory.
    Thank you, Rinpoche,
    Tyler.

  29. martin on Jul 8, 2010 at 1:59 am

    Even as i read in awe of Tsem Tulku’s Guru devotion, i can’t help but think…Wow!…1988 in a cowshed…22 years of obstacles later, Kechara with 13 divisions and an army of full-timers with total devotion to Rinpoche’s vision. Not to mention the thousands of lives “straightened out”. For most of us, we spent the same 22 years sinking deeper into the quagmire of ignorance and attachment.
    To quote Su Ming: “Rinpoche DID NOT TURN BACK HIS WORDS/PROMISES…”
    Tsem Tulku Rinpoche has said KWPC will materilaize and therefore it will happen.
    KWPC for me offers an opportunity to practice (hopefully) the similar Guru devotion as Tsem Tulku has shown, and make Rinpoche’s vision my mission. For now, that is the only way i know to practice devotion to Tselm Tulku….to do what i can for KWPC to happen.
    And i thank Rinpoche and all in Kechara for “counting me in”.
    Much love

  30. Adeline Tan on Jul 8, 2010 at 5:39 am

    When I first met Tsem Tulku Rinpoche in August 1992 in Melaka in one of my dharma friend’s house, we just clicked straight away because Rinpoche could speak English very well and no Rinpoche could speak fluent English at that time, Rinpoche looked very thin and frail and pale at that time but very energenic his charismatic character attracts a lot of people, he is humourous and teaches dharma in a lively way.
    In the following yaer Rinpoche has invited a few of us ( 5 people ) to his house tsem ladrang in Gaden for 2 weeks. We really enjoyed our stay there. Tsem Ladrang was small and simple then but very warmth and calm inside and the surrounding areas. The air is fresh in the countryside and very relaxing that I wished I didn’t have to come back to work. During the day we helped the monks to cook our foods in the house and by night Rinpoche took us round the monastery, circumambulating the stepas and afterthat back to his room to listen to dharma talk till wee hours in the morning, it’s so enjoyable that we never felt tired or sleepy at all. It was indeed my first memorable pilgrimage tour in 1993 to Gaden Monestery.

  31. henry ooi on Jul 8, 2010 at 9:18 pm

    Journey to Gaden 2006 not only opened our (62 of us) eyes the simple monastic life Rinpoche led in Gaden but also that of all sangha members there. Rinpoche’s guru devotion to his root guru H.H. Kyabje Zong Rinpoche is very intense and we could see the tears and laughter of joy that Rinpoche manifested during the trip while recalling fond memories.
    Rinpoche made many offerings to all his other gurus in Gaden including their attendants, other old lamas and geshes and the grand offerings to the entire sangha in Gaden (about 3000 monks). In return, Gaden Shartse and Pukhang Kamtsen accorded a very warm and grand welcome to Rinpoche befitting a high incarnate.
    Many new members are asking when the next trip will be. Over to Kechara Discovery……

  32. KOK YEK YEE on Jul 9, 2010 at 12:01 am

    When Rinpoche in Gaden, South India, he stayed in a cowshed. Rinpoche has not complaint at all even though need to stay in a small cowshed. Two years ago, I felt quite luckily I can visit Gaden. I still remember when stand outside look at Rinpoche’s cowshed, I cannot believe it.
    You cannot imagine Rinpoche how much suffering Rinpoche has went through. That is no reason why Rinpoche want to stay in this small, old and narrow cowshed, the reason only for Dharma. Rinpoche has immigrated from US to India, all because only for Dharma and also want to fulfill his commitment to his Guru.

  33. ckliew-kc on Jul 9, 2010 at 12:30 pm

    This blog is very touching and heart felt. For Rinpoche to be here all these years , in a place thats so foreign to Rinpoche that might have slows down Rinpoche practice to sacrifice His own time for the benefits of all other people is truly respectable. As Rinpoche said and mention many times in this post you could have simply live in a shed high up in the mountain doing your retreat , your puja but instead you are here everyday in and out listening to people with many problems , attending to them and serving them is really sad to me. I feel sad not because of being pity of Rinpoche situation is entirely a great man like Rinpoche doing so much for us yet sometimes do not deservedly get any returns.
    I am sure we all feel Rinpoche reflect the best of the best Guru Devotion to your guru , i bow to your devotions , it is so strong by simply reading it it humbles every great person alive in this world. I wish one day Rinpoche can be back in Gaden ,back in a place where you truly feel one with. I wish Rinpoche enters full enlightenment as soon as it is.
    Lastly thank you so much for sharing your life with us.

  34. David Lai on Jul 9, 2010 at 4:50 pm

    This is where Rinpoche’s heart truly lies, a grotty little cowshed on the outside but what it symbolise for us is Rinpoche’s perseverance, true joy and love for the Dharma. No matter how big Rinpoche becomes and how many students and sponsors he has, Rinpoche will always be the simple young monk who reside in this cowshed. Bad and good situations come and go along with numerous sincere and insincere people that surround Rinpoche, seeking his assitance, Rinpoche would never move from his Dharma roots and his link to his Guru, in the form of his Sadhana and vows.
    There are many times when students repeatedly disappoint Rinpoche and cause him many sleepless nights, innumerable migraines and back aches from lack of sleep, Rinpoche told me that he would longed to be back at the monastery. I realise that is really where his heart truly lies and where he will always be. We are fortunate to see pictures of this cowshed because we are looking at where his heart truly lives. As students and friends of Rinpoche, we should know and understand this.

  35. Nicholas Yu on Jul 9, 2010 at 9:44 pm

    I can feel that Rinpoche was very happy arriving Zong Ladrang and staying there must be the most wonderful thing that Rinpoche would ever want.
    Rinpoche’s Guru Devotion really inspires me. Besides living in a rundown place Rinpoche also didn’t have enough to eat but Rinpoche was happy. Happy to fulfill the promise & happy for the dharma. Never once Rinpoche thought of giving up even after Zong Rinpoche enter the clear light. Rinpoche passion on dharma is indestructible.
    No matter how sad Rinpoche felt from the loss of Zong Rinpoche, the memories and loves for Zong Rinpoche that kept Rinpoche keep going.
    I really feel ashamed to compare with the condition Rinpoche gone through to learn dharma and me here with everything so well provided and comfortable.
    Can’t find any reason to stop doing Dharma.

  36. SK Yap on Jul 9, 2010 at 11:57 pm

    I was one of the pilgrims following H.E. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche to visit Gaden Monastery in 2006. It was my first trip ever visiting any Tibetan monastery in my whole life.
    Listening to H.E. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche’s history and biography and witnessing personally the place he stay, study, doing prayers and retreat have makes the learning so real and effective.
    All of us are so lucky, have plenty of food in Malaysia, stay in clean environment, have the freedom to do any thing and includes religious, we have jobs, and our family and friends are available anytime we call them. So why aren’t we doing dharma and practicing generosity and compassion for others? We have so much to complain about and have never ending shopping list to fulfill our attachment.
    Perhaps we should take time out away from our attachment, and for once do something good for others without thinking for ourself?
    PAUL

  37. Margaretlee on Jul 10, 2010 at 1:12 am

    From listening to Zong Rinpoche to go to India to become a monk and then staying at Zong Ladrang at the cowshed to later on moving to Malaysia to teach , Tsem Rinpoche has humbly and repeatedly followed all his guru instructions to the T’s.
    This remind myself that I should not be selective when taking instructions from my Guru.
    Though near starvation and with basically minimum necessities, Rinpoche was really happy to stay in Zong ladrang under these conditions. It shows how close Dharma is to his heart. I was exceptionally touched when Rinpoche said that after Zong Rinpoche passed away, he felt intense lonliness, but in order to connect to Zong Rinpoche’s mind, which in fact is Heruka Cakrasamvara, he realised he must develop compassion, letting go of pains and always act in the benefits of others in order to be close to his Guru. May I always remind myself the same

  38. Lim Tat Ming on Jul 10, 2010 at 1:55 am

    Rinpoche’s strong devotion to Dharma is so inspiring. For the sake of Dharma nothing can stand in Rinpoche’s way.
    Loss of beloved root guru, hunger, poverty, loneliness, vulnerability, imperfect living conditions, mosquitoes, snakes, buffaloes and cows as house mates, heat – these obstacles are insignificant. Rinpoche had shown us the life of the renunciates. Spiritual practitioners are adaptable, can lead a simple life and have very few needs!
    What is most empowering is Rinpoche’s guru devotion to His Holiness Kyabje Zong Rinpoche and perseverance in His Holiness’ absence. Rinpoche had shown the true practice of Guru Devotion. No matter where the Guru is, the Guru is always with us, guiding us along the path to Enlightenment.

  39. Jan Yong on Jul 10, 2010 at 2:07 am

    Tsem Tulku Rinpoche was very devoted to his teacher Kyabje Zong Rinpoche and followed all his instructions to go to Gaden, South India & stay in his Guru’s Ladrang. Despite how the environment that he stayed in didn’t have enough food to eat and he lost a lot of weight but he was very happy to be in Gaden and never wanted to leave.
    Although Zong Rinpoche was not there and could not meet him again even at his Ladrang but he always felt his mind was everywhere. The only way to tap his Guru’s mind by developing compassion, benefitting others, letting go of pains & working for others. This part touches me because we should do that too in order to connect to one Guru although we are not with him but if we felt strongly to benefit others always that will connect our mind to him.
    The way he endured poverty for Dharma without complaints has set a good example for us to follow. This picture (visiting my old room in Zong Ladrang in 2006 coming from Malaysia) is one picture that I put on my altar at home that I see/prostrate to everyday.
    The most important is the qualities to learn from my teacher every time I look at his picture or talk to him as he is there. This is the way to keep me going and most important never give up for Dharma. Also I will listen / watch his Dharma talk very often even when I am driving.
    May I be always connected to you in all my lives.
    With fold hands,
    Jan

  40. Beng Kooi on Jul 10, 2010 at 2:17 am

    Dear Thierry,
    I agree wholeheartedly especially with your last two points. Many times Rinpoche has said that he wishes he was back in Gaden again, doing pujas and retreats with the rest of the Sangha. It does not matter what facilities or luxuries were available to him in Gaden. More important was the environment to pursue a real spiritual path.
    Shame therefore on those of us who complain at long teachers, if the room is too hot or too cold, at the hard cushion, at the uncomfortable chair, at hunger pangs or just not being in the mood.
    How spoilt we all have become from the conducive outer conditions that did become obstacles to our Dharma practice. How shallow we are not to appreciate what our Guru has endured to be able to give us even the simplest teaching. And how selfish we are to want Dharma at our convenience and at our level – surely the path of Dharma is meant to benefit others?
    I read this post and am ashamed at my shortcomings.

  41. Cynthia Lee on Jul 10, 2010 at 3:13 am

    Rinpoche’s guru devotion makes us Malaysian devotees look like a bunch of spoil brats who are believed to be living on trees in the minds of foreigners but in reality is really gracing the fields of luxury. This just shows how unappreciative we are even when we have everything so easily provided to do the Dharma well. Even then Rinpoche have to beg us to do it.
    Really reminds me of those sports movie about a bunch of a really lousy team made out of different sizes, personalities, skills and race. The one thing they have in common is a good coach. The goal to win seems almost impossible at times, but with much patience and motivation, there is a chance for a happy ending still. Don’t give up just yet ☺

  42. Karen Leu on Jul 10, 2010 at 4:10 am

    I can’t imagine if I would have to stay in the cowshed. All this physical environment constraints doesn’t stop Rinpoche from practicing the Dharma. “Not a day goes by, I haven’t recited his name mantra for the last 25 years.”
    This is the sentence that touches me the most! Lay people like us, who have so much excuses not to do Sadhana/chanting daily, should feel ashamed to be called Rinpoche’s student.
    Rinpoche has taken his Guru’s teachings and advice so seriously. I felt that the respect that Rinpoche has towards Zong Rinpoche is just indescribable. Reading this really make me feel so small when compared with what I’ve done for my Guru…

  43. James Long on Jul 10, 2010 at 6:02 am

    I’m very lucky to have the chance to visit to Gaden in year 2006 together with Rinpoche and other Kechara members and friends. It was a wonderful journey.
    Rinpoche kept his promise to Zong Rinpoche even though Zong Rinpoche has passed away before he went to Gaden. It shows how strong his guru devotion is and his wish to continue his spiritual journey.
    How many of us are able to let go of our own pleasure and “so called-future” like Rinpoche to go to India, a foreign place, staying in a cowshed, suffer from hunger, to pursue his dream-be a monk and most important, to fulfil his promise to his Root Guru- Zong Rinpoche? Besides, when we have the chance to volunteer or part time or full time work in Dharma, how many of us answered: “I’m not ready?” We are really spoilt.

  44. Joy Kam on Jul 10, 2010 at 6:17 am

    Seeing Rinpoche home in Gaden really humbles me. It shows Rinpoche’s amazing tenacity, devotion, humility, love and attainment in the Dharma. If any of us were given this type of condition to live in, I am certain we would run, yet Rinpoche put up with leaks, the freezing tempritures during winter and heat during the Indian summer, insects and snakes. Only a person who is truly sincere about Dharma can do this.
    We Malaysians are really so spoil and it puts us to shame. Even now Rinpoche have to beg and cajoled us to even do Dharma. On top of that we get pressure and sarcastic remarks from family and friends saying that we’ve gone insane. A clear sign of the degenerate time and world. As for Rinpoche, nothing can and will stop him from the Dharma. We certainly have a long long way to go. We are so so lucky and bless we have the merits to meet the Dharma and Guru in such good conditions. This signals me to never complain but always to do more.
    Humbly yours, Joy

  45. weeliang on Jul 10, 2010 at 7:20 am

    This story is very touching. I cannot imagine how Rinpoche must have felt when he returned to his old home. Even when I visit the house I grew up in, It brings back a lot of memories. All I did in my parent’s old house was basically eat, sleep and play. Rinpoche having done so much more in Zong Ladrang and Rinpoche’s devotion to Zong Rinpoche, it must have been really emotional.
    I am very happy that Rinpoche’s motivation and commitment to the dharma did not sway at the times of hardship. But I admire Rinpoche even more now. As to me, it is even more admirable of Rinpoche to have his motivation and commitment to the dharma not sway when he now has a big Ladrang and much much more compared to before. In fact, Rinpoche motivation has increased and his commitment to the dharma has become indestructible. I hope Rinpoche can be an example to all of us that success should lead us to do more good things and not become deluded by it.
    Wee Liang

  46. Grace Cheah on Jul 10, 2010 at 6:15 pm

    I think it’s normal for lay people like us to feel sorry for Rinpoche (after reading this post) and would consider the difficult situations and harsh conditions Rinpoche faced during his younger days in Gaden as a form of “suffering” and a “big sacrifice”.
    The reason being we are so pampered with all the convenience around us, where everything we want and need are easily accessible, which we have been taking for granted for, without realizing how fortunate we are. Further, in these degenerate times, we are being brought up with the mentality/perception that money is everything, with minimal focus on compassion, selflessness and self-improvement, where spirituality is concerned. As such, we are constantly striving for material wealth and indulge oneself in luxury & samsaric pleasure, and engaged in activities that have no meaning, which bring us nowhere…but frustration, anger/hatred, egotism, selfishness, greediness, competition, conflict, etc. In a nutshell, we embody the “3 poisons” (ignorance, hatred/anger, and greediness) defined in Buddhism in samsara.
    Conversely, our Rinpoche’s passion and love for the Holy Dharma and his Guru Devotion is so unbelievably strong and “rock-solid” that he didn’t mind living in poverty and endure any hardship for the sake of others. In fact, he did not consider what he had pain-stakingly gone through those days as a “sacrifice” at all, despite living in a cowshed and had been starving with not enough food to eat for years. Instead, he was happy and loves his simple life as a monk/Rinpoche in Gaden, rather than being a lay person in USA. Rinpoche did this with a pure motivation of learning the holy Dharma, inspired by his root guru, Zong Rinpoche, whom he revered and trusted deeply, for the sole purpose of benefiting many people in the future.
    This clearly proves that our Rinpoche, a recognized re-incarnated “Highly Attained Lama”, has achieved a level beyond our imagination…a level where we, at samsara, cannot possibly comprehend. However, Rinpoche is so compassionate that he actually brings himself down to our level, so that he is in the same wave-length as us to teach and guide us.
    We are extremely fortunate indeed to have Rinpoche as our Guru, who is the perfect role-model for anyone to emulate. In fact, I am proud to tell the world that our Guru, H.E. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche, is the walking “Living Buddha”.
    Thank you Rinpoche from the bottom of my heart for Everything you have done for all of us (and countless others) Unconditionally and Selflessly! (^.^)

  47. Grace Cheah on Jul 10, 2010 at 6:20 pm

    Frankly speaking, I have not come across anyone as compassionate as our Guru, H.E. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche, who has a BIG heart, 100% selfless and with many Great Qualities:
    * He helps others unconditionally without bias/exceptions and urge us to do the same;
    * He implants “Dharma seeds” into our mind and teaches us the precious Holy Dharma patiently and tirelessly;
    * He nurtures & forgives us like our parents no matter what happens;
    * He never give-up on us and would continuously adopt different ways & methods through “his compassion, wisdom & skillful means” to make us realize our faults/shortcomings, wake us up from our senses, and make us change for the better;
    * He constantly pushes us to practice Dharma diligently so that we would transform ourselves (our minds) to become a better and happier person.
    * He encourages us to do more Dharma work (by helping others) and engage in virtuous deeds in order to accumulate more merits for ourselves to have a better & happier life in this lifetime as well as future lives, until we achieve the great goal of Enlightenment;
    * and many many more…!
    Meeting Rinpoche & the holy Dharma definitely bring countless benefits to many, not only we can fulfill our worldly wishes, but would also lead us to a much happier life by transforming ourselves (our minds) to be a better person through practice with perseverance.
    “May Rinpoche have a good health & long life to continue to turn the wheel of Dharma and may all his virtuous dreams & wishes be fulfilled. May the holy Dharma flourished and increase forever more in this region and around the world.”

  48. thierryfornow on Jul 10, 2010 at 10:14 pm

    As I read this, I realize that I am installed comfortably on a nice chair in a very hotel room overlooking the sea, the lighting is nice and subdued, I have air-conditionning and even room service… Yet, I am let to think, what karma is most supportoive to Dharma practice? This luxury hotel I am in or a cowshed in Zong Rinpoche’s ladrang? Without a doubt I would say the second option.
    As Rinpoche explained before, having money and be constantly pampered is not necessarily good karma; good karma, to be good in its full sense, should be karma that propels one to engage in Dharma, not one that propels one to engage in holidays and parties.

  49. Andrew James Boon on Jul 10, 2010 at 10:33 pm

    Such and incredibly moving story! And what eye-opening pictures. Thank you for sharing Rinpoche. I have never doubted your sincerity or motivation but through this post I get to get a glimpse of your life and how through your many experiences you went through (good or bad), you use them to your full advantage and transforms it into something that benefits others.
    1.You felt real hunger yet you never once complained. And now you created Kechara Soup Kitchen to make sure no one has to go thtough that: http://www.kechara.com/soup-kitchen
    2.You were intructed by Zong Rinpoche to go stay in Zong Ladrang, thousands of miles away from where you grew and yet obeyed with humility and never once complained. You do this without question as you wanted to be connected with your guru even though he was not physically there. And now knowing this, in your compassion you make yourself accessible to us all knowing full well this is an important aspect that helps us in our Dharmic journey. You know we would be incredibly lazy withouth your presence and will not be as dedicated (at least for now)and hence you sacrifice your own happiness to be in the mountains for us. How incredibly fortunate we all are and I am humbled beyond words once again!
    3.Whilst you were in Zong Ladrang you lived a very basic life (compared to most if not all of us here), yet you never once complained. And now you created comfortable accommodations for your students with all the Dharma houses where they can live and support each other in comfort with modern amenities: http://blog.tsemtulku.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/2010/06/dharma-houses.html
    Your incredible ad admirable guru devotion is remarkable! I will always be humbled by this and remain head bowed and with folded hands with you my guru, Tsem Rinpoche! Thank you for showing us always by example, over and over and over again.

  50. Koh Hee Peng on Aug 5, 2010 at 10:45 am

    “I was always hungry, but I am not complaining. I wanted to be there and happy to be endure poverty for the dharma.” – Tsem Tulku Rinpoche.

    A wake up call to all of us who are so accustomed to our way of life, that is no more than habituation based on our cultural upbringing that emphasizes materialism, which only increases our selfish mind due to our grasping to the ungraspable attachments (e.g. money, reputation, big cars, big house, etc).

    Suffering for others is not suffering, but liberating ourselves to the full potential of Buddha hood in us. When we suffer for others, it is not us who experience the pain. But it is our ego, our own self-cherishing mind that is experiencing the pain. In the process of helping others, we are eradicating our ego and selfishness that has deeply rooted inside us. Hence, when we experience pain or misery for the sake of others, we should rejoice. We should be happy as we are on the right track to attainment of enlighten mind.

    Be vegetarian, be happy.
    Be forgiving, be happy.
    Be compassionate, be happy.
    Be kind, be happy.
    Be selfless, be happy.
    Be happy.

  51. Anila on Aug 11, 2010 at 12:14 am

    On my first visit to Gaden Monastery with Bibi, Adeline Tan, Nancy, and Ms Too. Rinpoche showed us where he lived on his arrrival at Gaden as a monk. It was a cowshed. He literally lived and sleep with the cows. It was such a shock. Rinpoche was given two options. To stay in America become a model and enjoy life in B ig America in Los Angeles. But he chose to become a monk and endure all sufferings for the sake of sentient beings. And because of his faith in the Protector and Guru Devotion knowing that this can lead him to do much more greater things to help sentient being than by becoming a model. He has listened to his Guru and today thru all the rough roads, conditions as circunstances he has to endure to achieve 13 Departments and more in the near future which will eventually be in KWPC the biggest Retreat centre in this Region for benefit of a lot of people.

  52. Mic on Aug 18, 2010 at 12:27 am

    When I saw Rinpoche and others lived in the above cowshed, my heart felt for those who lived here without proper food and shelter. This relate to the same feeling that I have for those beggars, disable people, less fortunate people and children, abandoned children and old folks, homeless, and etc who asked for money at the street, the restaurants either by themselves or by charity organization. I felt sorry because they have to worry for their basic needs and poor living condition. This reminded me that there was a lady who carried her baby in her arm in Guangzhou who kneel and bow with the head knocking the ground non stop at the side of pedestrian walkway in Guangzhou a few years ago. Why was she so desperate? I could only offered her with a little money. She was helpless and enduring the pain that she had for her baby. I was not sure whether she had any shelter. I could relate her feeling as a mother who endure the pain of seeing our children suffering, mother would usually do anything to safe her children. It was really hard to be alone with minimum affection from family or maybe no family at all. I remebered my biggest worry for my children when they were still baby; I was very worry that I wouldn’t be able to take care of my children if unpredicted bad things happen to me and that a bad step mother who took care of my children would ill treat my children and caused unhealthy grow either mentally or physically to my children. This unhealthy grow would lead to children growing up with hatred and this would require a long and bumpy journey for them to find their deep hiden good nature and calming themselve. This was my biggest fear. I still pray for able to see through my children to grow up healthily (mental anfd physical). Now I pray for to be able to have deeper understanding in Dharma so that I will be able to imprint the dharma onto my children.
    Thank you Guru Rinpoche for being here.

  53. Uncle Eddie on Aug 19, 2010 at 12:26 am

    An opportunity was provided for me by Tsem Rinpoche in a return visit to Gaden Monastry in 2006 for 62 people, where we were able to see where and how our Guru used to live when he first went to join Gaden Monastry.
    We were taken to 2 small rooms that were connected to a cowshed.
    Rinpoche lived in the smaller room with leaky tiled roof, behind a chapel separated by a small road.
    From a description given by Rinpoche, it seems that he had buffaloes and cows as neighbours, and through a huge crack in the wall he could see them daily, had to get used to the strong smell of buffaloes, and swarm of mosquitoes flying around. That was where he did his reading, retreats, tsog, pujas & prayers for many years. Snakes were sometimes found in the toilet, though no harm had happened to him.
    He had, nevertheless, never complained about these inadequacies, even went on to acclaim that all those years, he had many great times living in the simple small room of his Root Guru’s house in Gaden, His Holiness Kyabje Zong Rinpoche whom he so dearly loved and felt so proudly of!
    Such is our Guru who said that learning and practicing Dharma make us to transform ourselves to become better and not make our egos bigger and make us swell up with pride with wrong attitudes.

  54. Knut Eggers on Sep 26, 2010 at 3:06 pm

    What an amazing story of true humbleness. What a selfish attitude I have and how great my own fear of poverty. Sorry about being disrespectful to you lately, I probably am a bit out of balance with my new feeling of upcoming self-worth. Hoping to serve you better – and those other very persons I love.
    Warm and humble regards, Knut

  55. tsemtulku on Mar 14, 2011 at 2:32 pm

    Some thoughts from the side of the teacher and karma:

    Why teach the dharma when no one wishes to transform or sincerely tries. You only offend them, make them angry, and because they can’t face themselves, become hateful of you. They even run away.. These days, one of the best ways to make enemies, is to teach others dharma or tell them what needs to change… So teaching less dharma is better during these times…transformation creates the causes for more dharma. Every time you break your promise, or give up or just run from what you are suppose to do adds to the drop teachings becoming less….Making excuses creates the causes for dharma teachings to lessen and then to stop….

    The most disheartening sight for any teacher is to see a student not change after years of teachings, hundreds of repititions of the same advice although the teacher cares so much..teachers must be compassionate towards students but not to the extent of allowing them to harm others/themselves….students must be kind to teachers too..it goes both ways… Excuses and justifications for the same mistakes arising from pure laziness and selfishness. Not caring about burdening others. This all creates such powerful karma for the teacher to go away, pass way or just remain silent. It creates karma for yourself to become harder, lazier and even more closed up…remember results resemble causes…. For projects not to take off or filled with zillions of obstacles arise from this type of karma also… If the karma is so strong, then even if the teacher wants to help, your karma or collective karma will somehow stop it. The degeneration of Buddhism will arise from ‘practitioners who don’t practice…this will create the main causes for the demise of Shakyamuni’s teachings…You may think you are happy and free because your teacher stopped pointing things out to you, but the so called happiness and freedom is temporary…karma catches up and the teacher with tears in their eyes watch you experience the effects of your karma…the teacher stopped speaking to you or stopped teaching because your karma to recieve it is not supportive…dangerous…never let it go that far…never…but if it has…then it has….

    Not wanting to listen to one’s teacher you say you are committed to is a sign that you have broken many promises, samayas, practices and trust. The karma that arises is any good advice given to you cannot be heard, understood or followed. Good advice might even make you angry. The sight of your teacher might make you unhappy. The sight of something that creates happiness or dharma might make you uncomfortable or run. Why? The karma to recieve good, is not enough. For example, when someone due to drinking has lied so much, cheated or hurt so many family members over and over, there is this very strong karma collected and bursting to open. The karma returns and makes him not hear advice nor want to follow giving up drinking. He/She may know the harm and understand, but cannot stop. Or run away from loved ones who truly care…the loved ones watch with tears and apprehension as they drink themselves to oblivion or worse… The karma to harm is too strong. The karma controls the person already….A tiger needs to kill due to it being born in that state as it’s karma has opened…opened to make more negative karma in that state..

    We must repair…must repair the karma. No matter how bad, samsara has so many worse states you cannot even imagine. Negative karma leads to more negative karma, it does not stand still…Do not be limited..do not let laziness and selfishness rule anymore. Remember commitment, stability and consistency are the keys to anything…repair as no one can hurt you or punish you, only your deeds returning…for some it is truly too late..for some it only seems that way…whatever the cases, try……

    It’s different for everyone and every teacher though…Tsem Rinpoche

    • Kasia on Jul 21, 2011 at 1:18 am

      I sincerely hope that seeds which are sown will some day grow and bear fruit, although maybe the soil/soul is not ready to nourish them yet… and that your fire will always burn bright for us all… you made me cry, think, love… and I am just one of thousands. So thanks and thanks for sharing and thanks to no end. really. Kasia

  56. andrew hibberd on Oct 25, 2011 at 5:49 pm

    if my sons can just be the best they can be and continue in happiness all my wishes will be fulfilled , i live here and i know i have or someone who is mine transferred the genetical memory to me and through this i know mine will live well beyond me and genetically or supernaturally everything i think , everything i do, everything i say will be with them for a long time , im happy in this knowledge

  57. Valentina Suhendra on Jan 15, 2012 at 8:56 am

    My dear Lama

    I have known about your story of hardship to pursue what you want many years ago. When things got difficult on me, the story of your suffering plays in my mind and inspire me to move on.

    Much love and care

    Valentina

  58. abby f on Jan 17, 2013 at 2:36 am

    Dear Rinpoche, thank you for your sharing. I realize that Rinpoche never afraid of the so called bad life, Rinpoche just accept it without complaint. I think this is because everything Rinpoche never think just about me me me, and whenever/wherever Rinpoche can benefit others, no matter how, Rinpoche will endure it.

    I sincerely wish myself can be like Rinpoche one day. I’m quite tired for being selfish and always take things from others. I wish I can have the even slightest of Rinpoche’s qualities, enduring the hardships for others and be selfless. I want to put this as my direction for my Dharma practice.

    Thank you for this sharing Rinpoche. Rinpoche inspired me a lot with this post. It makes me think more and wider. :)

  59. philyong on Feb 13, 2013 at 10:31 pm

    Everyone has to read this blog post and remember the contents of it. It is because of the pure love given to Tsem Rinpoche by Zong Rinpoche that we are all here today. Rinpoche always mentioned about how much Zong Rinpoche has done for him. It is because of Zong Rinpoche that he is a monk today (part of the reason) but definitely something for all of us to remember.

    One cycle around and today Rinpoche received an amazing news that HH Zong Rinpoche has invited him to stay in Zong Ladrang when he visits Gaden!!! As the post above mentioned, the previous Zong Rinpoche instructed Rinpoche to stay in his Ladrang when gets to Gaden. This shows very well the pure samaya of Rinpoche. Everyone is very happy with the news and we cant wait for both the Rinpoches to meet up again!!!

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  • tsemtulku
    (Sunday, Oct 26. 2014 12:33 AM)
    This is one of the funniest things I’ve seen in a long time! I laughed till I teared..please watch: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53930
  • tsemtulku
    (Saturday, Oct 25. 2014 10:15 PM)
    Wait till you see the pictures this photographer caught in portraits in order to evoke some feelings in us: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53879
  • tsemtulku
    (Saturday, Oct 25. 2014 08:10 PM)
    Tsem Rinpoche: Guess what we did on Mt Rinjani? See: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53342
  • tsemtulku
    (Saturday, Oct 25. 2014 12:31 PM)
    This is so wonderful that all of you are discussing dharma here on my blog chat (www.tsemrinpoche.com). I am so glad to see this every Friday on US Pacific Coast time 8PM (Malaysian timing every Saturday 11AM). For next two Fridays (October 31 & November 7, 2014) we have something very interesting for sharing on blog chat, please learn up on “Mantras-Holy Words of Power” post and video: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=28029. This is a long post so we do for the next two Fridays please. How much we can learn is a plus. We can never overlearn the dharma.

    We will discuss about this beneficial read. You will learn more as you read the post and discuss here with friends. I rejoice when you learn more. It stabilizes the mind to understand our spiritual practice and the benefits. :) Tsem Rinpoche
  • Pastor David Lai
    (Saturday, Oct 25. 2014 12:27 PM)
    Meat to Meatless… When I was 5, I hated eating vegetables. My mum used to tell me to eat my carrots as they gave me good eyesight. But I told her that was not a rabbit. I was no Bugs Bunny. Back then, I was this nasty little carnivore. Follow my little journey from Meat to meatless here – http://www.davidlai.me/2014/09/28/meattomeatless/
  • tsemtulku
    (Friday, Oct 24. 2014 12:13 PM)
    If your angersome, it means you are spoiled.
    If you want things to be given to you, then you want others to do your work.
    If you complain without doing, it means you want an easy way out.
    If you have no integrity, it means you have never earned respect.
    If you are always late with your promises, it means you take things for granted.
    If you always argue to win, it’s because you allowed yourself to lose in life.
    If you are not concerned about others, then you have been overly self absorbed.
    If you don’t wish to change your situation, it’s because you don’t consider others and their despair for you.
    If you are arrogant, it’s because others are to be used by you.
    If you are intolerant, it’s because you want things only your way.
    If you are full of hatred, it’s because you only wish to benefit yourself.
    If you always lie, then you innately think others dumb and unworthy.
    ~Tsem Rinpoche
  • tsemtulku
    (Thursday, Oct 23. 2014 11:46 PM)
    Guess what happened to Justin Cheah? Read here and don’t wait another minute:
    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53437
  • tsemtulku
    (Wednesday, Oct 22. 2014 09:43 PM)
    The highest achievements are usually done alone.~Tsem Rinpoche (Sometimes the further you move up and achieve, the less people will be around or unable to keep up. Some cannot understand, accept or wish to do more and they can drop off. Some may wish you well but cannot keep up anyways. The higher your goals, the less most are able to understand or envision. Some may be even against you. But what is important is you stay focused and consistent. After all big achievements are done by only a few and not the majority. Highest achievements are usually done alone or with a very few. Stamina, vision, consistency, focus, care, responsibility and sometimes even a sense of compassion is necessary to achieve anything big. Giving up gets us nowhere, so continuing is a good option. When you make it, some will come back, many will join and the naysayers regret and wished they had stayed. Tsem Rinpoche)
  • Pastor Adeline
    (Wednesday, Oct 22. 2014 12:07 PM)
    Halloween is my favorite holiday. Everything about it brings good memories. Tsem Rinpoche

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  • Pastor Adeline
    (Wednesday, Oct 22. 2014 12:05 PM)
    “One isn’t necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We can’t be kind, true, merciful, generous or honest.” ~ Maya Angelou

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  • Pastor Adeline
    (Wednesday, Oct 22. 2014 12:04 PM)
    Over 100 million ‪‎wild‬ ‪‎animals‬ are murdered for their pelts every year, 25 million in the United States alone. These animals, obtained by hunting and trapping, are kept on fur farms in conditions like these…. take a look ~ Earthlings http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=17514.

    Please join us on this week’s ‎blog‬ chat discussion on Friday 24th 8PM USA (PST) / Saturday 25th 11AM M’sia (GMT+8) to open another door for knowledge and spiritual advancements for humanity.

    “How much we can learn is a plus. We can never overlearn the dharma.” ~ His Eminence Tsem Rinpoche
  • Pastor Adeline
    (Wednesday, Oct 22. 2014 11:56 AM)
    “I like doing things that are going to last longer than a minute in the world.”~ Christy Turlington (Wisdom is timeless. Tsem Rinpoche)
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  • tsemtulku
    (Saturday, Oct 18. 2014 12:15 PM)
    I really enjoyed watching the blog chat and seeing all of you learn and share. It was music for my eyes!! :) And just now, Jean Mei follow the recipe here: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/animals-vegetarianism/aunt-matza-teaches-bortsik-perisiki.html made traditional bortiks and peroshkis for us today as per my request. It came out delicious. She is really helpful and good at doing so many things. Thank you Jean Mei and she made enough for the US Ladrang team here! It’s one of my favorites from childhood.
  • Pastor David Lai
    (Saturday, Oct 18. 2014 12:09 PM)
    When your Guru Calls you… I thought I share these devotional pictures of Tsem Rinpoche standing up, bowing and folding his hands while listening to a voice message and receiving a phone call from his Guru recently. Even before receiving the phone call, Rinpoche would offer incense before hand… Read why does Rinpoche do this – http://www.davidlai.me/2014/10/17/when-your-guru-calls-you/

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The Unknown

The Known and unknown are both feared,
Known is being comfortable and stagnant,
The unknown may be growth and opportunities,
One shall never know if one fears the unknown more than the known.
Who says the unknown would be worse than the known?
But then again, the unknown is sometimes worse than the known. In the end nothing is known unless we endeavour,
So go pursue all the way with the unknown,
because all unknown with familiarity becomes the known.
~Tsem Rinpoche

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This is one of the funniest things I've seen in a long time! I laughed till I teared..please watch: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53930
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Wait till you see the pictures this photographer caught in portraits in order to evoke some feelings in us: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53879
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Guess what we did on Mt Rinjani? See: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53342
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Modern Buddhist Fellowship members joining in celebrations in Kechara.  October 24, 2014
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This is a Cockatoo named Boy. He was in a small cage alone most of the time for 22 years. The owner finally relented and let us rescue Boy and be put in a large huge outdoor aviary with friends and fresh air. He came to us on October 24, 2014. 
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October 24, 2014-Pastor Shin giving a talk in Kechara House. 
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October 24, 2014-Was presented with lots of flowers today. How kind. Tsem Rinpoche 
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Mark Twain once said, “Of all the creatures ever made Man is the most detestable. He’s the only creature that inflicts pain for sport, knowing it to be pain.” ~ From Earthlings, http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/animals-vegetarianism/earthlings.html
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The highest achievements are usually done alone.~Tsem Rinpoche (Sometimes the further you move up and achieve, the less people will be around or unable to keep up. Some cannot understand, accept or wish to do more and they can drop off. Some may wish you well but cannot keep up anyways. The higher your goals, the less most are able to understand or envision. Some may be even against you. But what is important is you stay focused and consistent. After all big achievements are done by only a few and not the majority. Highest achievements are usually done alone or with a very few. Stamina, vision, consistency, focus, care, responsibility and sometimes even a sense of compassion is necessary to achieve anything big. Giving up gets us nowhere, so continuing is a good option. When you make it, some will come back, many will join and the naysayers regret and wished they had stayed. Tsem Rinpoche)
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Since I was a young boy I wished to live in this type of environment. Tsem Rinpoche 
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Halloween is my favorite holiday. Everything about it brings good memories. Tsem Rinpoche 
4 days ago
This is my dream home, dream location and a place where I would spiritually grow. Tsem Rinpoche 
4 days ago
"I like doing things that are going to last longer than a minute in the world."~ Christy Turlington
4 days ago
Click on this picture to enlarge and tell me what they are doing? Tsem Rinpoche 
1 week ago
"One isn't necessarily born with courage, but one is born with potential. Without courage, we cannot practice any other virtue with consistency. We can't be kind, true, merciful, generous or honest." ~ Maya Angelou
3 weeks ago
Mother gorilla's heart- A child fell into the gorilla cage. She broke her arms and legs and she was unconcious. A male gorilla came and tried to hurt her. Luckily, a female gorilla rescued her by chasing other gorillas away not to hurt her. This is an instinct of mother animals that take care of their babies. The mother gorilla climbed the 57 ft wall and took the girl to the zoo officer. The girl was sent to hospital and the doctor cured her. Thanks to mother gorilla's kind heart. -From FB (Please always be kind to animal. Never hurt them, kill them or eat them. Tsem Rinpoche)
3 weeks ago
October 3, 2014-Karen said there were even people in the Gifts Department of Kechara participating in Blog Chat today. Wonderful to learn. Tsem Rinpoche
3 weeks ago
October 3, 2014-William, Pastor David, Pastor Jean Ai and Jean Mei preparing for blog chat. Nice people here!
3 weeks ago
October 3, 2014-In Kechara Forest Retreat, the room is filled with Kecharians on the blog chat right now. According to Pastor Adeline who sent the photo, the whole room is buzzing with blurping sounds from blog chat!! LOL. I like this when people learn the dharma. Tsem Rinpoche
3 weeks ago
I've been friends with Dato' Ruby for nearly 20 years. When I asked her to head the Kechara Soup Kitchen she immediately agreed and put all her energy into making it successful. Many are benefitted by this. Kechara is committed to continuing to benefit others. Thank you. Tsem Rinpoche
3 weeks ago
Our likes and dislikes are impermanent, so don't be stuck.~Tsem Rinpoche 
3 weeks ago
LOL. This guy is cute!
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Please sign this petition. It will take five minutes to make a difference. Tsem Rinpoche https://action.hsi.org/ea-action/action?ea.client.id=104&ea.campaign.id=31967&ea.tracking.id=facebook
3 weeks ago
When this female named Dorothy died of heart failure, all the chimpanzee family came out of the forest to say good bye..... the most stunning reaction was a recurring, almost tangible silence, reported staff at Cameroon’s Sanaga-Yong Chimpanzee Rescue Centre. If you know chimpanzees, then you know that they are not usually silent beings. I think it’s beautiful how many of the chimps are touching each others’ shoulders.~from Butterbin
3 weeks ago
Praise to the Lady Buddha who eliminates all source of suffering. Tsem Rinpoche 
3 weeks ago
This is a cool snapshot! I love the paranormal mysteries. Tsem Rinpoche 
3 weeks ago
Our Kechara's Dato' Ruby is on this month's cover of prestige magazine for her work in our Soup Kitchen. Congratulations to a kind lady and my good friend. Tsem Rinpoche
3 weeks ago
Is it time to worry? You tell me. See what I'm talking about please: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=53452
3 weeks ago
How nice that Caryl Dumaine Lamont Munson reminds us that although the contest is over, the goal of the contest is still to be achieved. See what he is talking about: Win A Manjushri: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=52496 Thank you so much. Tsem Rinpoche
4 weeks ago
Once in a while we step through something magical that gives us hope and we continue on. ~Tsem Rinpoche
4 weeks ago
New species of herbivores discovered in USA...LOL...Tsem R
4 weeks ago
Must read this chart and share. TR
4 weeks ago
This is excellent! Save photo!
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These two bright young people arrived in Los Angeles today to visit and help. They are very sincere and caring people. Glad to see them. Tsem Rinpoche 
4 weeks ago
If you want to read about compassion, strength, wisdom and fortitude, get this special edition of Essence. I did. Wonderful and a lot to learn from this lady of wisdom Ms. Maya Angelou. Tsem Rinpoche
4 weeks ago
The holy Tsongkapa image when He first arrived to Kechara.  Tsem Rinpoche
4 weeks ago
The other day I mentioned to my US team that it would be nice to have a oversized Monoply set to play with everyone for good clean relaxation sometimes. Guess what? Pastor Moh Mei secretly got us a set!! How thoughtful and sweet. Thank you very much. I appreciate it very much. Especially the thought. Tsem Rinpoche
4 weeks ago
His Holiness Kyabje Zong Dorje Chang
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His Holiness the current Kyabje Pabongka Rinpoche. Who is very learned and spends much time in deep meditational retreats. Kyabje Zong Rinpoche said that Pabongka Rinpoche has merged and became one with Heruka-Chakrasamvara already and those who see fault in Pabongka Rinpoche do not have merits. Tsem Rinpoche 
1 month ago
I gave a special talk on equanimity, I am sure it will help you to understand this subject better: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=42419
1 month ago
Every week we have blog chat, this is Kecharians in E-division preparing for the blog chats. Nice to see this. Tsem Rinpoche 
1 month ago
When I see this, I primarily think of my guru and dharma friends immediately. Tsem Rinpoche 
1 month ago
Beautiful people bring happiness to others. Tsem Rinpoche 
1 month ago
Don't break another person's heart, it's hard to mend. ~Tsem Rinpoche 
1 month ago
I have just finished doing 50+ tweets on mind, Buddhism, spirituality, acceptance, love, entanglements, thoughts and inner battles. Do enjoy reading them and sharing them. It might help someone I humbly hope. I do so every few days to share about wisdom, kechara and our spiritual journey. If it can reach people and benefit them, why not. Our lives and being alive is totally about benefitting others. That is the purpose of breathing and being human... Tsem Rinpoche Do follow me on tweets: http://www.twitter.com/tsemtulku
1 month ago
I would love to live in the Mt. Shasta area of Northern California. It has been recognized by the Native American Indian people to be a spiritually charged area. It has a power vortex under the ground in that area that energizes the place to be very blessed for spiritual practice, meditation and contemplations. Tsem Rinpoche 
1 month ago
Dear Andree Duckworth, Thank you very much for your feedback on our Kechara Pastors. They work very hard, they have great knowledge and very patient. I started the program so people who wish to bring dharma to others can have a lay life as well as a spiritual life recognized by others. Halfway to monk/nun-hood without being ordained. So naming them Pastors and having basic lay vows is good and it helps the public in Malaysia to identify with them easily. It worked out very much. I hope you will let them know you are benefitted by their hardwork. They will appreciate it very much as I do. Tsem R
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When all will end and karma catches up, why live as it will be forever? ~Tsem Rinpoche
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    Rescuing dog in LA river
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    This is a very inspiring video by Jim Carrey you must see
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    Dalai Lama watching TV
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  • 14th Dalai Lama with Mrs.Indira Gandhi , Delhi INDIA 1966
    14th Dalai Lama with Mrs.Indira Gandhi , Delhi INDIA 1966
    5 months ago
  • The Girl Who Couldn't Cry - Water is Life
    The Girl Who Couldn't Cry - Water is Life
    It's really hard to educate a generation of people born in conditions where they take things for granted. A simple slogan campaign that says, "Save water, It's precious" isn't sticky enough to make inroads. That's exactly where this video steps in: to make people realize how precious water actually is. A brilliant video that follows the heartbreaking story of a young girl that cannot cry. Sounds like fiction? Sadly, it is not.
    5 months ago
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    Dear everyone, All sentient beings deserve to live, be happy and not hurt, including animals. We should never hurt them or eat them. Look how much this chicken welcomes a hug and love. Observe carefully. Don't eat beings who can feel pain because the karma comes back. Tsem Rinpoche
    6 months ago
  • The appreciation shown here is so deep and touching.
    The appreciation shown here is so deep and touching.
    Dear friends, See this incredible video. This chimp was found in captivity for many years. Dr Jane Goodall released him into the wild. Look how he comes back to thank her with deep apprecition. It's amazing. Animals have such strong feelings of pain and happiness just like us. We should never hurt them and share with others to not hurt them. Tsem Rinpoche http://www.tsemrinpoche.com
    6 months ago
  • Aki drinking some water in the aviary
    Aki drinking some water in the aviary
    Aki is a rescued bird, he now lives in Kechara Forest Retreat Aviary
    8 months ago
  • Jamyang enjoying some fresh corn
    Jamyang enjoying some fresh corn
    Jamyang is one of our rescue birds that live in Kechara Forest Retreat Aviary
    8 months ago
  • The Cute Mumus Practising Dog Orchestra at Kechara Forest Retreat
    The Cute Mumus Practising Dog Orchestra at Kechara Forest Retreat
    Today the Mumus (dogs) decided to do a dog orchestra rehearsal together with the Kechara Forest Retreat (KFR) dogs.
    8 months ago
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    Gongkar is our new bird for Kechara Forest Retreat's aviary. Gongkar never had friends and the original owner could not bring him to his destination. Now he is with us and assimilating in his cage within the aviary for a few weeks then released into aviary. Look at how much he wants attention from the other birds. Cute. Tsem Rinpoche
    12 months ago
  • Mumu, Oser and Dharma running and having a good time. I love seeing them playing. Tsem Rinpoche
    Mumu, Oser and Dharma running and having a good time. I love seeing them playing. Tsem Rinpoche
    12 months ago
  • Mumus running at Kechara Forest Retreat
    Mumus running at Kechara Forest Retreat
    1 years ago
  • Kechara Forest Retreat panorama, September 2013
    Kechara Forest Retreat panorama, September 2013
    1 years ago
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    Dechog our cockatoo at Kechara Forest Retreat grabbing long beans which he loves. Nice bird. We love him. Tsem Rinpoche
    1 years ago
  • The mumus having outdoor evening stroll!!!
    The mumus having outdoor evening stroll!!!
    1 years ago
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    17 May 2013, heavy rain at Kechara Forest Retreat from 7am-8am (1 hour). Water overflowed the existing drain and also opened up a much wider new "route" for itself.
    1 years ago
  • Must see video from Rajendra on our disciplined dogs
    Must see video from Rajendra on our disciplined dogs
    2 yearss ago
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    Dato' Ruby won the Bella Awards!
    2 yearss ago

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Kechara Animal Liberation Day at Kuantan in conjunction with H.E. Tsem Tulku Rinpoche's 49th Birthday. Dedicated to Rinpoche long life and good health.Pastor Yek Yee
4 hours ago
Kechara Animal Liberation Day of October in conjunction with H.E.Tsem Tulku Rinpoche's 49th Birthday. May Rinpoche have good health, live long and turning Dharma wheel always.Pastor Yek Yee
4 hours ago
Have a group photo with my Kuantan Dharma brothers and sisters on H.E.Tsem Rinpoche 49th Birthday Ceremony. Pastor Yek Yee
4 hours ago
Conducted a Vegetarian Vow ceremony for Mr Yeo from Kuantan, Mr Tan from Muar and Anna Tan after H.E.Tsem Tulku Rinpoche 49th Birthday Ceremony prayers. Vegetarian Vows can help many animals free from suffering! Pastor Yek Yee
4 hours ago
Take care of others without motive. Have responsibility to people and you will see things change for the better. ~ H.E.Tsem Tulku Rinpoche_Hee TS
5 hours ago
Don't look for the ‪Buddha‬ in the ‪‎sky‬but inside of ourselves. ~H.E.Tsem Tulku Rinpoche_Hee TS
5 hours ago
"Just as a candle cannot burn without fire, men cannot live without a spiritual life." ~ Buddha _Hee TS
11 hours ago
Happy Birthday Rinpoche_PB
13 hours ago
Good things can only come from good actions ~#tsemtulku_PB
13 hours ago
Welcome Tom Wong, Ivan Leong & Zoey Sim to Puja House for this blog chat session, through this blog chat on the topic of "earthlings" they learn on vegetarianism, kind on animals etc.- By Puja House
14 hours ago
In Puja House today, we have 14 peoples join in our blog chat. Not only participants from KL also from Kuantan, they are joining in to discuss online on the topic "Earthlings"- By Puja House
14 hours ago
We should be accepted as we are no matter what others think. ~#tsemtulku_PB
14 hours ago
When we are talented & use our talents to harm others, we've wasted our lives.~#tsemtulku_PB
14 hours ago
In Puja House, we have 14 peoples join in our blog chat. Some are from Kuantan Study Group. - By Puja House
14 hours ago
Perseverance in any endeavours bears fruits. Don't give up.~#tsemtulku_PB
14 hours ago
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15 hours ago
Pastor Yek Yee conducted a vegetarian vow for Anna Tan, Mr. Jih Chiang Tan from Johor and Mr. Yeo from Kuantan Study Group. - By Puja House
24 hours ago
Beautiful Torma Offering to H.E. Tsem Rinpoche on H.E's Birthday. - By Puja House
yesterday
24 Oct, Kechara celebrating H.E.Tsem Tulku Rinpoche birthday. Happy birthday to our beloved Guru. May you live long and continue to turn the Dharma Wheel for more sentient beings. - By Puja House
yesterday
Lama Chopa puja dedicated to the long life of our precious Guru, H E.Tsem Rinpoche on His 49th Birthday celebration at Kechara House gompa. Lucy Yap
yesterday
More than 400 people came to Kechara House to celebrate Rinpoche's 49th Birthday this evening. Pastor Shin gave a good talk on Guru Devotion followed by Lama Chopa prayers. Students flew in from all over the world for this auspicious occasion. DR.
yesterday
Managed to rescue this 22 years old Cockatoo. He's been caged in this old and dirty small cage for all his life. We will soon give him a new lease of life in the huge aviary in Kechara Forest Retreat, Bentong. DR.
yesterday
My bestie, Anne Al Tay joined Kecharians to liberate 250kg fishes in Kepong Metropolitan Park. DR.
yesterday
With the next generation Kecharians, Beatrice Ooi (Pastor Henry's daughter) and Jason Roth (Celebrity host Li Kim's youngest son) in Kechara House. DR.
yesterday
250kg of fishes were liberated in conjunction with Rinpoche's birthday. DR.
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