Can’t Live With Them, Can’t Live Without Them

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I studied Business Administration in university. At that time, which was about 23 years ago, it was the most common degree, especially with Asian students. How time flies… Anyway, during the course of my degree, I studied Psychology as one of my general requirement classes. To my surprise, I enjoyed that class very much, which made me realise that I like understanding people and how their minds work and un-work.

As I began my career after graduation, I also saw that I was more inclined to areas involving human resources, although my main role was in the operations and administrative departments. I was working in a manufacturing facility producing latex examination and surgical gloves, which at that time in the 90s, was not as fully automated as it is today. Therefore, I dealt a lot with people, from locals to foreign workers from Bangladesh to the UK; both male and female whose ages ranged from 18 to 65 years old.  Some were highly educated like professors and some less educated like housekeepers.

After nine years in manufacturing, I embarked on another career in network marketing, which again involved dealing with loads of people. This time I dealt with people with different levels of greed, and saw how twisted people can get in order to reap personal financial gains. I guess I can say that it was from here that I started to see the other side of human nature, which was more complex and infuriating. If I had a degree in Psychology, and not Business Administration, I would have diagnosed these people as Psychos! As the leader of my team, I spent hours counselling them through their difficulties to the point I felt drained of every ounce of breath. Talk about being breathless!

In addition to human exposure at work, of course I had my share of human exposure in my personal life with friends and lovers. I am after all 44 years old and have never ever lived life as a hermit. In fact, I was considered aimlessly sociable. I loved my parties. Notice I speak in past tense (ahem!). At my age today, it takes too much effort and time to get ready for parties. Plus, I have three boys to raise and that in itself is my best party these days.

Now, I shall come to the essence of this article. The human race is indeed one which is filled with 500 shades of grey. You can’t live with them and you can’t live without them. So with time and personal growth in the occupation of Living Life Happily, I have derived some guidelines, which make me still appreciate the light at the end of every human encounter. Let me share with you my five most favourite Guides to Living with People:

 

#1: It’s All About Me

These flowers are not for me???

Generally, people are selfish – regardless of their field, place or the occasion. People are always motivated by a personal agenda. Even when they come to the Dharma, or any spiritual centre, the initial reason is selfish – Finding Salvation for One’s Soul.

So with this in mind, when I am dealing with people, I will start with appealing to what ‘pleases’ them. I will accommodate in the direction of what they want to hear. One might say that this is hypocritical, and I would agree but instead of labelling the method, I ask you to check in with the motivation.

What is the point of communicating when people are not listening? And why are people not listening? Well… BECAUSE people generally only want to hear what they want to hear and say what they want to say BECAUSE it is ALL ABOUT THEM. So instead of fighting the ‘natural phenomenon’, I suggest going with the flow by first getting their attention, then proceeding to deeper meanings and achieving your initial motivation. Will this work? Yes, I believe so because intrinsically people do want to be Happy and Good. Why? Again, BECAUSE it is ALL ABOUT THEM!

So until you accept this, and work around it, you are not going to make much headway with your communication skills. And then you will literally end up only talking to yourself… and your pet.  

 

2) Life IS Shades of Grey

It is never black or white. We have to see all that is in between the black and white. I feel that when we are so absolute in life and choose to see things in only either black or white, we make life harder than it should be.

There is one thing I learnt called unconditional listening. It is basically listening wholeheartedly without any interruptions from all your inner voices. It is to ‘see’ with your ears. And trust me, when you do this, you will see all the shades of grey. You will understand that most of the time, things in life are not what they are on first impression, and even if they are, you will also recognise that they are not permanent and thus can change to another shade of grey!

This I find to be quite true especially with complicated people – you will need several impressions before you can form one that is consistently the same shade of grey.  Be compassionate to these ‘complicated’ people as they do not know better and are ignorant that life can be simple if they so choose. So until you can impart onto them this wisdom, be nice and go with their complicated shades of grey until you have a chance to stabilise them to only two shades of grey, and then you can proceed on stabilising them to one consistent shade of grey.

 

3) Time Heals All Confusion

When I hear someone say, “I’m confused”, I will think to myself, “Yeah, right! Which part of what I said is so complicated, it was in English”. Ok… I am being righteous but seriously, think about it, is one really confused or just too lazy to understand?

What’s my point here?

If we can accept that people declare confusion because they are not willing to accept what you are saying, and you accept this, it will improve your skills in communication. How?

When you accept this, and what you want to share and say is important, then you will be more alert, sensitive and skilful in the delivery of your communication. Communication is not about talking (that you can do with yourself) but about relating your message in a way that the listener gets you. It involves practice and observation to assess the person with whom you want to communicate. And it seriously involves you listening to them! Ah ha… that’s a tough one, huh? Half the world does not listen! I am guilty of that too, more so five years ago, but I am much better now.

Thus, with time and practice to master the skill of communication, you will heal all confusion.   

 

4) Personal Judgement is Overrated

I am guilty of this but I am watching myself these days not to say it. We have all heard conversations which start with, “Personally…”. Most of the time when I hear this I will think to myself, “Oops… looks like this is going to be a conversation with personal judgements”. Our personal judgements come from our ego, don’t you think? In any situation, if you want to leave the person better off, you cannot hold on to your personal opinions because it is not about you but the other person.

In any communication, the objective is to relate a message so that the other person gets it. So if our thoughts are laced with personal judgement and opinions, how do we see the other person’s point of view? I am not saying that we do not form our personal opinions on things, but this should not be from the onset of things but perhaps, if need be, at the end AFTER we hear the other person out.

On top of this, when we are absorbed in our own opinions, then we might as well really just talk to ourselves. Look in the mirror and have your best conversation. When we listen to our own voices, how can we hear what others are saying? How do we learn and grow? How do we make things better? How do we end conflict?

Our personal judgement is neither bible nor an authority, but simply an opinion formed with experience and time. And it is not absolute. It can change with more time and experience. Let’s ask ourselves how many times we have changed our minds over our own judgements? A simple example: You marry the love of your life, only to divorce him or her 20 years later. What changed? Our personal judgement. Thus my point.

 

5) Truth Hurts But Won’t Kill You

Bad driving can kill you, drinking cyanide will kill you but the truth won’t. If the truth kills, then all survivors, you and I included, are all liars. So, if you are not a pathological liar and the truth won’t kill you, why do we resist the truth? Why do we not face up to what is true although it is not nice to hear or know?

Facing the painful truth that I was a spoilt brat who always wanted things my way led me down the path of much unnecessary pain and mistakes, including wrong friends and bad business decisions. Today, I am much wiser with fewer mistakes in my life, mistakes which cost me too much in the past.

Accepting the truth is hard and hurts in the beginning because accepting the truth means taking responsibility and making a change. When you see beyond the initial inconveniences, the truth is actually liberating.

I will be honest. I am still a work-in-progress, even if I have come to understand and accept these guidelines. The truth is, if I did not have the faults myself, how could I see them in others? And now that I am involved in Dharma work, how can I not have the compassion and human kindness to cut back on my flaws so that I can serve others better? So, if we can all just improve ourselves every day by making that conscious mental effort, I assure you we can live happily and can Live with Them. Most of all, we can live with ourselves!

Lastly, I must share my emotional journey that has allowed me to get to where I am now, where I can actually write about my top five Guidelines. I am sharing my journey so that you can learn from it and decide to practice Surviving People sooner than later.

  1. I went through anger, despair, resignation, hopelessness, you name it!
  2. I cannot tell you how many countless times I visualised taping the person’s mouth shut and running masking tape round and round their head!!
  3. But with time, my negative and hostile emotions settled. Having the Dharma in hand definitely helped the process in terms of time efficiency. I could escape my destructive emotions faster.
  4. After the emotions settled, I could see the light.
  5. One more thing, during the period of adjusting my emotions and my thoughts, I went through a stage of detachment. I was also highly impatient and irritable. I was accused of being selfish and cold. I did not let this deter me and I let the process continue because I was driven by the fact that I wanted to be Happy and I couldn’t live without humans around me, so I had to find ways to survive with them and yet be Happy without them. And more importantly, share my life to serve a bigger purpose effectively.

With this… Happy Practising the Art of Living with 500 Shades of Grey! J

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  1. Wai Meng Wan on Jun 16, 2016 at 5:38 am

    Thank you Li Kim for sharing your thoughts about how to engage with others what they might be thinking at any time and also how to communicate. I think you are correct to say that, we think about self benefit almost non stop and sometimes in order to cut through and get the message across, we need to communicate in such a way that we can catch just enough of their attention and get them to participate or engage in an action that benefit themselves and others.

  2. Julia Tan on Feb 9, 2016 at 4:04 pm

    THANK YOU Li Kim. I cannot agreed enough of all the 5 points you shared above. Everything you shared were so true. It’s like something we do not need to learn but know how to do it since we were born. It’s so strongly implanted into our mind and we automatically conducting it everyday. So i think whoever read about the article will feel the pain because realizing the truth hurts.

    THANK YOU for giving us the solution on this. This is very important for those who are ready to accept and moving forward. I need to work hard on all these 5 points especially the confusion part. What you mentioned here which really hit me: is one really confused or just too lazy to understand? I have no patient to let others finish what they want to say hence I confused. Then i confused others when i convey the message. How can I not confusing others if I myself already confused. This is what I really have to put effort on to make it right.

  3. Li Kheng on Jan 30, 2016 at 10:56 pm

    Thank you so much for your unfiltered communication about people. It is true, can’t live with them…can’t live without them. This is probably why in the 8 Verses of Mind Transformation by Geshe Langri Tangpa (http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/buddhas-dharma/eight-verses-of-thought-transformation.html), people is the main ingredient for mind transformation and spiritual awakening and peace.

    As much as interacting with people can be completely daunting and disappointing and sometimes feel like a waste of time because nothing seems to be getting through that thick cloud of grey shades, some conversations I shared with people have been a beacon of hope and aspiration.

    I thank you again Li Kim for this piece of honesty that made me think about people and their impact on life. Please share more our your candid thoughts and advice as they are simple, direct, relatable and useful!

  4. Pastor Moh Mei on Jan 27, 2016 at 8:17 am

    Thank you for your honest sharing. Life is not a bed of roses because beneath it are all the thorns. Your sharing about people, your encounters are realistic and factual but not necessarily negative. We are all selfish people, it has always been all about US. Instead of seeing that as a bad thing, accepting it as a factual thing and work with that seems like a much better option.

    This one really stood out for me – “So if our thoughts are laced with personal judgement and opinions, how do we see the other person’s point of view?” Very often within a minute into any conversation, I would have developed some form of judgement or opinions on what the person said or assumptions how the conversation is going to go. In fact, I probably had the entire conversation already mapped out in my head before the person even got 2 sentences out. So I’m just listening to noises as oppose to what the person is actually saying.

    Everything will pass, good or bad. Pain is just pain, it too will pass. The truth hurts but doesn’t kill. The emotion, the state of mind at that point of time is just temporary. There is no need to suppress it or hold on to it, or analyse it, it is okay to just let it pass through. Something I also picked up from recent Inner Peace Retreat.

    These are 5 very practical guidelines that can really change the way we communicate. Just being able to truly communicate with each other, we can actually resolve most of the self-created unhappiness in our lives.

    • Li Kim on Jan 30, 2016 at 5:08 pm

      Dear Pastor Moh Mei,

      I indeed enjoyed reading your response especially about the part how you would have already mapped out the whole conversation in your head before the person reached their second sentence. I cannot admit more that I have been guilty if the same … ha ha ha. It is a conscious effort to make myself stop doing that. And each time I succeed on stopping my personal judgements, I do have better and more meaningful conversations. Thank you for taking the time to share your views 🙂

  5. Pema Thinley on Jan 27, 2016 at 3:04 am

    Dear Phng Li Kim lah!!

    Thank you so much for sharing such indispensable article. I really learnt a lot about the way of communicating. It was very mind transforming to read through your beautiful story and illustrations. This may help lot of people like me. Understanding others is very important as life is not just about ourselves. everything is about them and we have to do for others. I remembered one phrase Rinpoche said, “When someone tells you something you do not like, push yourself to listen. Push yourself to be open. Push yourself to change your habit of closing people out.” Your sharing gave much deeper understanding. 🙂 Thank you _()_

    • Li Kim on Jan 30, 2016 at 5:13 pm

      Dear Pema Thinley lah!!

      Much of the foundation in which I have relied upon to come up with these guidelines comes from the teachings of Rinpoche. Rinpoche is an amazing teacher who makes it for simple-tons like me to understand and apply. I have always said and believed that Rinpoche is the Lama of our modern times. His direct ways and creative methods of teaching allows many to benefit because he makes it apply to our lives in this modern age where we are all so easily distracted and engrossed in many things which we deem important but does not bring us lasting peace and happiness. Thank you for sharing! 🙂

  6. JP on Jan 26, 2016 at 12:52 am

    Thank you Likim for sharing your thoughts and what you’ve learned about co-existing with others. The bottom line is it’s easier to change ourselves than to change others. As Rinpoche always explains, all of us have our own karma, hence our differences. If we hope for others to tolerate and have patience in us, then we should also accord the same for others.

    My personal experience is that most of the negative reactions we have when others behave in a certain manner are actually from past emotional baggage that we have kept buried in us. Situations and others are only triggers.

    When we practice the dharma teachings consistently, we will realize that after a while, we will have less negative emotions being triggered. It’s not that we have become numb to others and situations, we have learned to embrace and accept them for who or what they are. And why we meet these people and be in these situations is because of our karma since beginningless time.

  7. jason king on Jan 25, 2016 at 6:10 pm

    Dear Li Kim

    Thank you for sharing your personal thoughts. Indeed sentient being pyshce is so complex and perplex, one just doesn’t know where or how to start to deal with them.

    There are some who live self righteous lives and in so doing, are almost annoying to the extent they keep pointing out others’ faults even in situ. The idea perhaps to educate that person but as we all know one has to be sensitive to others’ sensitivities. Is it any wonder why others are avoiding these type of people for ‘fear’ of being criticised or ridiculed (all the time – just too exhausting). These are the sort of people (please don’t get me wrong, who have good hearts) but find it difficult to point out the faults of the ‘prince’ but can point out the faults of the ‘pauper’ with much ease.

    Then you have those who blatantly do not admit their own faults but gladly points out others faults and when the tables are turned, they accuse the others to have such huge egos to accept their faults and instead finger pointing back at the accuser. Like it or not EGO is around in existence as long as sentient beings are around – boo hoo hoo..

    You also have those who find it difficult to be ‘nice’ amongst family members or close friends but when they are out with other people (strangers and or acquaintences), they are so courteous. Courtesy and civic mindedness is perhaps how people ought to conduct themselves at all time, but as the proverbial saying goes – Familiarity breeds contempt and often do, not out of choice but of habit.

    Anyway, my point is like you said but (paraphased), we don’t need them and yet we cannot live without them….

    Jason

    • Li Kim on Jan 26, 2016 at 2:52 pm

      Dear Jason,
      I find your response interesting and I thank you for sharing. I see and have also experienced the kind of people which you have written about. And I will agree that there have been so many times I thought my head would explode. Then of course when I am calm and mature about things, and I embrace the Dharma teachings by my Guru, I see that we cannot change the world and its inhabitants but we can indeed start the work within our own selves, bringing forth the Buddha within. And, I realised that many a times, we cannot see the faults, and virtues, in others unless they are in existence in ourselves. Yes, I know this was quite a scary realisation… “I have those faults too!? Oh No!” This subsequently made me choose to look at the positive and virtues in others so that I too could recognise they exist in me too. 🙂

  8. Chris on Jan 25, 2016 at 2:02 am

    Dear Li Kim,

    Thank you for sharing your thoughts and guidelines on how to live with poeple. I personally is charged guilty for all the above no-nos. I was a selfish kid that lives like the world revolves around me. I was very judgemental to everyone and anyone that I meet. My first impression of them will dictate how I will treat them and how much I will want to interact with them. I was lucky to have a bunch of close friends that tolerated my obnoxious behaviour.

    However, everything changed when I started to read up dharma books and listen to Rinpoche’s youtube teachings. The guidelines you have given above is quite similar to some of the lessons that I learnt as well. I learn to understand the people around me more and what are they feeling at that very moment. I learnt not to be judgemental because no ones likes to be close to someone like that. I am still in the process of transforming and your guidelines really pointed it out clearly for me reflect upon myself again.

    • Li Kim on Jan 26, 2016 at 2:55 pm

      Hi Chris,
      I am happy that this article could resonate with you. I can relate to your sharing about who you were before, sounds like we were carved from a similar stone. hahahaha… Enjoy your transformation to be better. Rinpoche’s teachings are really practical and insightful. It is also easy to understand and apply into our daily lives.

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  • Lin Mun
    Wednesday, Mar 1. 2017 09:54 PM
    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing this beautiful story. I believe miracles happened because we believe in Buddha and Protector. We may not be able to see or understand how it happens but I believe with the blessing of Buddha, it will happen. Importantly we have the right motivation and towards the benefit of others.

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/autobiography/the-mala.html
  • Alice Tay
    Wednesday, Mar 1. 2017 05:39 PM
    Rejoice Mitra in his endeavours to use his own language to give dharma teachings and introduce Dorje Shugden to his Nepali friends, helped to install a Dorje Shugden statue in their work hall. This is wonderful and may his good aspirations come true i.e. to spread the dharma with his own language by doing more and serving the Nepali communities.

    Thank you Rinpoche for this wonderful sharing and I shall be more compassion to everyone and keep this in mind:
    We need to take the time to teach everyone dharma, prayers and give them hope at their level.
    No one who wishes to learn dharma should be left out.

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/buddhas-dharma/mitra-teaches-bhagwan-dorje-shugden-in-nepali.html
  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Mar 1. 2017 04:10 PM
    Since young i loved reading ghost stories ,I am scared but not now as i grow older.As i believe we do not disturb them, they will too not disturb us.They do exist after all ….trust and have faith in whatever religion we practice for sure and we will not be connected to them and have protection by our powerful protector.We do love the things that scare us ,maybe out of curiosity wanted to know more. Thats it nothing more.
    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing and Shakila for explanation in details , different unseen beings or ghost.
    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/science-mysteries/boo-why-do-we-love-the-things-that-scare-us.html#comment-736967
  • Samfoonheei
    Wednesday, Mar 1. 2017 03:34 PM
    Looking at those few photos i could imagine ,those chickens had suffered
    so much pain,is the consumption of battery farmed eggs. Its good to be on vegetarian so as to less killing of live stocks and eggs onto our plates The egg industry hides its practices, no one knows about the cruelty till they saw it with own eyes and that many people might think twice of eating farmed eggs.The hens were crammed in small dirty cages… so sick and exhausted.
    Thank you Rinpoche for sharing.
    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/animals-vegetarianism/a-chicken-and-egg-situation.html
  • Stella Cheang
    Wednesday, Mar 1. 2017 02:50 PM
    Rejoice to see Nepalese learning up the prayers of Dorje Shugden who can help them remove obstacles that are hindering their spiritual progress. Thank you, Rinpoche for this wonderful sharing and to Mitra for the hard work in bringing Dorje Shugden and Dharma to many people.

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/buddhas-dharma/mitra-teaches-bhagwan-dorje-shugden-in-nepali.html
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    Tuesday, Feb 28. 2017 12:49 PM
    Thank you for this wonderful write up about communal living with the Dharma family members. It makes complete sense to get to know the people whom we work closely with both during and after working hours. It is essential to understand their thinking process and mannerism to cut down any unnecessary misunderstanding; and better still, capitalize on each others’ strength for better results. It also makes “work” less stressful. This is totally THE thing for the people who has no huge family commitments. This article also gives me a glimpse into Rinpoche’s vision of creating a community living. Fast forward 7 years, Rinpoche’s vision is manifesting as Kechara Forest Retreat! Rejoice!

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/kechara-13-depts/dharma-houses.html
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    Tuesday, Feb 28. 2017 12:37 PM
    Thank you for the wonderful compilation of Rinpoche’s teachings and sharings that owned the year 2013! Each post, tweet and youtube is very valuable because of the profound Dharma from Rinpoche that not only serves as our daily guidance but also topics for us to contemplate and meditate on. I will bookmark this page so that I can refer to these teachings again and again.

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/inspiration-worthy-words/2013-in-review-the-very-best-of-tsem-rinpoche.html
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    Tuesday, Feb 28. 2017 11:36 AM
    ***Tashi Lhunpo Monastery***

    Located in Shigatse, the 2nd largest city of Tibet, Tashi Lunpo is a beautiful Tibetan Buddhist Gelugpa lineage monastery that continues to practice Dorje Shugden without discrimination!
    Founded by the 1st Dalai Lama Gyalwa Gendun Drup in 1447. It is one of the six big monasteries of the Gelugpa lineage, it covers almost 300,000 square meters (3,229,279 sq. ft.). Since the 4th Panchen Lama took over as the head of the monastery, Tashi Lhunpo has been the seat of all Panchen Lamas up until this day… http://www.dorjeshugden.org/temples/tashi-lhunpo-monastery
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    Tuesday, Feb 28. 2017 11:35 AM
    This is really SHOCKING! You must READ!

    How Tibetan leadership treats a sponsor (jindak)

    As a kid, all of us (both Rinpoche and my family) had very little personal funds. We didn’t even have enough to have a Dharma centre, so Rinpoche would give Dharma teachings in various people’s houses. A portion of the funds raised would always be redirected to the monasteries for whatever requests they had made. Today, none of us are allowed to go to the monasteries we have raised so much sponsorship for… http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/dorje-shugden/how-tibetan-leadership-treats-a-sponsor-jindak.html
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    For Pastor Shin – Thanks!
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    Monday, Feb 27. 2017 09:29 PM
    Rejoice for the Kechara team members for being able to receive the gift from Rinpoche. It is also how much Guru love and care for his students well being. We can repay Guru’s kindness by doing more dharma work and transform ourselves to be better so we can benefit others.

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/students-friends/chinese-new-year-shopping.html
  • Stella Cheang
    Monday, Feb 27. 2017 06:05 PM
    So much pain and torturing inflicted on the poor animals to satisfy our demand for eggs. I hope this article creates the awareness for all of us to rethink our diet and find alternatives to replace eggs. Getting free range eggs or “kampung” eggs is a slightly better idea as long as we are assured that the farm that produces these eggs provide the free range / “kampung” condition for the chicken. The best idea is to omit egg from our diet completely. Thank you, Rinpoche for this sharing.

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/animals-vegetarianism/a-chicken-and-egg-situation.html
  • Stella Cheang
    Monday, Feb 27. 2017 05:06 PM
    The importance of Fasting Buddha is to remind us that there will be much difficulties in the process to enlightenment and we must overcome them before we can finally achieve success. Fortitude and diligence are the accessories to overcoming the difficulties. It took Buddha six years of hardship and extreme fasting to gain realization on the “Middle Way”, what more for clowns like us? Thank you, Rinpoche for this teaching.

    http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/art-architecture/fasting-buddha.html
  • Joy
    Monday, Feb 27. 2017 07:15 AM
    ***The Blessings of the Guru***

    Guru devotion and clean samaya with one’s Guru are commonly recognised and emphasised as the foundation of Dharma study and practice in all schools of Tibetan Buddhism. From the legendary Padmasambhava of the Nyingma lineage to the revered mahasiddhas Milarepa and Naropa of the Kagyu tradition, to the great Pabongka Rinpoche of the Gelugpa lineage of practitioners; Guru devotion is undisputedly the common and fundamental element for any Dharma realisation, attainment and ultimately Enlightenment… more>> http://www.dorjeshugden.org/blog/the-blessings-of-the-guru
  • Joy
    Monday, Feb 27. 2017 07:14 AM
    For all who wants some sacred images in their environment, you can download & print these high-res images of enlightened beings ABSOLUTELY FREE here
    >>Buddha Images (Free Download)<< http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/downloads/buddha-images.html
    H.E. Tsem Rinpoche has selected & kindly made these beautiful high quality sacred images available for all to have. Enjoy, be blessed & share this with others.

    Do let Rinpoche know at the comments section which images you downloaded as Rinpoche would feel very happy knowing it has benefited you 😀

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The Unknown

The Known and unknown are both feared,
Known is being comfortable and stagnant,
The unknown may be growth and opportunities,
One shall never know if one fears the unknown more than the known.
Who says the unknown would be worse than the known?
But then again, the unknown is sometimes worse than the known. In the end nothing is known unless we endeavour,
So go pursue all the way with the unknown,
because all unknown with familiarity becomes the known.
~Tsem Rinpoche

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Dharma boy, Mumu boy and Oser girl checking out the scene..cute
4 days ago
Dharma boy, Mumu boy and Oser girl checking out the scene..cute
My Dharma boy has such a cute expression here. He is a good boy!
4 days ago
My Dharma boy has such a cute expression here. He is a good boy!
February 9,2017-My Mumu boy and Oser girl are just relaxing together..super cute
3 weeks ago
February 9,2017-My Mumu boy and Oser girl are just relaxing together..super cute
Click on the picture to enlarge and see what Suzy from Hawaii commented on the Dorje Shugden issue after much research. She is very candid and honest. Refreshing. Original is posted here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vl-4lIwxph4
3 weeks ago
Click on the picture to enlarge and see what Suzy from Hawaii commented on the Dorje Shugden issue after much research. She is very candid and honest. Refreshing. Original is posted here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vl-4lIwxph4
This is a good one to read
1 month ago
This is a good one to read
Mumu is silly and cute and funny
1 month ago
Mumu is silly and cute and funny
Mumu\'s hair is messy and he looks funny
1 month ago
Mumu's hair is messy and he looks funny
I am in the process of creating beautiful Dorje Shugden and Kechara Forest Retreat watches at this time. So we can take precious protector and Kechara Forest Retreat wherever we go and be blessed everytime we see what time it is. 
I am perfecting the designs with a great team and will update when done but these are just some samples that arrived. 
Feast your eyes! 

Tsem Rinpoche
2 months ago
I am in the process of creating beautiful Dorje Shugden and Kechara Forest Retreat watches at this time. So we can take precious protector and Kechara Forest Retreat wherever we go and be blessed everytime we see what time it is. I am perfecting the designs with a great team and will update when done but these are just some samples that arrived. Feast your eyes! Tsem Rinpoche
                        Pick the practice, devotion and precepts of Vajra Yogini\'s path over everything and anything in samsara. Samsara has nothing of value and nothing lasting to offer. You are born in suffering, live in suffering, die in suffering and enter bardo and future lives expecting more sufferings. This is not a negative way of looking at things but the truth. If the truth is negative, so it is the truth. Devote oneself to the guru, dharma work, dharma practice and bringing dharma to others compassionately. Choose to practice Vajra Yogini now with the preliminaries. You can start right now: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/inspiration-worthy-words/starting-on-vajra-yogini-now.html  Much care, Tsem Rinpoche
2 months ago
Pick the practice, devotion and precepts of Vajra Yogini's path over everything and anything in samsara. Samsara has nothing of value and nothing lasting to offer. You are born in suffering, live in suffering, die in suffering and enter bardo and future lives expecting more sufferings. This is not a negative way of looking at things but the truth. If the truth is negative, so it is the truth. Devote oneself to the guru, dharma work, dharma practice and bringing dharma to others compassionately. Choose to practice Vajra Yogini now with the preliminaries. You can start right now: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/tsem-tulku-rinpoche/inspiration-worthy-words/starting-on-vajra-yogini-now.html Much care, Tsem Rinpoche
Message to Tibetans in English
2 months ago
Message to Tibetans in English
Message to the Tibetans
2 months ago
Message to the Tibetans
Left to right: Kensur Jampa Yeshe Rinpoche, Sharpa Choeje Jetsun Lobsang Nyima, Kyabje Zemey Rinpoche, Kyabje Lati Rinpoche, 101st Gaden Tripa Jetsun Lungrik Namgyal. Great lamas of Gaden Shartse Monastery
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Left to right: Kensur Jampa Yeshe Rinpoche, Sharpa Choeje Jetsun Lobsang Nyima, Kyabje Zemey Rinpoche, Kyabje Lati Rinpoche, 101st Gaden Tripa Jetsun Lungrik Namgyal. Great lamas of Gaden Shartse Monastery
A beautiful Indian rendition of Gyenze Dorje Shugden manifesting in wealth form
2 months ago
A beautiful Indian rendition of Gyenze Dorje Shugden manifesting in wealth form
This is my thoughts and determination to share with you. Please open and read. Thank you for your time. Tsem Rinpoche
2 months ago
This is my thoughts and determination to share with you. Please open and read. Thank you for your time. Tsem Rinpoche
Nepalese King Birendra receives His Holiness Panchen Rinpoche in Nepal
3 months ago
Nepalese King Birendra receives His Holiness Panchen Rinpoche in Nepal
Guess what Zava Damdin Rinpoche did in Mongolia recently with 7,800 people??? Very interesting and it is a must read:  http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=116206
3 months ago
Guess what Zava Damdin Rinpoche did in Mongolia recently with 7,800 people??? Very interesting and it is a must read:  http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=116206
This huge Buddha in Korea is magnificent
3 months ago
This huge Buddha in Korea is magnificent
The very first oracle of Dorje Shugden in trance statue. I have commissioned this.
3 months ago
The very first oracle of Dorje Shugden in trance statue. I have commissioned this.
Such a old and ancient thangka painting of Dorje Shugden. He has been around in Tibet practiced for hundreds of years.
3 months ago
Such a old and ancient thangka painting of Dorje Shugden. He has been around in Tibet practiced for hundreds of years.
One of the "Four Exalted Brothers" Avalokiteshvara statues, Phagpa Wati of Kyirong, which is now with H.H. the Dalai Lama in Dharamsala.
3 months ago
One of the "Four Exalted Brothers" Avalokiteshvara statues, Phagpa Wati of Kyirong, which is now with H.H. the Dalai Lama in Dharamsala.
Kyabje Zemey, Kyabje Zong Rinpoche and Kyabje Pabongka Choktrul Rinpoche
3 months ago
Kyabje Zemey, Kyabje Zong Rinpoche and Kyabje Pabongka Choktrul Rinpoche
My Oser girl and Mumu boy are so adorable
3 months ago
My Oser girl and Mumu boy are so adorable
Wow this meditator in his cave in front of a painting of Yamantaka draped with a white khata of respect. He sits among bones to remind him of impermanence and our future. The bones inspire him strongly to let go of all attachments in this life and focus on dharma, meditation and liberation and he is doing so. Very beautiful and inspirational. Tsem Rinpoche
3 months ago
Wow this meditator in his cave in front of a painting of Yamantaka draped with a white khata of respect. He sits among bones to remind him of impermanence and our future. The bones inspire him strongly to let go of all attachments in this life and focus on dharma, meditation and liberation and he is doing so. Very beautiful and inspirational. Tsem Rinpoche
Tenzing Norgay found this in Nepal. Guess what it is?
4 months ago
Tenzing Norgay found this in Nepal. Guess what it is?
Sir Edmund Hillary
4 months ago
Sir Edmund Hillary
Halloween is my favorite holiday. Wild natural plants and flowers are my favorite offering. Buddha\'s teachings on meditation and Yidam practice bring the ultimate results and happiness. ~Tsem Rinpoche
4 months ago
Halloween is my favorite holiday. Wild natural plants and flowers are my favorite offering. Buddha's teachings on meditation and Yidam practice bring the ultimate results and happiness. ~Tsem Rinpoche
Previous lives do resemble current lives especially if they are a recognized incarnation. If notice how similar the previous and current Trijang Rinpoche looks. The eyes, bone structure, expression, long neck, thin and overall look. Beautiful. I\'ve seen this phenomena over and over in many Rinpoche incarnations. Especially when you compare them with pictures of previous and current lives at around the same ages. Something powerfully karmic about this. Tsem Rinpoche
5 months ago
Previous lives do resemble current lives especially if they are a recognized incarnation. If notice how similar the previous and current Trijang Rinpoche looks. The eyes, bone structure, expression, long neck, thin and overall look. Beautiful. I've seen this phenomena over and over in many Rinpoche incarnations. Especially when you compare them with pictures of previous and current lives at around the same ages. Something powerfully karmic about this. Tsem Rinpoche
It\'s nice to have monks visitors and resident monks in Kechara
5 months ago
It's nice to have monks visitors and resident monks in Kechara
                         Taken in Lake Champlain in Canada. A huge water monster...neat...
5 months ago
Taken in Lake Champlain in Canada. A huge water monster...neat...
Beautiful! His Holiness Kyabje Trijang Dorje Chang has always been good friends with His Holiness Karmapa. No wonder H.H. Karmapa never spoke against Dorje Shugden. Two reasons perhaps: One is he knows the qualities of Trijang Rinpoche who is a attained being. And Karmapa himself has clairvoyance to perceive the true nature of Dorje Shugden directly. I love to see great beings like this manifesting closeness. When I see, I just want to prostrate to them and thank them for sharing such good examples to someone like me. Praise to the ego-less mind! Tsem Rinpoche
5 months ago
Beautiful! His Holiness Kyabje Trijang Dorje Chang has always been good friends with His Holiness Karmapa. No wonder H.H. Karmapa never spoke against Dorje Shugden. Two reasons perhaps: One is he knows the qualities of Trijang Rinpoche who is a attained being. And Karmapa himself has clairvoyance to perceive the true nature of Dorje Shugden directly. I love to see great beings like this manifesting closeness. When I see, I just want to prostrate to them and thank them for sharing such good examples to someone like me. Praise to the ego-less mind! Tsem Rinpoche
Serkong Dorje Chang on the left and his son Serkong Tsenshab Rinpoche on the right.
5 months ago
Serkong Dorje Chang on the left and his son Serkong Tsenshab Rinpoche on the right.
High lamas in France September 2016
5 months ago
High lamas in France September 2016
༧གོང་ས་ཆེན་པོ་སྐུ་འཕྲེང་བཅུ་བཞི་པ་མཆོག་དང་རྡོ་རྗེ་ཤུགས་ལྡན། - Interesting relationship between 14th Dalai Lama and Dorje Shugden:   http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=109757
5 months ago
༧གོང་ས་ཆེན་པོ་སྐུ་འཕྲེང་བཅུ་བཞི་པ་མཆོག་དང་རྡོ་རྗེ་ཤུགས་ལྡན། - Interesting relationship between 14th Dalai Lama and Dorje Shugden: http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=109757
Dalai Lama Says We Can Practise Dorje Shugden Finally! Read more on this development--- http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=109777
5 months ago
Dalai Lama Says We Can Practise Dorje Shugden Finally! Read more on this development--- http://www.tsemrinpoche.com/?p=109777
More time spent in dharma work is more karma collected to be happy and more time spent in non-dharma works is more karma collected to be unhappy.~Tsem Rinpoche
5 months ago
More time spent in dharma work is more karma collected to be happy and more time spent in non-dharma works is more karma collected to be unhappy.~Tsem Rinpoche
All Dorje Shugden prophesizes will come to pass,
 Those who generate refuge and merits will trust, 
 By trusting one will see the good results of his pronouncements,
 By seeing the good results, one\'s path becomes more clear, 
 The path of practice, purification and siddhic results, 
 This would eliminate the samsara within our minds.
 ~Tsem Rinpoche
5 months ago
All Dorje Shugden prophesizes will come to pass, Those who generate refuge and merits will trust, By trusting one will see the good results of his pronouncements, By seeing the good results, one's path becomes more clear, The path of practice, purification and siddhic results, This would eliminate the samsara within our minds. ~Tsem Rinpoche
Large Dorje Shugden statue built by the 5th Dalai Lama and housed in Trode Khangsar. Sock Wand and Mdm Chuah took this picture in Lhasa, Tibet 2016
5 months ago
Large Dorje Shugden statue built by the 5th Dalai Lama and housed in Trode Khangsar. Sock Wand and Mdm Chuah took this picture in Lhasa, Tibet 2016
Our own Kecharian Mdm. Chua with the oracle of Dorje Shugden Gen Tenzin Tsultrim in Lhasa, Tibet 2016
5 months ago
Our own Kecharian Mdm. Chua with the oracle of Dorje Shugden Gen Tenzin Tsultrim in Lhasa, Tibet 2016
Our very own Kecharian Mdm Chua standing in front of holy Trode Khangsar-the Chapel to Dorje Shugden built 400 years ago by the Great 5th Dalai Lama-Tibet 2016
5 months ago
Our very own Kecharian Mdm Chua standing in front of holy Trode Khangsar-the Chapel to Dorje Shugden built 400 years ago by the Great 5th Dalai Lama-Tibet 2016
Our very own Kecharian Mdm Chua standing in front of holy Gaden Monastery, Tibet 2016
5 months ago
Our very own Kecharian Mdm Chua standing in front of holy Gaden Monastery, Tibet 2016
                         This is the oracle of Dorje Shugden in Lhasa, Tibet. His name is Gen Tenzin Tsultrim of Sera Monastery in Tibet.
5 months ago
This is the oracle of Dorje Shugden in Lhasa, Tibet. His name is Gen Tenzin Tsultrim of Sera Monastery in Tibet.
Ms. Sock Wan, Oracle of Dorje Shugden in Tibet Gen Tenzin Tsultrim, Mdm Chuah and Mr. Tashi in Tibet 2016
5 months ago
Ms. Sock Wan, Oracle of Dorje Shugden in Tibet Gen Tenzin Tsultrim, Mdm Chuah and Mr. Tashi in Tibet 2016
Mahasiddha Kyabje Gangchen Rinpoche, H.H. Kyabje Trijang Rinpoche and Ven. Rabten Choktrul Rinpoche 2016
5 months ago
Mahasiddha Kyabje Gangchen Rinpoche, H.H. Kyabje Trijang Rinpoche and Ven. Rabten Choktrul Rinpoche 2016
His Eminence Mahasiddha Gangchen Rinpoche and the official oracle of Dorje Shugden Panglung Kuten Choji lah in Italy together September 2016
5 months ago
His Eminence Mahasiddha Gangchen Rinpoche and the official oracle of Dorje Shugden Panglung Kuten Choji lah in Italy together September 2016
My thoughts on Malaysia. Thank you. Tsem Rinpoche
6 months ago
My thoughts on Malaysia. Thank you. Tsem Rinpoche
Beautiful thangka of Vajra Yogini. Look at the details where she appears in visions and also takes people to Kechara.
6 months ago
Beautiful thangka of Vajra Yogini. Look at the details where she appears in visions and also takes people to Kechara.
Left to right:

His Holiness the Gaden Throne holder Jetsun Lungrik Namgyal, His Holiness Kyabje Zong Rinpoche (very young) and His Eminence Tsem Rinpoche in Gaden Shartse Prayer Hall during prayers.
6 months ago
Left to right: His Holiness the Gaden Throne holder Jetsun Lungrik Namgyal, His Holiness Kyabje Zong Rinpoche (very young) and His Eminence Tsem Rinpoche in Gaden Shartse Prayer Hall during prayers.
 It\'s nice when families support the spiritual journeys of their children. This is one beautiful family of Pastor Niral of Kechara
6 months ago
It's nice when families support the spiritual journeys of their children. This is one beautiful family of Pastor Niral of Kechara
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  • [11/02/2017] Mumu darling is a very good boy.
    3 weeks ago
    [11/02/2017] Mumu darling is a very good boy.
  • [11/02/2017] Mumu wants to go bye bye!
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    [11/02/2017] Mumu wants to go bye bye!
  • [11/02/2017] I love you mumu boy
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    [11/02/2017] I love you mumu boy
  • [11/02/2017] Mumu and Oser eating together.
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    [11/02/2017] Mumu and Oser eating together.
  • Great spiritual rock carving in Tibet
    1 month ago
    Great spiritual rock carving in Tibet
  • You will Never be Ready
    2 months ago
    You will Never be Ready
    Dear friends, watch this video and ready, if we keep waiting till we are ready, that day will never come. Tsem Rinpoche
  • Stop asking for Easy
    2 months ago
    Stop asking for Easy
    This video is powerful because it's the truth. It applies to anything. It applies to our dharma practice. Watch the video and share it. Tsem Rinpoche
  • Must Watch this Video!
    3 months ago
    Must Watch this Video!
  • Sacred Tibetan Incense - Nyimo County, Lhasa, Tibet
    4 months ago
    Sacred Tibetan Incense - Nyimo County, Lhasa, Tibet
  • Kyabje Denma Gonsa Rinpoche on Samaya
    4 months ago
    Kyabje Denma Gonsa Rinpoche on Samaya
    ཁྱེད་ཀྱི་བཀའ་སློབ་དོན་སྙིང་དེ།།གང་གི་རྣ་བར་བདུད་རྩི་མོད།།འོན་ཀྱང་འགའ་ཡི་རྣ་ལམ་དུ།། བྲག་ཆ་བཞིན་དུ་འགྱུར་སྲིད་མོད།། ཚང་མས་ཚར་རེ་གཟིགས་རོགས།། Kyabje Denma Gonsa Rinpoche telling people that it is important to have guru samaya. It use to be that way in the great monasteries. We should not create problems and schisms. If we want to practice a protector, then do so, if not it's okay, but don't make trouble. One should just practice the Buddha Dharma well. To do good practice. If you have faith in Dorje Shugden and trust all the way, he will definitely help you. But most important is to practice the dharma. This is his advice in short here. It's good to let more Tibetans hear this holy speech and appeal by this very senior Rinpoche. TR
  • His Holiness the Dalai Lama on Propitiating Protectors & Oracles
    4 months ago
    His Holiness the Dalai Lama on Propitiating Protectors & Oracles
    This was on FB and I came across it. His Holiness said in Tibetan institutions there is a lot of propitiating protector/oracles and this is not what Buddhism is about. So they are putting Nechung/Tema oracles within the video to say what is he talking about when he does it himself. This is confusing is the message to his people. TR
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    5 months ago
    Look how this crab eats a cherry.. Incredible and cute... Never seen this before. They have feelings too. Tsem Rinpoche
  • This is Sarah. Do you have 30 seconds for her? Her life in just 30 seconds!
    5 months ago
    This is Sarah. Do you have 30 seconds for her? Her life in just 30 seconds!
  • See what is your fortune today!
    5 months ago
    See what is your fortune today!
  • Kyabje Trijang Rinpoche recites offering stanza to Dorje Shugden Septemeber 2016
    5 months ago
    Kyabje Trijang Rinpoche recites offering stanza to Dorje Shugden Septemeber 2016

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Pastor Han Nee led the prayers so that KSDS students can follow the prayers slowly. Alice Tay, KSDS
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Nice dharma sharing by Teacher Lin Mun and Jayce for KSDS age group from 9-17. Alice Tay, KSDS
Teacher Jayce led the students do 3 prostrations in front of Rinpoche's throne. Alice Tay, KSDS
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Teacher Jayce led the students do 3 prostrations in front of Rinpoche's throne. Alice Tay, KSDS
Teacher Jayce led the students do 3 prostrations in front of Rinpoche's throne. Alice Tay, KSDS
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Teacher Jayce led the students do 3 prostrations in front of Rinpoche's throne. Alice Tay, KSDS
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Children helping in the technical room during the 2016 Graduation Day. Lin Mun KSDS.
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Great performance by the Peekaboo Creative academy during 2016 Lantern festival. Lin Mun KSDS
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Great performance by the Peekaboo Creative academy during 2016 Lantern festival. Lin Mun KSDS
KSK and KSDS work together to send food from donation during Halloween  to various homes. Lin Mun KSDS
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KSK and KSDS work together to send food from donation during Halloween to various homes. Lin Mun KSDS
Gotong royong on Malaysia Day in Jalan Chamang. It's our responsibility to care for the cleanliness & environment. Lin Mun KSDS
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Gotong royong on Malaysia Day in Jalan Chamang. It's our responsibility to care for the cleanliness & environment. Lin Mun KSDS
Morning exercise, Boxie enjoys swimming in the pool - by Jace Chong
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Morning exercise, Boxie enjoys swimming in the pool - by Jace Chong
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