It’s great to want love, demand love, get love, expect love and just have it..but what do you do when you get it? Just relax, not do your part and expect the love to be one sided. Yes love is unconditional, but it does not mean one gives unconditionally and the other gets only unconditionally. Love is a state where a person truly cares about you for YOU. And when you get that, you should do everything you can being true to yourself of course to reciprocate. I mean c’mon, everyone wants love and peace and the whole nine yards, but you have to give the same. Don’t just take and feel threatened when ppl get tired of just giving while you return love with unfulfilled commitments and empty words. Be loved and love without conditions but with responsibility.
Love is not just a word you use to threaten ppl into silencing them about your bad habits or unfulfilled promises. Love is what should motivate you to do your part too. Love is only unconditional when you don’t put a condition that it is unconditional. We must do our parts. ~Tsem Rinpoche